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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
Anjin
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Member # 11594
Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, February 25th (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone here.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
fallenfromgrace
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Member # 11123
Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, February 26th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please pray for me and my WW. She just sat in for an hour with my IC. I pray that the Holy Spirit starts to work in her heart and that GOD opens her heart to reconcile!
GOD bless!
ffg


Me: BS 38
WW: 34
2 Kids: D7, S5
D-day 6\6\06
NC 6\18\06
2nd D-day 2\6\07
2nd NC 2\10\07
WW took the kids and moved on 3\14

Posts: 131 | Registered: Jun 2006 | From: WI
jjct
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Member # 17484
Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, February 27th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for all. He is mighty.

Posts: 6025 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
LuvMyWH
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Member # 12251
Default  Posted: 12:00 AM, February 28th (Thursday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been awhile, couldn't find my password. But have been lurking, keeping everyone in my thoughts.

From our end we can use some prayers. Told my pastor if satan isn't attacking from one front (FWH) it's another (co-worker). Work has settled down for now, but don't trust the co-worker at all (she triggers me like crazy). Don't know if God sent her into my life to test me or me into hers to test her -- whatever the case it's been tough at work for months on end. Almost like multiple D-Days, just as soon as you start to get a little comfortable wham!

We also haven't been able to get our house sold yet. We've got more work to do and more $ to spend on the work. Need to get the house sold and that stress to go away.

Keeping SI in my thoughts and prayers.

(edited to add)

P.S. I really missed everyone here. SI has been a real blessing for me in so many ways.

[This message edited by LuvMyWH at 12:01 AM, February 28th (Thursday)]


"If God is with me who could be against me!"
D-Day 12/21/05; R-Day 12/30/05
Me - BS/40; WS/40; 2 DDs

Posts: 1305 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: In God's Hands
capri
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Member # 14940
Default  Posted: 12:07 AM, March 3rd (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So much for prayers. I prayed all day for wisdom, guidance, etc., etc., -- just now called fwh at work about something mundane, asked what was meant to be ONE question about ow2, and ended up going off on him for an hour.

He makes me crazy. He's still trying to tell me that it's absolutely meaningless to send the office tramp an e-mail telling her the first thing he ever thought of her was 'she's cute' because it would have just been too stupid to answer that question with 'oh, another nube.' Better yet, maybe 35 year old married men shouldn't be trading 'friendship surveys' with the 23 year old office slut who's already sleeping with all his married co-workers in the first place!


Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011

Posts: 4483 | Registered: Jun 2007
napewastewin
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Default  Posted: 4:55 AM, March 3rd (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Our prayers may not always be answered in the way we expect or in the way we want them to....but they are answered according to our Heavenly Fathers Will. (He is not a geanie in a lamp, comanded to come forth and give us what we want) He answers our prayers by doing what is best for us...


Capri, I know you hurt and that you are angry. God is there for you...May He grant you healing and peace.


take your candle and go light your world

Posts: 1443 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Michigan
napewastewin
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Default  Posted: 4:56 AM, March 3rd (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

May God grant all here healing and peace..In Jesus name......amen


take your candle and go light your world

Posts: 1443 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Michigan
pleasew8
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Member # 17776
Default  Posted: 7:31 AM, March 5th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tonight we (FWS and I) go to see a lecture of Fr. Padovani. He is a preist, psychotherapist specializing in individual, marriage and family therapy. He authored "Healing Wounded Relationships" which I am going to pick up tonight.

Pray that we (FWS and I) can open our minds and our hearts and let the Light of Jesus Christ be our center.

Thanks
Pleasew8


Me - BS-47
Him - FWH - 46 admitted sex addict
married 23 years together 30yrs
childhood sweethearts (or so I thought)
Kids - 3 boys
20yrs, 19 yrs, 15 yrs
D-days- too many
both in IC and MC
R is a lot of work.
Trying to make a different rela

Posts: 100 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: New Jersey
momofthree2007
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Member # 14766
Default  Posted: 12:11 AM, March 14th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My FWH is a sex addict. We reconciled. However, he told me he's falling down the old path again. He's looking up porn sites and flirting with other women, which was the pattern of my ddays. Please pray that he doesn't fall back into it because this time it'll be over for good.


