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User Topic: Spouses/Partners Of Sex Addicts
wildfeistykitten
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, November 29th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well as I wrote down in another area here i had a new DDay two nights ago. After we talked about going to www.recoverynation.com and he was on there filling out the assement he got turned on by the porn part and starting looking at porn and when i caught him of course he lied and then the crap hit the fan and he finally came out about all of the other women. GRRRR. He is the true blue deal of the addict. He isn't looking for an emotional tie he just wants that high by acting out his fantasies. I tried to explain to him why in the hell he wasn't supposed to look at porn anymore. That he has to rewire his brain and eventually the masterbaiting to it isn't enough and he will want to act it out again with someone else. (sigh). So I layed down the law again and set my boundaries and tonight again we're going to www.recoverynation.com
Except that he shouldn't have anymore damn secrets and he knows he can't be on the internet alone anymore until he is really into recovery. He said he can't do this by himself and needs help with this so I am going to try to eliminate that fix for him. God i am so tired right now. I wish he would've come clean completely 9 damn months ago.


BS, me 36
WH,bs. 32
M 14 yrs
3 kids.

Posts: 202 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: mo
Eternaloptimist
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, December 1st (Saturday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wild,

I'm so sorry you're going through this. It seems like YOU have a handle on his problem -- but HE doesn't seem to. One of the best pieces of advice I came across told me that I can't micromanage his recovery. He has to take responsibility for it -- all I can do is to keep myself okay. No easy challenge, I know. But it's disempowering to focus on him. And empowering to focus on what you can control -- yourself.
Hang in there... I'm thinking of you.


Me: BS
Him: WS, SA
Married: 12 years
Three kids: 9-year-old D, 7-year-old S, 5-year-old D
D-Day #1: December 11, 2006 (LTA)
D-Day #2: June 17, 2007 (found out about SA)

Posts: 656 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Toronto
gibbonsrose
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, December 2nd (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Interesting article:
http://www.addictionrecov.org/paradigm/P_PR_S00/cont_denure.htm

Although the sex offender info may not apply to most, I found the statistics interesting.

Excerpts from the article:

Behaviors used to produce gratification or to escape internal discomfort can become compulsive (Schneider, 1991). When compulsive sexual acting-out behavior continues, even in the face of negative consequences, it is considered a sign of addiction. For the sexual offender and/or sexual addict, this statement is proven true in the vast majority of cases. Individuals who are sexually addicted and have sexually offended share similar sexual behaviors and thought patterns. For example, both engage in irrational thinking, rationalizing, justifying, denying and defending (Schneider, 1991).

Data based on the self-report of sexual addicts shows similar consequences to those described by sexual offenders. In one study, 70 to 75 percent of sexual addicts have contemplated suicide (Earle and Earle, 2000), yet the frequency for sex offenders was not reported. Evidence supports the notion that many sex offenders and/or sex addicts have been involved in dysfunctional relationships. Research further indicates that the vast majority of sex offenders come from similar backgrounds and that 72 percent of sexual addicts have been physically abused in childhood (Earle and Earle, 2000). The same research found that approximately 81 percent had sexual abuse histories and 97 percent had some form of emotional abuse (Earle and Earle, 2000).

In a study conducted with sexual addicts, 48.6 percent of respondents reported that self-disclosure of their addiction was helpful for both the addict and his or her partner (Corley, 1998).


Me - Befuckled
WH - Limber at limbo *sigh*

Posts: 5040 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: mountain transplant
hoping2heal
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Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, December 5th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do I belong here??? MC mentioned that she thinks WH might be a sex addict, but reading these posts and doing some online research, I'm not sure. What do you all think?

Background: WH had a difficult childhood. No money and an alcoholic father who couldn't hold a job so his mom had to take care of everything. WH is oldest of 3 and is the "white sheep" (only one to go to college, get married, have kids (in wedlock), have a successful career, no drug/alcohol problems). His younger brother is an alcoholic, drug addict, and criminal and was recently diagnosed as bipolar. Sister is somewhere between the two. Functioning well but likes to party and can't commit to a relationship. We thought WH must have escaped his family's demons.

