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User Topic: Setting Healthy Boundaries
bjkirby
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, December 12th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thanks for this post. I haven't been here in a while and it's just what I needed!!

Posts: 51 | Registered: Jun 2010
UKgirl
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Member # 17062
Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, January 10th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump!


D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 56 y/o Him, WS, 57 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 18 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

Posts: 3443 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: UK
nooneeverthought
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Member # 20157
Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, January 19th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you

Posts: 8493 | Registered: Jul 2008
kernel
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Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, January 20th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5060 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, January 21st (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Iris0127 and other newbees.


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1890 | Registered: Nov 2010
Fighting2Survive
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Member # 28410
Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, January 29th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Cee64D
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Member # 21836
Default  Posted: 4:18 AM, January 31st (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, February 4th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5820 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
worriedNow
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Member # 29320
Default  Posted: 6:32 PM, February 4th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping. Great post

Posts: 351 | Registered: Aug 2010
brokenheart59
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Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, February 4th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great post the only problem is when the other person says ok but then does the exact opposite of what you agreed upon.


BS-Me
WW-Her, 3-5 years 2 different men
true feelings for 1

Posts: 174 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: US
HippyQueen
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Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, February 4th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for putting this back up front. I've been saying exactly these things.


Update: My husband passed away on 9/21/12. I've been on an emotional roller coaster since.
BS45 (Me)
STBXWH49
M- 2/14/87
2 sons, 19 & 23 YO

3/1/11 - heading for D.
6/4/11 R- Turned out to be false.
7/29/11 another D-day and decision


Posts: 121 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: TX
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, February 9th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5820 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
southsidecali
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, February 9th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 788 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: CA
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, February 12th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpalong Cassidy


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
Cee64D
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Member # 21836
Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, February 14th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
Cee64D
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Member # 21836
Default  Posted: 6:03 AM, February 17th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, February 19th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5820 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
Feb 8, 2011
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Member # 31137
Default  Posted: 7:15 AM, February 21st (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump 4me


D-Day see username
and maybe March 11, 11
ME: 45 yr old BH
Her: 40 yr old WW
3 kids
married 11 years
Who is this woman in my house?!

Posts: 717 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: canada
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 12:50 AM, February 24th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5820 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, February 26th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

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