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Default  Posted: 12:25 AM, July 26th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"Once forgiving begins, dreams can be rebuilt. When forgiving is complete, meaning has been extracted from the worst of experiences and used to create a new set of moral rules and a new interpretation of life's events."

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Fighting2Survive
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Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


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Jrazz
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You will have bad times, but they will always wake you up to the stuff you weren't paying attention to. - Robin Williams

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, August 7th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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You will have bad times, but they will always wake you up to the stuff you weren't paying attention to. - Robin Williams

Posts: 16774 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
bellagirl27
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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, August 7th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

THANK YOU


D-Day 7/19/12
Married just shy of 3 yrs by two months.
1 DD 11 months old on D-DAY
2 grown boys from previous marriage21,19 both living with us

Posts: 14 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Delaware
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, August 15th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, August 27th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bunp


fBH (me) - 70, fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9909 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Jpapageorge
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"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

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Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, September 1st (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, September 1st (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 2:57 AM, September 8th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

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Spelljean
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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
WakingFromADream
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, September 17th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me(35) XWW(36) DS(7) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13

Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.


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Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, September 18th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Steppinglightly
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For now - Someone caught stealing is rarely sorry because they stole, they are only sorry because they were caught.

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Teach8
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Me: BW. Him: WH. Dday: 4/26/12. TT until 8/15/12 LTA 7 years. Trying to R

Posts: 497 | Registered: Aug 2012
Bubbleup
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Me: BS 50
Her: WS 45 NC since 10/29/12
D-Day 1 4-20-2012 D-Day 2 9-7-13
Kids 2: 10yrs, 5yrs
Married 18 years, Together 24 years
Blind to EA for years
EA became PA

Posts: 90 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: NY
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