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Topic: For Those Still In The Dark
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capri
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Member # 14940 |  Posted: 10:38 AM, July 24th (Tuesday), 2007 |     |
hehe, dreamlife, fate is really throwing it's all to make him look bad! POOR GUY!!!!!! He's upstairs sleeping in our son's room, feeling sorry for himself because his evil wife won't sleep with him anymore. Imagine that... a few lies here and there, a few women over the years, a little bit of calling the wife 'irrational and ridiculous' for objecting, smearing the wife's name to co-workers (like I really believe he told them the whole story) and the wife gets bent out of shape. I can hardly live with myself!
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oops... is my sarcasm showing? 
Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011
Posts: 4480 | Registered: Jun 2007 |
dreamlife
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Member # 8142 | | Posted: 11:03 AM, July 24th (Tuesday), 2007 | |
 
~WH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
Posts: 25081 | Registered: Sep 2005 |
Dreamboat
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Member # 10506 | | Posted: 12:54 PM, July 24th (Tuesday), 2007 | |
Its not so much as giving us 'respect' (re: continued lying & mind fucking) -- its that they play by an entirely different & TWISTED set of rules.
Good point. And I know he is lying to his little whore also. The difference is...SHE believes him!!
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
Posts: 16405 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :) |
What About Bob
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Member # 8572 | | Posted: 1:01 PM, July 24th (Tuesday), 2007 | |
"Anyways, it's kinda funny (in a sick way) how they have a complicated story to explain each bit of evidence. Someone once said that "The simplest solution that can explain everything is the right answer". Hmm... I can explain all of that in just 2 words."
That is usually how I knew she was lying.
When you spend 30 minutes telling me some elaborate story to explain something such as why you were late....
Usually a pretty good indication you have a liar on your hands that thought about the story "too much" and practiced it too many times. They go over and over their story due to fear or worry about being caught and they start thinking "but what if they ask about this? Ok, I can explain that this way"
Basically, they make the explanation more complicated then it needs to be.
"Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose" Janis Joplin
"God is great, beer is good and people are crazy"
Posts: 2174 | Registered: Oct 2005 | From: South |
dreamlife
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Member # 8142 | | Posted: 2:44 PM, July 24th (Tuesday), 2007 | |
Yes, Bob, psycho is quite the "story teller", too.
Evasive asswipe who can talk about anything, and everything, & in such remarkable detail/length...except: Files n reconfiguration of our PC; Money; sex.
In that order...then he gets total "amnesiac"... 
Masters of deceit n deception!
Well, the little slut will wake up one day when her arithmetic fails to add up, Dreamboat...presuming that she CAN "add" 2+2 = 4...ahem... 
So:
Toot! Toot!! Bad karma, whore! [This message edited by dreamlife at 2:48 PM, July 24th (Tuesday)]
~WH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
Posts: 25081 | Registered: Sep 2005 |
dreamlife
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Member # 8142 | | Posted: 9:45 AM, July 25th (Wednesday), 2007 | |
Its a form of "torture"...the not knowing.... 
~WH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
Posts: 25081 | Registered: Sep 2005 |
capri
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Member # 14940 | | Posted: 7:25 PM, July 25th (Wednesday), 2007 | |
It's not only the not knowing itself... it's the self-doubt it creates: am I crazy? Am I overly-jealous? Am I paranoid? Am I really making a mountain out of a molehill? or... am I being his fool once again? Am I 'enabling' and 'allowing' him to do this to me because I don't take a stand so it's really all my fault?
You find yourself calling your own character and intelligence and perceptions and ability to judge and all you thought you knew about human nature into question.
It's a power play-- always having to be the one with all the cards, forcing the other person to play in the dark without being able to see or know what the rules are. It's inherently bully-ish.
Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011
Posts: 4480 | Registered: Jun 2007 |
dreamlife
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Member # 8142 | | Posted: 11:37 AM, July 26th (Thursday), 2007 | |
Absolutely RIGHT, capri! 
Yesterday, I googled...'frustration'...
I don't even KNOW what psycho's REAL e-mail address is! 
How crazy is this?!!
Whyyyyyy???
Fuckerrrrrr!
I loathe him!!! 
How many on this thread do not know even their WS real e-mail address? just curious... 
~WH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
Posts: 25081 | Registered: Sep 2005 |
NoControl
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Member # 14961 | | Posted: 12:37 PM, July 26th (Thursday), 2007 | |
Dreamlife- 1 vote for don't know real email address...never did.
GOD, I hate him.
