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User Topic: Understanding the 180
kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpity-bump


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5337 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
JustWow
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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

buping for Anya


BW - Reconciling

edited for typos (I always have to!)


Posts: 3644 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Midwest
kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:44 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumped again


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5337 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 3:20 AM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1763 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
Skan
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Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 5105 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5337 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Skan
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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HurtButHopeful?
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Default  Posted: 7:08 PM, July 29th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for livebythesea


Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

Posts: 1716 | Registered: Aug 2009
Skan
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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

:)


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, August 9th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5337 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, August 11th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5337 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
1ost0ne
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Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping. Good advice on the purpose behind the 180. Remember, it's about you, not the WS.

Good Monday everyone!!!


“The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.”
― Maya Angelou

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpo

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Fireflies
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Default  Posted: 9:55 AM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumped for onelove27


Me: BS
Him: WS
Go your way,
I'll take the long way 'round,
I'll find my own way down,
As I should.

Posts: 79 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Grr Argh
fourever
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BUMP for Newbies.


In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!


Posts: 895 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Northeast
kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumperooni


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5337 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumperooni


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5337 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
jjct
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 6773 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpity bump bump, bumpity, bump, bump


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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