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User Topic: Tactical Primer
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I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

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I'm sure you're hearing it over and over, but as a new BS, it is helpful. I will make certain to do my best to follow this wisdom!!


Me = BS
Her = WW
Married 30 yr
Dday 9/1994; 1/5/10
2 kids; D 26, S 24

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I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

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Thank you so much for reposting this Primer. It is how I have been trying to approach things so far on my own...it certainly fits how I think and have been trained in my work. But it's so hard not to move towards some of the things I shouldn't do...that will make it harder for my wife to change how she looks at me (since well before she entered into the affair).


BH - 41
WW - 40
D - 6, S - 4
Married 9 1/2 years.
Together almost 12.
DD#1 - 12/12/09
DD#2 - 01/08/10
Start of NC - 01/15/10
DD#3 - 02/15/10
In MC - Both desire to work on R in the hope of saving our relationship and marriage. Giving oursel

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I think the hardest thing for me here is the boundaries. I keep setting boundaries, but I have never really made him pay for crossing them.

I am working on me. I will get the courage to stand by my boundaries. One minute at a time is all I can take.


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Married 12 years, together 18
WH - Recovering alcoholic
Me - Recovering wife
Reconciling?
D-Day 9-27-09
3 great kids - 12, 10 & 8

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Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

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