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User Topic: Understanding the 180
LastChanceLarry
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Member # 37322
Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, November 7th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

doing my share..

BUMP


D-Day: 8/27/12
Me: BBF (29)
WXGF: Confused26 (27) EA/PA with xBF, lasted almost a year. TT, blameshifting, gaslighting, & broken NC for 10 months.
DS: 3
Together 5 years

Ding dong, the bitch is gone! Settling into the life of a single dad.


Posts: 317 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: New England
Take2
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Member # 23890
Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, November 11th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4113 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, November 16th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2842 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 6:25 PM, November 16th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2842 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Jpapageorge
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Member # 31800
Default  Posted: 10:52 PM, November 21st (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1742 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
cass
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Member # 24261
Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, November 26th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for newbies


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4965 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
jjct
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Member # 17484
Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, December 18th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump!

Posts: 6589 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
kernel
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Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 11:22 PM, December 21st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5140 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
kernel
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Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, January 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

and bump again


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5140 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
mountainmomma
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Member # 34388
Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, January 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpily bump


Me 37
WS 42 (Mitty)
4 kiddys 9,7,4 &20 mths no5 due August 14
seeing hookers, NSA sites, escorts, anyone willing from 07/08 (i didn't know)left to do full time with no restraints 2010 Returned home march 2011 in R DDay 2.4.2010 OW 30+ age 18-60

Posts: 180 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: U.K
Jpapageorge
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Member # 31800
Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, January 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1742 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
thisissogross
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Member # 30294
Default  Posted: 11:28 PM, January 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"A pair of powerful spectacles has sometimes sufficed to cure a person in love." -Friedrich Nietzsche

i edit frequently because i have to


Posts: 236 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: southern us
Rella
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Member # 21136
Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, January 19th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BUMP!


Happily Divorced- final in Oct. 2009, Engaged to my True Love in Dec. 2012

When his family jokingly tells you of how "spoiled" HE was as a child, RUN- It doesn't change when they get older!


Posts: 2206 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: New England
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 11:47 PM, January 20th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2842 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 2:31 AM, February 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

again bump


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2842 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
annb
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Member # 22386
Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, February 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 7546 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
sailorgirl
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Member # 38162
Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, February 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Jewells


Married 14 years, three amazing kids
H had 17 month EA/PA
D-day 1/5/13
Reconcilling

Posts: 787 | Registered: Jan 2013
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 8:50 AM, February 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5822 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
exhausted lady
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Member # 30217
Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, February 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpity bump


Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr


Posts: 3168 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Colorado
Jpapageorge
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Member # 31800
Default  Posted: 7:30 PM, March 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1742 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
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