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Topic: Tactical Primer
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SerJR
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Member # 14993 |  Posted: 6:08 PM, June 6th (Saturday), 2009 |     |
Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.
Posts: 16800 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South |
ThoughtIKnewYa
♀ Member
Member # 18449 | | Posted: 3:13 PM, June 9th (Tuesday), 2009 | |
Posts: 9872 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
UKgirl
♀ Member
Member # 17062 | | Posted: 5:02 AM, June 21st (Sunday), 2009 | |
Bumping
D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 55 y/o Him, WS, 57 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 18 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.
Posts: 3178 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: UK |
lostsuol
♀ Member
Member # 13706 | | Posted: 5:15 PM, June 21st (Sunday), 2009 | |
Bumping...
Posts: 797 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: Canada |
jmac525
♂ Member
Member # 24204 | | Posted: 8:09 PM, June 21st (Sunday), 2009 | |
I copied it as a word document so that I can read it when I need to get my head on straight. Very good advice and easy to understand, Thank you!
BS 37
WS 37
Married 18 years
Two children 12 & 18
D Day May 1,09
WS moved out May 5,09
I am hoping for R, but WW refuses and says it is not possible, she's "IN LOVE" I refuse to give up hope!
6-24-09,I really no longer want her back
Posts: 88 | Registered: May 2009 |
marvalon
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Member # 23324 | | Posted: 9:38 PM, June 21st (Sunday), 2009 | |
That's a great post. I am ready for all this. I have started some of this and will soon see a lawyer. I am going to stop his engagement in my financial affairs, which will make him blow his stack. He likes using all the write offs from my business, but I will be filing separate tax returns as long as this is going on. I don't trust his financial judgment anyway. He also wants money from me monthly. That's stopping. He has bought OW flowers on different occasions, and probably things I am not aware of. I am keeping your checklist handy as a reminder.
The most important person in your life is you. The person who you love the most in the world should be you! Why not? Who better than you?
Ayn Rand
Posts: 56 | Registered: Mar 2009 |
woundedby2
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Member # 18522 | | Posted: 4:55 PM, June 25th (Thursday), 2009 | |
bumping for the new ones.
Me: BS
2 kids: DD14 and DS17
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
Posts: 7240 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal |
SuspiciousWife
♀ Member
Member # 18108 | | Posted: 10:12 AM, July 2nd (Thursday), 2009 | |
another bump
Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session
Posts: 557 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: East Coast |
Dust Bunny
♀ Member
Member # 2066 | | Posted: 9:30 PM, July 7th (Tuesday), 2009 | |
Bump
FBW married 30 years to RFWH
(ps... F=former :P)
"Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the progress he(or she) does not become a monster."
Friedrich Nietzsche
Posts: 3242 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Louisiana |
still confounded
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Member # 7826 | | Posted: 6:34 PM, July 11th (Saturday), 2009 | |
bump
"Sometimes, the rest of your life starts with goodbye."
Posts: 1270 | Registered: Aug 2005 | From: up the river, NY |
tractorgirl
♀ Member
Member # 21226 | | Posted: 10:45 PM, July 13th (Monday), 2009 | |
bumping yet again. there are so many new people on here all the time!!
BS=me, late 30's
FWH=him, early 40's
Married 15 years
OW=19 yrs old
2 boys: 12 & 9, wonderful!!
Reconciling
Posts: 1368 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: nebraska |
inconnu
♀ Member
Member # 24518 | | Posted: 4:51 PM, July 30th (Thursday), 2009 |  |
bump
Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave
Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect
Posts: 11176 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX |
nooneeverthought
♀ Member
Member # 20157 | | Posted: 9:26 AM, August 4th (Tuesday), 2009 | |
bump to page one
it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you
Posts: 8493 | Registered: Jul 2008 |
jewel123
♀ Member
Member # 22863 | | Posted: 9:15 AM, August 11th (Tuesday), 2009 | |
bump
BS me 44
H 46 (paulie)
married 25 years (hs sweethearts)
dday 8-08
DS19
DS23
New love is the brightest, and long love is the greatest, but revived love is the tenderest thing known on earth. -Thomas Hardy
Reconciled! :)
Posts: 5524 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: MO |
JustKeepSwimmig
♀ Member
Member # 19269 | | Posted: 10:00 PM, August 23rd (Sunday), 2009 | |
bump
Mr. JKS - EA/PA
DDay - April 2008
Posts: 2143 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: Canada |
mscuteone
♀ Member
Member # 25223 | | Posted: 3:35 PM, August 24th (Monday), 2009 | |
great advice
Posts: 117 | Registered: Aug 2009 |
JustKeepSwimmig
♀ Member
Member # 19269 | | Posted: 7:00 AM, August 26th (Wednesday), 2009 | |
bump
Mr. JKS - EA/PA
DDay - April 2008
Posts: 2143 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: Canada |
jolene
♀ Member
Member # 17993 | | Posted: 4:13 AM, August 27th (Thursday), 2009 | |
^^^^
Separated, divorcing.
Posts: 2189 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: btn rock and hard place |
willthiseverend
♀ Member
Member # 25107 | | Posted: 1:54 PM, September 5th (Saturday), 2009 | |
Bumping for Chloe
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
Posts: 454 | Registered: Aug 2009 |
willthiseverend
♀ Member
Member # 25107 | | Posted: 3:20 AM, September 11th (Friday), 2009 | |
Bumping this
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
Posts: 454 | Registered: Aug 2009 |
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