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User Topic: Understanding the 180
Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, April 25th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

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God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, April 26th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for justice


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
tammyjean100
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, April 28th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump.

Hugs to all.


You can't overcome anything without facing it. Betty Ford

Posts: 2273 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Capital District, New York
AnnieOakley
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, April 29th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump...


Me= BS, 45
Him=WH, 46
M=18+,T=21+
dday=7/06, 8/09 (pics at a recent work function), 11/09 VAR. Done.
"If you are going through hell, keep going." - Sir Winston Churchill

Posts: 1254 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: West
AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, May 4th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1992 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
Lost_Hope
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, May 4th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is so well written .. had to bump!! Trying to implement the 180 myself and this really helps me understand!!


“Marriage is three parts love and seven parts forgiveness of sins.”

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Me: BS - 36
Him: WS - 40
Married: 8 years...Together 12 yrs
Kid: SD - 14
Recent DDay: Dec 2, 2011 and again Oct 10, 2012


Posts: 169 | Registered: May 2009
AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, May 6th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1992 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
tammyjean100
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Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, May 10th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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You can't overcome anything without facing it. Betty Ford

Posts: 2273 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Capital District, New York
darkdaysrdone
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Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, May 14th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you very much SerJR for the post.


Lesson learned... Never try to change a man. Accept the fact that they are all aliens.

Posts: 38 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: missouri
Nouveau
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Default  Posted: 8:10 AM, May 18th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just started the 180. A bit shaky, and I am a work in progress, but have begun to find a tiny bit of peace in this craziness. Self-respect is a biggie. If we don't respect ourselves, nobody else will.


I sing the songs of a woman who has passed through anger and outrage to a kind of stunned resignation in the face of overwhelming human folly.....

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JustKeepSwimmig
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Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, May 22nd (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Mr. JKS - EA/PA
DDay - April 2008

Posts: 2143 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: Canada
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, May 26th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
DCJ7002
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Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, May 28th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much for this!!


Broken up, torn apart deep inside
But you won't get to see the tears I cry behind these Hazel eyes.

D-Day 9/7/05
EA, Tons of internet CRAP
D-Day #2 5/3/10
PA, & online EA with 2 OW.
Me- BS, 42, married 19 yrs.
Him- WS, 44
3 kids,


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unarmbears
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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, May 30th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump!


FBS-Me, 60
FWH-Him, 55
2 Sons 26 and 31
2 Daughters 29, 24 And 4 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

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Lotsa
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Default  Posted: 11:39 PM, June 1st (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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ThriveNotSurvive
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Default  Posted: 2:22 AM, June 6th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie

Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.


Posts: 1582 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Las Vegas
TheCuckoldsNest
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Default  Posted: 6:28 AM, June 23rd (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is such a good thread, I do not want to see it lost. Thank you SerJr for posting it.


Me - 40
BS - 40
D-Day - Multiple
A's - Multiple
I've been married for almost 20 years, her, maybe about 6.

Posts: 274 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Western NY
justbreathe
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Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, June 26th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


In times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.
George Orwell


Posts: 432 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: Swimming towards inner peace
realgood2u
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Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, June 29th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live."


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torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 7:28 PM, July 6th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump..another great one!


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

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