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Understanding the 180

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jb3199 posted 7/10/2011 13:10 PM

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bufffalo posted 7/11/2011 20:17 PM

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bumbed posted 7/17/2011 00:58 AM

Bump as well all need to really do this for us

Fighting2Survive posted 7/18/2011 22:31 PM

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this_sucks posted 7/20/2011 15:41 PM

WTF is bump?

socold posted 7/20/2011 15:53 PM

We are bumping the thread to the top of the listing by putting a response on it. These are threads that have "stood the test of time" and have been deemed worthy of getting bumped back up to the top so that new people have a better chance of seeing them.

Rise_Above posted 7/21/2011 08:48 AM

Fighting2Survive posted 7/23/2011 20:24 PM

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bumbed posted 7/29/2011 17:33 PM

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Cee64D posted 7/30/2011 05:44 AM

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UnsettledOne posted 8/4/2011 14:32 PM

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lordhasaplan? posted 8/5/2011 07:50 AM

bufffalo posted 8/9/2011 18:35 PM

pbej3 posted 8/9/2011 19:05 PM

I am not sure I am really understanding this. I thought I was doing the 180 but now I don't think I was. I haven't really been focusing on myself. I have been focusing on ignoring my WH. I ignore him unless there is something I can't ignore like talking about a home repair or something. I feel guilty when I plan something fun for myself. I desperately want to take a vacation and think I haven't made plans because I don't want to hurt his feelings and am not sure I will enjoy going by myself. I don't want to go with my WH but all my friends are married and wouldn't consider doing something without their spouse.
I have been feeling frustrated because it is clear he doesn't get it. He does absolutely nothing to reach out to me. He isn't mean, just acts uninterested. I think he is waiting for me to reach out to him - like I usually do. So- am I right to ignore? I can look more at myself, be more introspective but is there anything else? I think I need a new IC, mine isn't very helpful.

annb posted 8/12/2011 08:50 AM

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Cee64D posted 8/13/2011 20:25 PM

lordhasaplan? posted 8/14/2011 09:03 AM

fragilehwc posted 8/15/2011 10:57 AM

Llanden posted 8/15/2011 19:20 PM

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