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User Topic: Support Through Prayer
JustDone
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, May 25th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Maia)))

Prayers said.

- JD


Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.

Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.


Posts: 2764 | Registered: Feb 2006
Anjin
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Member # 11594
Default  Posted: 6:22 AM, May 28th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for Maia - both servers and sanity

Praying for everyone here!


Me: H 37 FWS
Her: W 34 BS
Married 11 years, Together 15
D-day April 17th 2006
Still hopeful for R
Psalm 51

Posts: 146 | Registered: Aug 2006
HeavyE
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Member # 19333
Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, May 29th (Thursday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I strongly believe in the power of prayer.

I am saying prayers for all of us at SI.

I ask that you keep my family and I in your prayers as well.

I thank God each day that I found this site.


You can't change the wind, but you can adjust your sails.

Me Tarzan
Her Jane

Reconciled
D-Day 4/14/08


Posts: 9561 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: Birthplace of America's Music
Frog
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Member # 19331
Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, May 29th (Thursday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am a firm believer in prayer also, I wouldn't be with FWH today if I weren't.

Anyway, I was hoping to get some prayers sent our way as well. FWH needs to find a different job as the one he is in is where all his infidelity happened because he has too much free time, no boss, and he is often in OW's homes alone and the temptation is great. So he needs to find a new job asap.

I am also looking for work as a job change for him will likely bring a great pay reduction. So I need to find a job asap as well. We are also looking to move in a month and need to find someplace cheaper than we are paying now that will be comfortable for us, nothing great, nothing fancy, just comfortable.

Thank you all for your help!


Me, BS 33
Him, FWS 35 (MrFrog)
Married 10 years
DDay 12-11-07

Posts: 834 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: NW US
survivinglies
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Member # 19376
Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, May 31st (Saturday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have just now started reading through the posts here and have begun praying for all of you. Sometimes, I find that praying for others helps me find answers.

WH has asked God back into his life. The Holy Spirit is doing amazing things in our marriage and I praise God for it. Because of this, we really feel a lot of spiritual warfare.

I would really appreciate if you all might pray for strength for me. I am exhausted. Also, pray for continued changes in FWH. He is finally the Godly man I've always wanted and I don't want the old one back- ever! We also have trouble with a neighbor who hates us (and we don't know why). We are praying that God blesses them and would like some prayer warriors in on that one with us! : )

Thanks! You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Now I know who to pray for when I am awake at 3am


BS (me)
WS (him)- ONS 1995, 3 month EA 0708
Married: 18, Together: 20, DS & DD
"Onlies" until ONS
95-98 trickle-"we didn't have sex"
D-day #1 (1/23/2008- EA OW#2)
D-day #2 (5/1/2008- ONS OW#1)
Isaiah 40:31

Posts: 1397 | Registered: May 2008 | From: U.S., just a few miles south of insanity
brokeninaz
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Member # 19727
Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, May 31st (Saturday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please just pray for me and my H. I know with prayer and faith we can make it through this stronger than ever.


Me - BS/24
Him -FWH/24
DDay - 5/25/08
children- 2 boys 4 and 2
in R

Posts: 29 | Registered: May 2008 | From: some where over the rainbow dealing with the witch
MollyJo
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Member # 18820
Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, June 12th (Thursday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have never asked anyone to pray for me in my life, but as long as I'm at it, i might as well give ya'll the whole list (maybe you can split it up between yourselves)

1. For the fertility treatments that WS & I are about to go through for the 3rd time, that His will be done and that I have the strength the accept whatever that is

2. that WS continue to be led to a real understanding of Him

3. the OW find some peace and OC be healthy and protected

4. that I win the battle to put God 1st, family 2nd, and work last...

Thanks, saying a prayer for all...


Me: BS Him: SOB OC born 9/08. We've split up but I still see him every day and the OW occasionally. Lost my whole life because he couldn't keep it in his pants.

Posts: 219 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: midwest
doistay2008
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, June 12th (Thursday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Molly Jo,

I understand your prayer request. Many of your prayers are on my list too. PLease know that I am praying for you and those around you. Wishing you God's blessings...

DIS


Me: 30
Him: 30
Married 2 years/
Togetherish 8
OC: born feb 08
No COM

Posts: 210 | Registered: Mar 2008
WastedYears
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Member # 19826
Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, June 13th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Molly Jo,

Prayers sent

And praying for all of us here on SI

WY


Me - BS
Her - WS
Married 12 yrs

Posts: 43 | Registered: Jun 2008
dorada
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Member # 19866
Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, June 13th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

my h had a baby with his A in front of my eyes..not knowing it was his of course...she is 28 and i am 46...he is 40...she is young and pretty and im overweight...and i can no longer have children ( three and a first divorce was enouwgh).she was pretending to be my friend as she was having my H`s baby....making me feel her belly as the baby grew...now pease tell that is the sickest thing possible...we are back together again ,the baby is a year old, but things are going good for us...it`s just that i still feel humiliation at being so stupid when in fact i had doughts. they spent 9 months with straight faces and i cant beleive 2 people can do that...she breast fed in my home...i found out the baby was 9 months old....she is no longer in his life and lives in another country so i know there`s nc, but i still feel fat and ugly and old...has someone else`s H had a baby with his A. tell me how you felt about all of it...thanks
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MollyJo
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Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, July 12th (Saturday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Noone seems to come here much anymore, but i need all the prayer i can get...just went thru implantation for IVF, please pray for a successful outcome with a healthy, happy baby!