"I Became Insane With Long Intervals of Horrible Sanity" -E.A. Poe
Posts: 483 | Registered: Jun 2007 |
SerJR
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Member # 14993 | | Posted: 8:05 PM, July 26th (Thursday), 2007 | |
Sometimes I wish I had filmed all the stories so that in the future WW can look at it sometime and see the crap she was trying to sell.
Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.
Posts: 16800 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South |
dreamlife
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Member # 8142 | | Posted: 1:16 AM, July 27th (Friday), 2007 | |
Well, NoC, and I thought that I was the ONLY one in the world who did not KNOW his REAL addy!
Disgusting, creepy, and surreal, isn't it?
Its like not really knowing...just WHERE...he really...RESIDES.
I loathe him!!!!!!
AAARRRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
~WH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
Posts: 25081 | Registered: Sep 2005 |
Sodown
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Member # 2477 | | Posted: 9:47 AM, July 27th (Friday), 2007 | |
[This message edited by Sodown at 9:07 PM, April 28th (Monday)]
A dog will not tell you he has fleas but you can tell by the way he scratches. Graham Willets (Thanks to Treharris Mid Glamorgan)
Posts: 4796 | Registered: Oct 2003 | From: anywhere but here... |
dreamlife
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Member # 8142 | | Posted: 10:11 AM, July 27th (Friday), 2007 | |
Sodown, how crazy is THIS:
psycho told me her name was "Jan"...and a .jpg (jan_redhead_pearls) turns out to be...an embedded highly encrypted AT&T Trust found by a tech I had in remotely!
No foto at all!
CONFUSION and "duping delight" seems to be the name of the game!
Translated into torture & frustration for ME!
~WH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
Posts: 25081 | Registered: Sep 2005 |
dreamlife
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Member # 8142 | | Posted: 9:39 AM, July 28th (Saturday), 2007 | |
Has anyone thought... WHY??
WHY is their BS soooo very, very SECRETIVE?
Does anyone have a clue as to WHY they would be this way?
~WH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
Posts: 25081 | Registered: Sep 2005 |
capri
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Member # 14940 | | Posted: 3:14 PM, July 28th (Saturday), 2007 | |
Yes, another here who didn't know her own spouse's e-mail address. I stumbled across the first one, trusted him TOTALLY when he said he closed it 'for the sake of the marriage,' stumbled across the second one, and figured out for myself that when he claimed to be an open book with that one (gave me the password and all) that he'd actually just moved ow1 to his work e-mail.
Does he have a third personal account set up now? He says he doesn't and that he's telling me the truth THIS time, so naturally I believe him....
This is a major reason he is not welcome in my bed anymore: if we're not even close enough to share e-mail addresses, we're certainly not close enough to be doing anything else. (Although there are plenty of other reasons, too.)
Me: free of the secrets and lies!!!
Divorced 10/2011
Posts: 4480 | Registered: Jun 2007 |
dreamlife
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Member # 8142 | | Posted: 3:47 PM, July 28th (Saturday), 2007 | |
agree totally, capri...I know for a FACT that psycho has websites, (private) virtual directories, and numerous e-mail address here n there...oh, did I say businesses, too?
Probably PORN....
The key logger caught a bit...
Loathesome bastard!!!
~WH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
Posts: 25081 | Registered: Sep 2005 |
dreamlife
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Member # 8142 | | Posted: 3:39 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2007 | |
I am curious...when did you all in this thread start to feel...'in the dark'?
~WH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
Posts: 25081 | Registered: Sep 2005 |
dreamlife
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Member # 8142 | | Posted: 4:43 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2007 | |
The reason I am asking is because my WH seemed to be so "open" for nearly 3 years that we were in a long distance M...till he came to live with me permanently and all he did was be deceitful & dishonest, and lie, lie, LIE.
~WH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
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ragingpain
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Member # 10036 | | Posted: 9:06 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2007 | |
Well for me it was on D-day.
He has never admitted ANYTHING and we live with the big fucking elephant staring me in the face every damn day.
And the flame burned away. But your still spittin' fire.
Make no difference what ya say. You're still a fuckin' liar.
Posts: 262 | Registered: Mar 2006 | From: New York |
dreamlife
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Member # 8142 | | Posted: 10:07 PM, July 29th (Sunday), 2007 | |
ohhh, raging, that is really so hard to deal with. 
I went through this with my XH for over a month in my first M...its a wonder he's alive.
Which is why I kicked psycho OUT, too. He kept gaslighting my very short fuse...but, in retrospect, this is what he really wanted, I think...us having "seperate quarters" as he did *whatever* in between praying the rosary twice daily.
~WH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
Posts: 25081 | Registered: Sep 2005 |
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