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User Topic: Understanding the 180
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, August 24th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For (((exhaustedmum)))


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1936 | Registered: Nov 2010
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, August 25th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, September 7th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, September 9th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1936 | Registered: Nov 2010
surviving101
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, September 9th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank YOU!


"I don't want to spoil the rest of your movie... but at the end everything will be all right."

Posts: 461 | Registered: Aug 2011
bumbed
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, September 13th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


I rather suspect like all the worst things in life, making sense of it will not happen.


25 year relationship D day 1/28/11
The we door is closed but the ME doors are opening


Posts: 471 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: a better place in Michiagn
Edie
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, September 19th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5199 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
Will-I-Ever-Know
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Default  Posted: 12:09 AM, September 22nd (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me BS:21
Him F?WH:23
OW:34!!??
DDay #1 June 2010
Full blown 6 month long PA: OW was his 2nd Girlfriend.
Many DDays & TT for the rest of this year!
In R, Married on June 25th, 2011.

WARNING: I am long-winded. Sorry in advance. :)


Posts: 157 | Registered: Jul 2011
annb
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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, September 23rd (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 7666 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
numb&dumb
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, September 26th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for Smedley


Me-35 her-35

DS 1, DD 6
Dday 8/31/11. ONS that occurred 3 years earlier. Lied to for 3 years.

Every truth comes to light in a long enough timeline.


Posts: 2570 | Registered: May 2010
boontje
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, September 26th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for sharing this perspective of the 180. It was exactly what I needed to read today!


Me: BS
Dday: June 2011
Working on R, one day at a time

The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.
― Ernest Hemingway



Posts: 1065 | Registered: Aug 2011
FacingReality
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Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, September 27th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump
Is it possible to pin this to the top of the forum?

Posts: 22 | Registered: Sep 2011
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, September 28th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

adbat234


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1936 | Registered: Nov 2010
sudra
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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, October 2nd (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me (BW) (55), Him(SAWH) (58)
Married 22 years, 1 son (19), 1 stepdaughter (27)
DDay #1 January 2004
DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)
Working on R

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shocked4
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Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, October 3rd (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, I read and reread this often.


D-Day August 17, 2011
M-23 years
4 children ages 10-23

Posts: 136 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Ohio
imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, October 6th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping for a newbie


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


Posts: 5510 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
openedupmyeyes
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Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, October 7th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me:55 BS
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:37
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.

Posts: 767 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: The Great State of Texas
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, October 12th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5884 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
unarmbears
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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, October 15th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for the weekend


FBS-Me, 61
FWH-Him, 55
2 Sons 26 and 31
2 Daughters 29, 25 And 4 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

Posts: 4892 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: From where the trees lean east...
unarmbears
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Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, October 22nd (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FBS-Me, 61
FWH-Him, 55
2 Sons 26 and 31
2 Daughters 29, 25 And 4 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

Posts: 4892 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: From where the trees lean east...
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