H - XWH (32) RSA
D-Day 1, OW1: 3/20/07
D-Day 2. OW2: 6/24/07
Divorced, 08/23/2012
Married 7 years, together 9
One day fling each; online As turned physical physical

Posts: 491 | Registered: May 2007 | From: Florida
beyondpain6107
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Member # 15120
Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, March 14th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH has left for the OW after 6 months of trying to R.

Please help me in praying that I do God's will and that he will speak to my heart and lead me in the direction he wants. Please pray that my WH is resued from the evil one. Please pray that truth come to my WH and the lies he is believing come unravelled.


Me-BS(then 35)
Divorced 2008
Married 15 years
D-Day 6/01/07
D-Day #2 7/25/07 - I'm so stupid for believing
Dday #3 2/19/08 False R - Was good for a while
D 7/16/08
2 Children S-17 D-14

Praising God everyday for setting me free.


Posts: 967 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Texas
Anjin
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Member # 11594
Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone here.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
angeleyes
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Member # 18697
Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello everyone. I am new to this, and I'm glad I found others who believe in the power of prayer.

I'm in a state of confusion. My WH told so many lies, and had emotional affair before we were married and continued with after we were married. Not only the emotional affair was a problem, but he degraded me and disrespected me. I'm in confusion right now if I should spare my heart and try to reconcile. He says he wants to, but I can no longer trust him and believe it will not happen again.

I'm so lost in confusion and ask for prayers that I may find my way once again....

Me: BS 27
Him: WS 25
Married: Almost 3 years
Together: Almost 8 years
D Day: Jan 16, 2007 and others


Posts: 2 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: Maryland
Anjin
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Member # 11594
Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for everyone...

Maybe it seems cliche, but remember that you are not alone...there's always places to turn to for help, and God is always listening. May God strengthen everyone here, and guide them through every day. Thank you God also for our blessings, and help us to see them for what they are.


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
doistay2008
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Member # 18898
Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, May 1st (Thursday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi All,
I'm new to this thread. But I do believe that prayer is what has gotten me thru this far. The day after D-Day, I was on the phone with a counselor from EAP cryn my eyes out. I said I had been on my knees for 24 hours. She told me to stay there. (smile) THe amazing thing is that God has placed so many people in my path to help me through this. I am awed. So when I start to have apity party and start asking God why did he let this happen to me, I have to check myself and remember that is he awesome and is preparing me for things that I can't handle right now.
I hope this post isn't too preachy or sappy. I've done alot of complaining lately. Just wanted to put in writing that I am grateful for the changes in my life and H life. I haven't learned to be thankful for OC yet. But I have faith that everything will be alright.


Me: 30
Him: 30
Married 2 years/
Togetherish 8
OC: born feb 08
No COM

Posts: 210 | Registered: Mar 2008
vale
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Member # 16607
Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I need your prayers. I donīt feel well. Please ask God to show me His mercy. Thank you


Ya no te quiero, es cierto, pero cuanto te quise...
Pablo Neruda

Posts: 817 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: Mexico City
doistay2008
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Member # 18898
Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Vale,
Sending up prayers for you


Me: 30
Him: 30
Married 2 years/
Togetherish 8
OC: born feb 08
No COM

Posts: 210 | Registered: Mar 2008
doistay2008
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Member # 18898
Default  Posted: 3:58 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Vale,
Sending up prayers for you


Me: 30
Him: 30
Married 2 years/
Togetherish 8
OC: born feb 08
No COM

Posts: 210 | Registered: Mar 2008
jjct
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Member # 17484
Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would give this to pray-ers.

Those who believe there are invisible ones.

It's amazing the gospels don't say; "Jesus just cried his whole life."

Thank the Father for Him, I don't know how He did it,

being unsearchable & all....

I would tell you that there's alot of things on knees i've seen,

holy winged hugs. I hear the rustle
rushing
enfolding and soon.

They are.


Posts: 6025 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
doistay2008
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Member # 18898
Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, May 22nd (Thursday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for all

[This message edited by doistay2008 at 9:13 PM, May 22nd (Thursday)]


Me: 30
Him: 30
Married 2 years/
Togetherish 8
OC: born feb 08
No COM

Posts: 210 | Registered: Mar 2008
Maia
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Member # 8268
Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, May 23rd (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

pray for my server

man I'm exhausted.

server is down and has been all day, many many many unhappy people. I appreciate it. know it isn't on topic but totally urgent. my business is going down as it stays down.

thank you.


We will miss you Unicornsearcher. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc

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