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User Topic: Understanding the 180
isadora
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Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, April 19th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: BW Him: WH
Married: 10 yrs
4 children: DDs 6&4; DSs 2& baby
2 Affairs - 2010 year long PA/EA, 2008 2 month online EA
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.


Posts: 4506 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Back home again in Indiana
kernel
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, April 23rd (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5058 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
annb
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Default  Posted: 10:06 PM, April 26th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Posts: 7476 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
browniegirl
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Default  Posted: 1:54 AM, April 27th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm trying to understand why everyone is writing bump in their posts on this thread? Does this actually send a message on to someone who needs to read it/ Just curious as I am new here. Also I've seen the abbreviation TT and I don't know what that means as it isn't on the abbreviation page. So hard to read posts with abbreviations, but I'm new here and just learning. JavaScript:AddSmily('%20%20')


Browniegirl

BW- Me 41
WH- 42 (Striker9)
Years together- 18
Years married- 14
D-Day 2-11-11 plus TT thru 5-11
1 11 YO DS
Trying to Reconcile


Posts: 280 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Hurting
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, April 29th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, May 7th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5819 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, May 14th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
nooneeverthought
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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, May 25th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you

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Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 1:15 AM, May 28th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 12:47 AM, June 6th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, June 13th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
Take2
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Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, June 15th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, June 15th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
SuspiciousWife
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Default  Posted: 10:48 PM, June 17th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping


Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session

Posts: 557 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: East Coast
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 1:07 AM, June 23rd (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, June 27th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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hathnofury
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Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, June 27th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The 180 is something i still struggle to fully understand. Posting here so i can keep referring to it. Your posts are always so insightful and invaluable to me. Thanks.


BS 43, SAWH 38. M 15years, together 17. Body count in the triple digits. Both in recovery, trying to R.
Three kids under age 11.

Posts: 1469 | Registered: Jun 2011
Rise_Above
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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, June 30th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
september7
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Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, July 1st (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump!

I read this often! Keeps me on the 'right' track to heal my soul.


D-Day September 7, 2010
NC ended December 22, 2010 and I kicked him OUT! WH dumps OW July 2, 2011 and wants to R! Now he has been living with me in not the best circumstances, but we're paying for medical school for one kid and college the other.

Posts: 156 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Florida
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, July 2nd (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

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