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User Topic: Setting Healthy Boundaries
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 3:01 PM, May 10th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, May 24th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump!


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1908 | Registered: Nov 2010
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, June 8th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, June 19th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1908 | Registered: Nov 2010
Fighting2Survive
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Member # 28410
Default  Posted: 2:33 PM, July 2nd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Fighting2Survive
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Member # 28410
Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, July 31st (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, August 15th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
blinders_off
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, September 4th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Posts: 358 | Registered: Dec 2011
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 2:56 AM, September 8th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5828 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2628 | Registered: Aug 2012
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpity-bump-bump


I keep my mind on my future/and my eyes on the sky/I don't really smile much/If you were there you'd know why.

Posts: 2164 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: City in the Midwest/Best In The Whole Wide World
soconfusednow
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpity-bump-bump

Happy you bumped this. I really needed to read this one. All though I didn't know that until I did.


D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50
WH 52
NC-several
last broken NC 7/2013 (hopefully)
Married 29 years
2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?

Posts: 317 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
jjct
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 6644 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Simple
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, September 20th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
Simple
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, September 25th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
hard_yards
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Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, October 2nd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump



I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

Posts: 1241 | Registered: Apr 2009
HurtButHopeful?
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for maddmurph.


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
Whattodo2012
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another good topic that I need to focus on. Rather than just get angry or irritated & expect the other person to know exactly what I need him to do.


What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Posts: 12 | Registered: Dec 2012
whereisshenow
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, October 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump from a very appreciative newbie.


Me: BS
Her: WS
Both in mid-40's. Together over 20 years.
Three kids all under 18 years old
D-Day: early September 2013
She is pursuing multiple relationships via online personal ads. Have not yet confronted her.

Posts: 6 | Registered: Oct 2013
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