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Understanding the 180
Thank you for bumping this tonight. It did help reading it. I still have conflicts in myself - such as my other 180 posts tonight will show -- but I think I get the underlying concept. Putting it into practice is something totally different for me... But I'm trying.
Such a fabulous understanding of the 180 - thank you for explaining it!
I clearly misunderstood it before - and couldn't do it: seemed cold and uncaring and yes, maipulative.
Can you explain more about the part in the typical 180 about not asking where they are, etc?
Thanks serjr for recommending this post to me. I think focusing on myself instead of what he did will help. What specific things did some of you folks out there do to 180? I want to build myself back up. For so long I focused on him, the kids, the house, I lost myself somewhat. I probably became a bit boring, but now that I have the time and willingness to be "selfish" I've lost my self confidence.
serJR i want you to know that i really count on your insight for understanding the 180. i read at least some part of this thread everyday. especially your interpretation of the 180.
c'mon...drop some science on me!
Bump for our newest members.
gentle bump !
Thanks SerJR! Great Post, especially for all the new members............
for everyone, have you found any specific 180 behaviors that have helped you?
thanks again everybody