Me: BS Him: SOB OC born 9/08. We've split up but I still see him every day and the OW occasionally. Lost my whole life because he couldn't keep it in his pants.

Posts: 219 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: midwest
akaKatie
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Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, July 12th (Saturday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am praying for you, MollyJo, that you will be blessed with a beautiful child and that the heart of your your home will be a reflection of God's love for us.


Me - BS, 58 (I'm Katie)
Him - WS, 60
Friends since 1965, together since 1968, married in 1972
3 adult children
LTA - EA/PA/EA 1993(?)-2000
OW: Obsessed with H since 1965, continues "friendship" with MIL
D-Day: H told me May 2006

Posts: 210 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: By the water
lisaloo
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Member # 20082
Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow and yeah! I had no idea there was a forum for prayer here! That being said...if anyone has a moment, Please pray for God to open up an employment avenue for me (as I am unemployed and may be facing life as a single mom with no job and no home if things dont turn around) and pray that my WH is able to return to his faith and see what it is that he needs to see to get back toward glorifying God with his life.


Me: 33 STBXH: 34 DD: 8
D Day (EA): 6-19-08
D Day #2 (SA): 7-5-10
D Day #3 (EA): 11-8-13
WH moved out: 11-18-13
Moved BACK IN (because the lawyer told him to): 11/29/13.
Filed for Divorce: 12-9-13
In house separation...fun, fun, fun.

Posts: 474 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: AL
unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 5:25 PM, August 3rd (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please pray for my family & a friend has to go to the dr to see if he has cancer.

Thank you...


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
foralways
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, August 3rd (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

pray withour ceassing! i will pray and pray...i took the wrong turn for a while: the one that says you can handle it w/ GOD
prayers of thanksgiving for this thread and prayers of supplication for our WS.


what's love got to do with it?
me BS 48 WH 49 M 24 yrs.
Children: awesome sons: 21& 23, amazing daughter 15
D day 2/11/08 - S 2/11/08
R working on it since 5/10/08
7/29/08 find out it was F R
filing for D 8/19/08~ filed 9/8/0
divorced 3/24/09

Posts: 1722 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: Las Vegas
thirdtimeacharm
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Member # 20210
Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi I am a believer and for some reason I have been avoiding this forum. I will pray for all of you on SI, I pray we all find peace in Him and strength and courage to continue to stand in the gap for our spouses and significant others.

Please pray for me and my H, today he was tested OMW was moved back to his office complex to work for the day, he said he saw her but did not speak to her. He did just tell me about it. Please pray that I can continue to listen and hear and open my heart to H.

Thanks


BS- Me 42
H- 41
M- 1 yr
Together 2.5 yrs
DDay - Jan 12, 2008
Him - 2 kids son 18, daughter 24 live with us

EA - Entire relationship/marriage til Jan 08


Posts: 24 | Registered: Jul 2008
dead_but_alive
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Member # 20178
Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Please pray for me, my WH and my children. Please pray that the "fence sitting" will soon end and that the "right" outcome will be done. I want R, but if that's not God's will, please pray that I can handle WH falling off the fence on the other side.

I'm so tired and discouraged and lonely. I just want my marriage and my life back.

Prayers and ((hugs)) to you all


Me - BW

Separated - 11.19.2007 / DIVORCED - 1.13.2010
-- 19 years, 8 months, 24 days of marriage (including 2 years, 1 month, 26 days of separation) legally ended 1.13.2010. I now officially start my new life.


Posts: 2365 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Mississippi
inspiration
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dead but alive I will be praying for you.
Please pray that my husband comes back to his faith soon and realizes what he has done and truely repents.


DD: May28, 2008
Me: 31
him:31
togeather 16 years married 10
Kids 2: D-7, S-5
OW: 21
Divorced: Oct. 20

Posts: 358 | Registered: Jul 2008
dead_but_alive
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Member # 20178
Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, inspiration.

You and your H will be in my prayers.


Me - BW

Separated - 11.19.2007 / DIVORCED - 1.13.2010
-- 19 years, 8 months, 24 days of marriage (including 2 years, 1 month, 26 days of separation) legally ended 1.13.2010. I now officially start my new life.


Posts: 2365 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Mississippi
gracee
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Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying, tonight for all of us.

Gracee


ME- BW
Him- FWH

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