I was WH's first and only girlfriend (met when we were 18). He had not even so much as gone on a date before meeting me. We were together 5 years (through college) before getting married. Right before our 3rd anniversary, he met someone on a business trip, came home and told me we must have problems because he was interested in her so we started MC. Well he ended up contacting her (which made MC pointless), ended up seperating from me for 3 months and pushed for a D. Then he came to his senses, realized that's not what he wanted and he threw away the best thing that ever happened to him and came back to me. We did MC for a few months (basically just learned how to communicate better). Now it's 10yrs later plus a house and four kids. All is well (or so I thought). WH was starting to spend lots of time with a group of single guys from work, which made me nervous so I started checking his stuff. I found he had been IMing with a female ex-coworker almost nightly for a few weeks and received TONS of emails from her. Nothing sexual but maybe a little flirty on her part (I got the impression she likes him but he didn't seem interested). But since the A hurt me so badly, he kept this relationship from me to "protect my feelings". He admits it was selfish, but since he knew he wasn't doing anything wrong he didn't see the big deal. Then I found a file on the computer listing websites he'd logged onto and there were SIX married dating websites. After threat of a polygraph, he said he did log on to those. He'd been looking at porn, saw an ad for one of those sites and it excited him that there were "those kinds of people out there" so he went to check it out. He told me it was last year and only for a week because he knew it was so wrong so he stopped and hasn't been back. Well I recently found proof that he's been on these sites for TWO YEARS. No proof of actually contacting anyone. In fact his profiles are mostly just random keystrokes (nothing anyone would possibly respond to). Haven't been able to verify if he chatted or met anyone in person (he says no). I knew he's looked at porn on the internet over the years and it seemed to be maybe only once a month or so. I've seen the sites he'd looked at and it wasn't anything out of the norm. Even with these dating websites it looks like he only signed on once every few months. (He says he just liked looking at other people's profiles and had no intention of contacting anyone). He does not have a high sex drive, but we have a very fulfilled sex life (maybe once a week). He rarely pushes for more and doesn't ask me to do anything special.

When I think "SEX ADDICT", I think of someone who can't control the urge to have sex or look at porn. SOmeone who does it for hours on end and can't stop. WH did this so infrequently that I have a hard time putting him in that catagory. But the MC thinks maybe he's using porn as an outlet in seeking an emotional connection he's not currently getting (which also explains the A, the secret friendship, and the websites).

What do you think? Any websites you can recommend that discuss different types of SA?


BS (me) - 38
FWH - 38
4 kids
'98 - PA/EA resulted in us separating
'06 - discovered he'd joined 6 married dating websites
'07 - discovered EA
'09 - FWH admits he's a sex addict -- now working on recovery!

Posts: 1762 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: Central Florida
7yrsbetrayed
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Default  Posted: 12:45 AM, December 6th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hoping2heal
I agree with your counselor.
He'd been looking at porn, saw an ad for one of those sites and it excited him that there were "those kinds of people out there" so he went to check it out. He told me it was last year and only for a week because he knew it was so wrong so he stopped and hasn't been back. Well I recently found proof that he's been on these sites for TWO YEARS.

Boy does that sound familiar. (read my profile if you want) Maybe you got lucky and you caught him before he met anyone. Maybe. I hope for your sake that is the case.

My advice is start learning all you can about sexual addiction...for yourself, not for him. You can't save him. You can't fix him. You can't force him into treatment. You have to do what's best for you and hope that he'll hit rock bottom and get help for himself. Check out http://www.sexhelp.com
Dr. Patrick Carnes is the end all be all expert on SA. You might also want to go back a few posts and find my link to the co-dependent info for yourself. I hope this is helpful to you on your journey.
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Me(44)
Him(46) arthurdent (rSA)
Married 12 yrs, together 15
Renewed Vows 12/19/08
One DD(8)
You can avoid reality but you cannot avoid the consequences of avoiding reality.~Ayn Rand

Posts: 2167 | Registered: Mar 2006 | From: Colorado
hoping2heal
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Default  Posted: 6:24 AM, December 6th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last night I was able to access his secret email account while he was out of the house. I found another site he belongs to (adultsecrets.com). Again, his profile was totally false (said he was a single female actor????) so he's obviously not looking to attract anyone to respond to his profile, but the site did have chat, videos, and ESCORT info. Now I'm scared. I really don't think he's met anyone in person, but anything's possible and now I'm scared I'm living with a monster. I HAVE to know if he's been physical with anyone else. But he knows that admitting that would be the end of our M (knows that's a dealbreaker for me), so why would he ever admit it? We've talked about polygraphs before. Should I make him take one so I can make sure he hasn't been with anyone else? Not so much worried about the emotional aspect of that, but the physical (stds, aids, etc).


