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Lost and Betraye
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, December 8th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for phmh


Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing

"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft


Posts: 317 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: CA
isadora
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Member # 29130
Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, January 15th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: BW Him: WH
Married: 10 yrs
4 children: DDs 6&4; DSs 2& baby
2 Affairs - 2010 year long PA/EA, 2008 2 month online EA
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.


Posts: 4457 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Back home again in Indiana
AttemptStrength
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Member # 27947
Default  Posted: 12:06 AM, January 23rd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1991 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, January 24th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for emilys


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1797 | Registered: Nov 2010
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, February 15th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1797 | Registered: Nov 2010
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, February 18th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22649 | Registered: Aug 2011
al35118
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Member # 33649
Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, March 1st (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Bh 48
FWW 31
Married Jan 24th 2012
D-Day June 17 2011
Then TT until Oct 19,2011

Posts: 79 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Bama
Edie
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, March 1st (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 4960 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, March 3rd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5782 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, March 10th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, March 27th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, March 30th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump




Posts: 30684 | Registered: Mar 2011
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5782 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, April 10th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


Posts: 1267 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, April 15th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
WakingFromADream
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Member # 33934
Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, April 19th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me(35) XWW(36) DS(7) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13

Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.


Posts: 1134 | Registered: Nov 2011
AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, April 20th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1991 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, April 27th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5782 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, April 30th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for noideawhattodo


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

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