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Topic: Tactical Primer
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jjct
♂ Member
Member # 17484 |  Posted: 11:15 AM, May 8th (Saturday), 2010 |     |
Imagine. Your best move.
Now imagine it used against you.
Posts: 4387 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas |
flowermom
♀ Member
Member # 23950 | | Posted: 2:57 PM, May 8th (Saturday), 2010 | |
Wish this was requires reading for newbies!!!! Thanks!!!
Me-BS WHSA, 3 wonderful kids, all grown.
Denial is not just a river in Egypt
Posts: 570 | Registered: May 2009 | From: South |
Cee64D
♂ Member
Member # 21836 | | Posted: 3:30 AM, May 15th (Saturday), 2010 | |
Bumpage
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio |
woundedby2
♀ Member
Member # 18522 | | Posted: 2:17 PM, May 17th (Monday), 2010 | |
bumping for the new hurting ones.
Me: BS
2 kids: DD14 and DS17
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
Posts: 7209 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal |
lilac18
♀ Member
Member # 25180 | | Posted: 3:50 PM, May 17th (Monday), 2010 | |
bump
Me/BW 45
WH 35
DDay 08/09/09
Reconciled
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Albert Einstein
Posts: 452 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Texas |
SummerBlues
♀ Member
Member # 25626 | | Posted: 8:32 PM, May 17th (Monday), 2010 | |
bump for newbies
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
Posts: 1183 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Brigadoon |
SummerBlues
♀ Member
Member # 25626 | | Posted: 7:43 PM, May 19th (Wednesday), 2010 | |
bump
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
Posts: 1183 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Brigadoon |
justbreathe
♀ Member
Member # 13765 | | Posted: 7:12 PM, May 22nd (Saturday), 2010 | |
bump
In times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.
George Orwell
Posts: 432 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: Swimming towards inner peace |
unarmbears
♀ Member
Member # 7480 | | Posted: 7:06 PM, May 24th (Monday), 2010 | |
bump
FBS-Me, 59
FWH-Him, 54
2 Sons 25 and 30
2 Daughters 27, 23
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie
Posts: 4845 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: From where the trees lean east... |
dreamlife
♀ Member
Member # 8142 | | Posted: 7:17 PM, May 24th (Monday), 2010 | |
How I wish this was here when I first signed up.
Great Job! 
~WH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
Posts: 25080 | Registered: Sep 2005 |
Cee64D
♂ Member
Member # 21836 | | Posted: 3:48 PM, May 26th (Wednesday), 2010 | |
bump
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio |
cass
♀ Member
Member # 24261 | | Posted: 1:13 PM, May 30th (Sunday), 2010 | |
bump
DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??
I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)
Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!
Posts: 4861 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK |
AkKat22
♀ Member
Member # 28598 | | Posted: 11:54 PM, May 30th (Sunday), 2010 | |
Thank you, I wish I had the guts to come here a year ago!
Me: BS 46
FWH: 42
D-day: EA/PA 19 June 09
5 Children
M: 20 years
Separated
Posts: 83 | Registered: May 2010 | From: North |
Karma62
♀ Member
Member # 23320 | | Posted: 7:53 PM, May 31st (Monday), 2010 | |
Thanks SerJR
We are in R... but 1.5 yrs. out is still new to me.
Me: BS 48
Him: FWH 64
Married 19
D-Day # 1 31-10-07 EA?? (Denied!)
D-Day # 2 17-12-08 Full PA both years same OW
OW 37S Neighbour (NC)
Working on R with hope
"You have been Weighed, Measured and you have been Found wanting" -
Posts: 275 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Canada |
Lotsa
♂ Member
Member # 28078 | | Posted: 11:40 PM, June 1st (Tuesday), 2010 | |
Bump
Posts: 871 | Registered: Mar 2010 |
ThriveNotSurvive
♀ Member
Member # 22093 | | Posted: 2:22 AM, June 6th (Sunday), 2010 | |
bump
Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie
Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.
Posts: 1582 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Las Vegas |
SummerBlues
♀ Member
Member # 25626 | | Posted: 2:39 PM, June 8th (Tuesday), 2010 | |
bumped for ITSNOTMY FAULT
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
Posts: 1183 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Brigadoon |
sharonons
♀ Member
Member # 24462 | | Posted: 2:53 PM, June 8th (Tuesday), 2010 | |
Thanks for bumping this too. I needed to see this again.
Posts: 568 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: NY |
whatdoto
♀ Member
Member # 28555 | | Posted: 3:09 PM, June 8th (Tuesday), 2010 | |
Thanks for bumping...I really needed to read this again.
ME 52
WH 44
DDay 5/16/10
"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".
Posts: 969 | Registered: May 2010 | From: SE Texas |
FindingNolia
♀ Member
Member # 28518 | | Posted: 4:14 PM, June 8th (Tuesday), 2010 | |
tag
married 18 years
separated 7/2010
divorced 11/2011
Posts: 199 | Registered: May 2010 |
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