BS (me) - 38
FWH - 38
4 kids
'98 - PA/EA resulted in us separating
'06 - discovered he'd joined 6 married dating websites
'07 - discovered EA
'09 - FWH admits he's a sex addict -- now working on recovery!

Posts: 1762 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: Central Florida
Mama2girls
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Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, December 6th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hoping to Heal,

I think it may be more useful to think of sex addicts as people that are using sex to self-medicate. This behavior often escalatesas it becomes more difficult to numb the pain with more "normal activity".

Sexual addiction doesn't have anything to do with an increased sex drive or liking sex more than others. It really has nothing to do with the sex.

A SA will spend an abnormal amount of time, thinking about sex, judging women he sees in public, using porn, having inappropriate relationships - think about all the time and energy they are dedicating to that instead of thinking about the pain in their lives, emptiness and about anything important. Or maybe it's to avoid any real intimacy.

It is very complex. My WH's IC told him that he must learn his addiction inside and out before he can even start to recover. He needs to understand all the triggers, his real feelings, his motivations, the why, and explore some about how he ended up this way.

So, it takes a person really dedicated to getting better.

Your WH may still be escalating. Sometimes I think there are people who are using sex in an unhealthy way, on their way to an addiction, but not there yet.


Me BS 37
Him WH 40

Married 8 years, together 12 years
2 young daughters
FWH in IC for SA
R


Posts: 89 | Registered: Sep 2007
dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, December 6th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After admitting to me, after I kicked WH out 9/06...that 'going online just always gets me in *trouble*...he's bought a new lap top.
I guess its time to start scratching that itch, once again.


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25351 | Registered: Sep 2005
Eternaloptimist
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Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, December 6th (Thursday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think the notion that SAs are sex-crazed throws a lot of people off. My WH could go months between bouts of online stuff and physical meetings. He seemed "normal" to me; in fact, he seemed a little conservative. But I'm slowly understanding that, like one of you posted, it's self-medicating. Not much difference than taking a drink, or whatever other external solution is selected to cope with internal pain.
And it definitely spirals. The fact that my WH could stop between binges convinced him that it wasn't really a problem. But it's true -- it's the amount of time/energy that goes into thinking about it that's the sign of an addict. The sex is a distraction from the issues.


Me: BS
Him: WS, SA
Married: 12 years
Three kids: 9-year-old D, 7-year-old S, 5-year-old D
D-Day #1: December 11, 2006 (LTA)
D-Day #2: June 17, 2007 (found out about SA)

Posts: 656 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Toronto
Mama2girls
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Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, December 7th (Friday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very good post eternaloptimist. That is what I was trying to say, but you did a better job.


Me BS 37
Him WH 40

Married 8 years, together 12 years
2 young daughters
FWH in IC for SA
R


Posts: 89 | Registered: Sep 2007
surviving2day
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Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, December 9th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How do you know if your WS maybe a SA? I am familiar with the 12 step program for Al-Anon, but not for SA. Some of the things I am reading are really sounding familiar- like the porn videos, magazines, looks, flirting, online sites for porn, and now discovery of an affair that was physical and lasted about 3 months. It was physical for at least 2 weeks of the end of the affair until I busted him because of cell phone records and text messages. He has his first IC scheduled for 12/13. I have been seeing IC since DDay(11/2/07). Any advice? We are still together.... He seems totally remorseful and committed to working toward salvaging our marriage. I have good days and bad days. I feel like he has finally been honest with me... it took about 1 1/2 weeks after DDay for him to finally tell me what I think is everything. Just wondering what am I looking at with him????

