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Understanding the 180
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bumping Ser's fantastic post for all newcomers. Please read and take the advice of someone much more eloquent than I am.
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Just wanted to say thanks all for the support. If it wasnt for this site, and my family, and friends, I would be lost. Oh and bumpity bump bump
OM: 20 immature kid
D Day: 11/28/2009
WS hasn't contacted me AT ALL in almost a month. Guess shes doing JUST FINE.
[This message edited by Phoenix_Reborn13 at 3:23 AM, January 1st (Friday)]
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Thnx SerJr ...
I hear you loud and clear although I do forget and the emotions get the best of me at times and then it is like being on a log ride ...
Woosh and I have no control ... and I can't see the drop off till it's to late to stop it ...
Ya know does that make sense ???
like I am floating around doing just fine nice easy river ... then a light at the end of the tunnel and before I know it I feel out of control, and all I can do is hold on till the bottom ...
get back up and float around some more just waiting on the surprise impending drop off ???
When does that stop ??? when do I gain control and can steer the stupid log away from the drop off ???
I know you are wise and smart the way you are because of your own pain ... and you have such amazing insightful advice ... it all really makes sense when I read it, and seems so easy and feaseable for me to do ...
but then I get out of control again and I can'y member what you wrote ...
when did you get your control back ... just to control your emotions and decide yes I can be emotional now or no now is not the time maybe later, and just shelve it till the time is right for you ...
I could go on ....
Thnx for all your help and keep doing what your doing we all so appreciate you
I really need to start reading this every day.
a bump for new members!
Bumping this for newer members and giving some of these articles a re-read.
I am loosing my strength.
I feel alone.
But I will keep trying to 180.