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User Topic: N.P.D. Thread part VI
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 1:49 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Divorcing the N is a never ending series of pointless skirmishes in a stupid war with no forseeable end and no apparent goal but perpetuating chaos and disorder.

Ain't it the truth, Bob!

Itsa -- How very fitting your username is! Everything is a battle with the NPDs. Every.Thing. I'm with you on the attorney's fees. Multiple phone calls costing me $$ to report stalking, harassing, 911 call to police when he wouldn't leave the house. More $$ for my attorney to draft a letter to his advising her of my STBXH NPD's unaceptable behaviors. And I'm just at the beginning of this mess. I can't even imagine what kind of crap he's going to pull next month when we have mediation and a hearing for the temporary custody and support orders.

Dis--
I'm so sorry about what you're going through with your son. It sounds very similar to what a friend at work went through with her son a few years back. He was also Bipolar and turned to drugs and refused counseling. They finally had to do the "Tough Love" thing with him when he turned 18. I don't have any real advice for you, but we are here for you, listening. Hugs and strength to you.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


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dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 1:50 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A few days ago, I received an elaborate fold out Mother's Day card from "daddy & cat "son".
2 days ago, the flower van pulls up and I get a dozen yellow roses with a similar mushy florist card.

The more I looked at the flowers, the more pissed off I got.
So...I gave them away!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 1:57 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dream,
OMG, flowers and a card, sent by your Asshat on behalf of your cat?? That is just wrong. What a freak! You did the right thing by giving those things away - ignore, ignore...

Makes you wonder what his pea-sized brain is thinking about, doesn't it?


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7635 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 2:01 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yup!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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bobelina
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Default  Posted: 2:03 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Dreamie)))
Aren't his ears crooked or something? LOL.

Happy Mothers Day, All !!!

BoB (He who is not a Mother but has been referred to as a Mother*Fucker on occasion. LOL).


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woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 2:46 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey, Bob--

Maybe there's a market for "Happy Mother Fucker's Day" cards!

I have someone special I could send one to. Of course, he would probably twist it into some sort of invitation for sex...


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7635 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
itsabattle
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Default  Posted: 3:14 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I see a whole new market - mother-fucker cards - hilarious!
Wounded - the cost of divorcing an npd freak is huge but this is one time where the money becomes of secondary importance. Can you pay your fees in installments? Do you get legal aid in the USA? I cannot stress to you how important it is to do everything legally otherwise the freak will stitch you up because that is what they do.

Dream - he is such a loser. Does he not realise that you are no longer in a relationship with him??????

Bob - you are both mom and dad to your kids because your ex lost the rights to motherhood a long time ago.

Happy Mother's Day folks! Unhappy mother-fucker's day to the npd freaks!!


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lied2
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Mothers day to everyone. The dads are just as much moms when the mother is a NPD freak.

Mediation with a freak sounds like serious pain. The child protection officer suggested that the ex and I do mediation for the issues with the phone number etc. I will not do it because mediated agreements are not legally enforcable here and are only as good as the parties ability to carry them out. Since my ex would not even follow a court order I can pretty much guarantee that that mediation is a waste of time. I also have given him my bottom line. There is no compromise from here. There is no more wiggle room.

I just wish mine would go away and leave me alone for good. I don't have the strength to keep doing this all.


The grass isn't greener on the other side of the fence. It is astro turf.

The essence of love is not what we think or do or provide for others, but how much we give of ourselves.


A clean house is the sign of a broken computer.


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bobelina
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Tribe)))
I wish I could bring all you Mama's over to my house for dinner for Mother's Day. I'd make whatever you like. I think it would be good for DDs to see some normal wonderful women around instead of the NPD Freak Family of Misguided Women.

Ya'll rock !!! Here are big ole BoB hugs for you all:

((((((((((Tribe Moms))))))))))

PS: JJCT and Ron, I guess we're cooking tonight and giving the Moms a break!!!

BoB


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jjct
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're on BoB -
We'll get all the fixins-
Moms of tribe?
We got your back today!
((((((HUGS))))))

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I found the recipes we'll be using:


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jjct
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Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

or do we need this?


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jjct
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Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sure this just speaks to many others here...
(not me! many others)



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Balancing Act
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Default  Posted: 1:37 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Mother's Day to all the Moms AND DADS (cuz if your wife is NPD, the DAD is doin' the important stuff!)

the Cap'n just sent me an email that said only, "I wish you the best on this day."

Uhhhh...I'm not your mother, champ! and we have no children together!!

Guess he just can't stand that I'm totally NC with him and had to come up with any excuse to keep his mail comin' to my inbox....whatever...


Me - BS....living a wonderful new beginning and giving love another chance

Tulsa Area Coffee Buddy


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bobelina
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Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((BA)))

Was that Capt Numbnutz?

He's a dork.

He's phishing for NS.

NC or Die !!! LOL.

BoB


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itsabattle
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Balancing - he wished you the best on Mother's Day and you don't even have kids together?? That is just so bizarre!!


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dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 1:58 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, itsa, as bizarre as me and the freak having a pet CAT together.

His ultra-fragile N ego drives the twisted, phony cards & flowers...& his bipolar mania seems to have kicked into High Gear this week, too.
(But, sometimes I think he craps his pants knowing I did key log his *all knowing* ass, too.
)

Hey, itsa, that was cool what you told the 2 freaks about the clean underwear for the kids!

ahhhh, sicko's!

Oh, well, now y'all know I'm the Mother of a Cat today.
Meow!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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bobelina
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dogs have owners;
Cats have staff.

LOL.

BoB


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bobelina
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's Mother's Day. Kids go to STBXPDW's house. STBXPDW disappears for about an hour or so. DD calls for pickup. It never ends.

This week in the BoB Report has been super loopy. Got paperwork to GAL. STBXPDW, naughty, naughty. Not meeting the agreements concerning DDs. I think she's screwed up everyday this week. LOL.

STBXPDW's house was clean on Thursday !!! The kids were surprised. "Dad, it isn't clean anymore like when you were there". LOL.

Hmmmmm..... Working during times with kids, disappearing, etc. Oh, well.

Kids just call me to come get them now. Sounds like they have really started to have had enough of STBXPDW again, AGAIN. I wonder if the GAL would find this to be an issue. LOL.

Eh, the Disordered. Don't you just love'em?

BoB

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Balancing Act
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BOB...you know the drill...document, document, document....

It seems like we have to get obsessive-compulsive just to deal with them!

dreamlife - yeah!?? what's with the NPD's giving us cards and wishes on a day that has nothing to do with them??? ohhhhhh...wait.....get it? to MAKE it about them!

Yeah...he's just fishing for some supply. This was really a most pathetic attempt if you ask me - I mean - CMON! get creative asshole! Surely you can think of some other reason to contact me? I guess he's just not that bright...


P.S...that Big Boy grilling cookbook reminds me of something I saw somewhere...pic of a guy washing dishes at the kitchen sink..caption said "Porn for Women"


Me - BS....living a wonderful new beginning and giving love another chance

Tulsa Area Coffee Buddy


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