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Eternaloptimist
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, December 9th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Surviving,

I don't know what you're looking at -- will depend largely on him, I think. For my husband, me finding out about an office affair was the final straw for him to realize he had a problem. Took him six more months to work up the courage to tell me about the whole thing (an entire relationship's worth of cheating) but by then, he'd found a counsellor that dealt with SA and had been "clean" for the entire time.
In the meantime, he's become the husband I always wanted (minus the sordid past, thank-you very much!). So remorseful and determine to get at the root of a life that he can finally admit was destructive and painful for him, as well as for our family.
The hardest part, I think, is for those of us who view sex as intimate and an expression of caring, to come to terms with how many partners, how much sex talk, etc. our spouses engaged in. I still struggle -- though less -- with understanding that it had absolutely nothing to do with love. I imagine he was living every guy's fantasy -- sex all over the place, plus a nice-looking wife at home taking care of the kids. But he tells a different story -- unbearable shame, fear of being found out, anxiety... All the hallmarks of an addict, whatever the "substance" of choice.
For me, I could't have made any decisions in the early days. It was all I could do to get out of bed and parent my three kids and meet my deadlines. Which was a good thing. It allowed me time. And that's what I would advise. Give yourself time to really assess your own situation and figure out the best plan for you.
I'll be attending a group starting in January for spouses of SA and I'm hopeful it will give me more insight. Because, frankly, this can all be confusing as hell!


Me: BS
Him: WS, SA
Married: 12 years
Three kids: 9-year-old D, 7-year-old S, 5-year-old D
D-Day #1: December 11, 2006 (LTA)
D-Day #2: June 17, 2007 (found out about SA)

Posts: 656 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Toronto
Eternaloptimist
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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, December 9th (Sunday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One more thing -- it was one year ago today that all hell broke loose. It's like I suddenly "knew" that my husband was having an affair with his assistant, though there wasn't any evidence or anything. I think I was finally ready to admit to myself something I'd known all along. I'm a writer and a few months ago I found a novel I'd started about a woman who doesn't have a clue her husband is having an affair with his assistant. My heart almost stopped when I read the manuscript. All I could think was "Omigod, I've known this for four years!"
(Cue ominous music here....)


Me: BS
Him: WS, SA
Married: 12 years
Three kids: 9-year-old D, 7-year-old S, 5-year-old D
D-Day #1: December 11, 2006 (LTA)
D-Day #2: June 17, 2007 (found out about SA)

Posts: 656 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Toronto
hoping2heal
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Default  Posted: 6:15 AM, December 11th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went to www.sexhelp.com and had WH take the SA test. He scored 8 out of 20, which is just the point where non-addict turns into addict. So he DOES have a problem. Luckily it's not too serious. Gonna confront him with all my investigative info at MC today.


BS (me) - 38
FWH - 38
4 kids
'98 - PA/EA resulted in us separating
'06 - discovered he'd joined 6 married dating websites
'07 - discovered EA
'09 - FWH admits he's a sex addict -- now working on recovery!

Posts: 1762 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: Central Florida
gibbonsrose
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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, December 11th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hopingtoheal -- good luck at MC.


Me - Befuckled
WH - Limber at limbo *sigh*

Posts: 5040 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: mountain transplant
gibbonsrose
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Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, December 11th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

December 30, 2005 was my 3rd Dday. I was trying to recover from a BJ and a short PA he had had six years earlier. And then wham -- I find out 4 years after the fact that H had almost been fired for sexual harassment. That was the last straw and I filed.

We decided to R last fall, with me thinking we were dealing with only 2 OWs and a sexual harassment complaint.

Since deciding to R, my whole world has come crashing down. I have since discovered the BJ was a 3-day fuckfest while I was traveling on business, and it happened in my home; and in addition there were multiple hookers in other countries and massage parlor "happy endings" here and abroad.

Shit. There have to be at least 20 different ocurrences over our 13 years together.

A big hurdle to our R is my "disgust factor". Everytime I think about the OWs, or the hookers, or the happy endings, I just want to PUKE.

We have not had sex since we've been in R (a little over 1 year). The intimacy is not there, and I refuse to be used so he can get off and get his fix. I will not feed his addiction, as we recently discovered he was an SA, and it was subsequently confirmed by his IC.

If I had known any of this, I would not have agreed to R.

But now I feel stuck, committed to the R for son's sake, and resentful that once again H did not clue me in to the reality of my life. Once again, I made a decision based only on half-truth and lies.

I am totally repulsed, knowing who and what he's fucked and been with and where, and knowing that I was fucking him too during the same time period -- ugh.

How do I get past this? Is it something one CAN get past?

Any advice and suggestions and 2x4s would truly be welcome. I am at a loss and deeply, deeply sad.

