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Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, October 15th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpity bump


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
CanISurvive
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Default  Posted: 3:07 AM, October 20th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump #2.


D final 11/25/2011 -- on Black Friday! ;-)

Moved my stats to my Profile; click there for my story.

I am a Phoenix; I may be in the ashes stage at the moment, but I am now actively working on my Rebirth. =)

PS: I edit posts for typos & clarity


Posts: 330 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: California
hopefully
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Default  Posted: 11:48 PM, October 22nd (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dear Serjr,

I am new but have but most of this into place already and I fully intend on using this as my plan of action. This post is perfect for all but especially us Newbies Thank You


Me:42
fWW:38
Kids 3 - 5, 11, 14
DDay : 10/16/2010

Posts: 70 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: New Jersey
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, October 26th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Buuuuuummmmmmmmmmmmmmmpppppp!


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
WHATDOIDONEXT
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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, October 31st (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for newbies


DDay Sept 12th 2010.
BW 47.
FWH 46 (Penitent95).
Married 5 years
2 DS's 1 & 3 years old.
2 SDD 17 & 19 years old.

As a phoenix rises from the ashes I to shall rise from embers that were once my old life.I shall rise anew. Stronger, wiser.


Posts: 195 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: UK
knockedsideways
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Default  Posted: 10:01 AM, November 1st (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How do you 'Bump"?
Does that mean put it to the front of the forum?
Good article serj.
Never before in my life did I feel so flattened and now this site has given me the strength ( as well as a rock of a friend) to get through this and pick up the pieces of a shattered heart


Me: BW (46)
Him : (F)WH (46)
D-Day 8th June 2010
23years of M (25 together)
2 teenagers

Posts: 166 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Europe
Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, November 2nd (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
knockedsideways
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Default  Posted: 5:07 PM, November 2nd (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: BW (46)
Him : (F)WH (46)
D-Day 8th June 2010
23years of M (25 together)
2 teenagers

Posts: 166 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Europe
booger bear
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, November 2nd (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

newbie bump


I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

Posts: 18810 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: OK - Hot as hell here !!!!!!
tsol25
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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, November 7th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


me - tsol, that's all for now

Posts: 1208 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Canada
Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, November 7th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
EasyDoesIt
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Default  Posted: 1:27 AM, November 8th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpin' baby I'm a bumpin dude bumpin oh yeah, bumpin


Anything less than full disclosure and total transparency is pure bullshit. WARNING! No emotional pollution allowed.

Posts: 3698 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: Georgia
wonderingbull
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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, November 8th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor


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bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, November 10th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

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lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, November 10th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am new to the forum, but haave been lurking for quite some time. I want to say thanks already to SerJr, ThriveNotSurvive, Fallen, Wincing, Cee64D and many others you all have great wisdom... I hope I can use all this information and repair my life.

[This message edited by lordhasaplan? at 1:28 PM, November 10th (Wednesday)]


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, November 10th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sorry for the repost! Just learning here

[This message edited by lordhasaplan? at 1:24 PM, November 10th (Wednesday)]


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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hard_yards
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Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, November 11th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump



I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

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bigpicture3236
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Default  Posted: 6:22 AM, November 14th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


If you love something and hurt it dearly, then chose not to fix it...you never deserved it in the first place.

Posts: 3603 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Michigan
AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, November 15th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


Posts: 1992 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Wisconsin
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, November 16th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpin Serjr's wisdom for the newbies


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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