The OC is not quite 18 months old, lives out of the country with the OW, and in a huge way I'm relieved that they're not closer. I don't know how I'd cope if they were.
I just found out a little over a week ago and I'm still reeling.
Is it right to be angrier about the fact that my husband's family knew about it MONTHS before I did?!?
I have no idea how I'm supposed to behave around them now.
[This message edited by HowStrong3 at 3:11 PM, December 15th (Tuesday)]
I can't imagine how hurt and betrayed you must feel. I know how horrible it feels for the OW and her child to simply BE....let alone be in the same proximity! The fact that your WH might still be seeing her would tip me right over the edge.
I'm very sorry.
Stay strong and if you can, try to see a counselor. Perhaps he/she will help you find out what you really want and will help you sort out how to get there.
I"m sorry you guys are dealing with this.. I just sucks as I well know :(
Sorry that you are both going thru this, but we are here to support you and give you extra understanding. I would also say post in the other thread as we have not looked at this one in a long time and the other thread sees more action.
Please feel free to PM me if you need to talk I most definately know how you are feeling.
Married 6 years Dec 20
Our son 16 months
OC due March 6,2010