[This message edited by gibbonsrose at 6:47 PM, December 11th (Tuesday)]


Me - Befuckled
WH - Limber at limbo *sigh*

Posts: 5040 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: mountain transplant
Eternaloptimist
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Default  Posted: 10:01 AM, December 12th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I do think there's hope. In fact, learning my WH was SA actually made me more compassionate and helped me get over my disgust at his LTA with his disgusting, narcisstic employee. Though my WH has been with men, strangers in alleys, etc., I can now see the pain behind the behaviour. It is an addiction -- with all the shame and self-loathing of any addiction.
Have you read anything about SA? It might help you replace some of your anger and disgust with at least a bit of understanding. Patrick Carnes is the noted authority. I can't imagine R will work if you can't stand the thought of touching him. Might also help to realize that he's perhaps more disgusted with himself -- deep down -- than you could ever be.
I'm certainly not saying you should R with him -- he needs to take full responsibility for the pain, the health risks, etc. that he exposed you to. But if he's sincere about recovering, I think there is hope.


Me: BS
Him: WS, SA
Married: 12 years
Three kids: 9-year-old D, 7-year-old S, 5-year-old D
D-Day #1: December 11, 2006 (LTA)
D-Day #2: June 17, 2007 (found out about SA)

Posts: 656 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Toronto
Mama2girls
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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, December 12th (Wednesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I felt almost relieved to find out is was SA. Only because it made it all make sense. I could not grasp saying one thing (loves me, wants family, remorseful) and then doing it again. It made me crazy trying to make sense of it.

I think if he gets deep into IC and is willing to share his pain with you - it is possible to find compassion.

I feel very sad for the little boy my husband was and for the years as an adult where he felt shame and regret.

Take care - I know it's very difficult.


Me BS 37
Him WH 40

Married 8 years, together 12 years
2 young daughters
FWH in IC for SA
R


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Jim_and_I
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Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, December 17th (Monday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gibbonsrose:

SO relieved to read your post; my husband has also frequented as many as 15 (or so HE says) hookers. I found out about it 2 1/2 yrs ago. Since then he's had LTA with a woman he was "Sponsoring" in AA (hah! some sponsor! not to mention the fact men aren't supposed to sponsor women). Just recently, I found out that one hooker held him at knife point and robbed him.

How am I supposed to respect this man and R with him knowing all this? He's a recovered alcoholic whom I believe has become addicted to sex instead. I kicked him out of our bedroom after D-Day #2 last February. He lives in guest room now. We haven't had sex in 10 mos. He attempts to make me feel guilty for that, but COME ON! He's dirty goods to me right now. I'm angry and resentful. Our MC says she believes he's an SA and it doesn't matter if he believes he's one or not...he's exhibiting the behavior of one whether he likes it or not.

WS says he turned to hookers and his LTA because he lacked the intimatcy he needed at home from me.

We've been trying to R but I just discovered text msgs from OW yesterday on WS phone. He denies knowing anything about them...give me a break .

His "outgoing" text message folder is always empty and freshly deleted. Do these WS's think we're stupid?

Sorry...just rambling. Anyway, hoping someone can shed light on WS's who try to make us feel to blame when they're the ones who couldn't keep their dicks in their pants and are risking their kids' happiness, their marriages, etc.

I NEED TO FEEL STRONG IN THE FACE OF HIS resentment toward me!!!

Hugs and warm thoughts to all you brave soles who are going through this along with me....here's to 2008 being better and happier!!!


that which doesn't kill you makes you stronger....at least that's the theory!!!

D-Day 1: Nov 2004
D-Day 2: Feb 10, 2007
D-Day3: Oct. 29, 2007
how stupid AM i?
Kids: 2 girls 9 and 12
Married 18 yrs.


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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, December 18th (Tuesday), 2007View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok...just to say I fall in this "I can relate" category too....my husband lost his job and income has been halved because of his involvemnt in porn and affair with someone I considered to be a lifelong friend...and well...she became interactive porn and supported and encouraged all of his addictions and that made her attractive....I loved him knowing he had struggles....but I expected him to not engage in porn and to be faithful...that made me "controlling"...and her "accepting".......we have a LOT of issues


Divorce will be final around the time we should be celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary. Pray please I was a faithful loving wife and now my heart is forever crushed because my husband chose his sexual addictions over repairing our marriage. I

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