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Simple
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
jjct
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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, March 30th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BAMP

Posts: 6773 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8798 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
thisissogross
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Default  Posted: 12:27 AM, April 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"A pair of powerful spectacles has sometimes sufficed to cure a person in love." -Friedrich Nietzsche

i edit frequently because i have to


Posts: 241 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: southern us
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:32 AM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8798 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
jjct
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Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, April 11th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

boom p

Posts: 6773 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Simple
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Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, April 11th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
kernel
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, April 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5337 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
jjct
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Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Posts: 6773 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
jjct
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Default  Posted: 2:41 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Posts: 6773 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8798 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
BlackHorse
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Default  Posted: 2:21 AM, May 19th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I use to help on a couple of general on-line support groups in the past until I stopped from burn-out and to focus on the "Love Of My Life". She was worried about how much of a toll it took on me physically and emotionally because I always have delved head first and completely into things I am passionate about.

It is difficult seeing some of my own past sentiments given to others presented in front of me at this time as I deal with my heart-ache.

Must be easier for me to give advice and common sense to others than it is for me to take it.

- BlackHorse.


Not together long enough - too many long separations due to her continuing medical issues.
Me - Canadian.
She - American.
Both of us in our fifties.
D-Day - 04/30/14 (while she was away seeking medical assistance in her homeland)

Posts: 82 | Registered: May 2014 | From: The West Coast of Canada
bluelightshine
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Default  Posted: 1:59 AM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for a friend


BS(Me) 32
SAWH (Beaker) 35
Married 11 Years
Dday Oct 06 2012
Dday 2 February 19 2014
Confessed to getting blow jobs from
prostitutes in 2006 and while living with OW
PA/EA 1 year
In r
2 children under 10
Working on faith everyday.



Posts: 47 | Registered: Nov 2012
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, May 21st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8798 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 3:34 PM, May 24th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump. It's a holiday weekend and not as many here to help the newbies.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2501 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
mchercheur
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Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, May 26th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BUMP


Me: BW
Him: WH --Had 7 mo. PA with COW;
Married 20something years with kids
Trying to R

Posts: 1458 | Registered: Dec 2012
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 1:30 AM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3858 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, June 19th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2351 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
brkn_heartd
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me-51 BS
Him 58-WS
Married 31 yrs, together 34
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

Posts: 1683 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US
mamajen00
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Default  Posted: 11:22 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The 180 is what gave me power and control back in this situation. It helped me to realize that I am strong and capable!


BS- me 37
WH- him 38
1 son - almost 5
Married 8 years
Together 13 years
DDay 4/19/14
9 months of intense EA
2 days of PA

Posts: 58 | Registered: Jun 2014
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