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Understanding the 180

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SerJR posted 9/3/2008 20:18 PM

feeling_hurt posted 9/3/2008 20:43 PM

Thank you for bumping this tonight. It did help reading it. I still have conflicts in myself - such as my other 180 posts tonight will show -- but I think I get the underlying concept. Putting it into practice is something totally different for me... But I'm trying.

Thanks.

bbee posted 9/10/2008 23:52 PM

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UnbearablySadd posted 10/1/2008 19:12 PM

Such a fabulous understanding of the 180 - thank you for explaining it!

I clearly misunderstood it before - and couldn't do it: seemed cold and uncaring and yes, maipulative.

Can you explain more about the part in the typical 180 about not asking where they are, etc?

tractorgirl posted 10/12/2008 23:28 PM

Thanks serjr for recommending this post to me. I think focusing on myself instead of what he did will help. What specific things did some of you folks out there do to 180? I want to build myself back up. For so long I focused on him, the kids, the house, I lost myself somewhat. I probably became a bit boring, but now that I have the time and willingness to be "selfish" I've lost my self confidence.

Amberly744 posted 10/26/2008 09:35 AM

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HeavyE posted 10/27/2008 14:13 PM

Bump!

Amberly744 posted 11/13/2008 21:56 PM

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wonderingbull posted 11/19/2008 15:56 PM

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soldieron posted 11/20/2008 13:56 PM

serJR i want you to know that i really count on your insight for understanding the 180. i read at least some part of this thread everyday. especially your interpretation of the 180.

c'mon...drop some science on me!

hurtingstudent posted 11/23/2008 09:18 AM

Bump for our newest members.

ThoughtIKnewYa posted 12/31/2008 10:11 AM

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ThoughtIKnewYa posted 1/1/2009 14:22 PM

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gettingthrutoday posted 1/3/2009 13:49 PM

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ThoughtIKnewYa posted 1/8/2009 10:47 AM

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gma56 posted 1/8/2009 14:19 PM

gentle bump !

ThoughtIKnewYa posted 1/10/2009 12:58 PM

ThoughtIKnewYa posted 1/17/2009 11:01 AM

caribou posted 1/22/2009 04:30 AM

bumpity bump

ThoughtIKnewYa posted 1/28/2009 16:03 PM

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