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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, April 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Posts: 35212 | Registered: Mar 2011
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, April 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5822 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, April 10th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


Posts: 1272 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, April 15th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, April 20th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1992 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
wolf_heart
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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, April 25th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Married 27 years
BW: Me, 48
WH: 47
DDay#2: March 8th, 2012
DDay#1: Oct. 20th 1992
Attempting R
Without honesty, loyalty, and commitment; saying you love someone, simply means nothing.

Posts: 262 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Southwestern Area of USA
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, April 27th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5822 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
naivegirl
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Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, May 9th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me BS 39
Him WH 38

D-day #1 Jan 31 2007
D-Day #2 March 25 2007
Roll on Roll on Roller Coaster
We're one day older and one step closer
Roll on there's mountains to climb
Roll on we're on borrowed time
-Kid Rock

Working on Re


Posts: 1740 | Registered: Apr 2007
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, May 10th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Edie
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Default  Posted: 12:27 AM, June 3rd (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5115 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, June 8th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, June 13th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7813 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 10:44 AM, June 19th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10094 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, June 30th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump.


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


Posts: 5654 | Registered: Aug 2007
artgirl
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Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, July 2nd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Loved this Thank You


One Day at a Time

BS Me 48
WH Him 43
OW Prostitutes
DD March 2012
R...????


Posts: 22 | Registered: Jun 2012
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, July 2nd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, July 8th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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SuspiciousWife
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Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, July 10th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping


Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session

Posts: 557 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: East Coast
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 3:48 AM, July 12th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1741 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
Take2
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Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, July 23rd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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