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User Topic: Tactical Primer
Dagny07
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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, June 15th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me:BW Him: FWH E/A
M: 29 years, together 36 : both guilty of PAs 20+ years ago
CDay#1 Oct 06 (false); DDay#2 Oct 07 (truth from OW's BH)
R: Tenaciously optimistic

Posts: 838 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Midwest
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, June 16th (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Back to page 1


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37854 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
breakingheart
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Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, June 16th (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This definitely needs to be at the top of page 1. It is one of few posts that does NOT make me cry. When I am ready to take action...again.....this gives me focus.

Posts: 61 | Registered: Jun 2008
ImGonnaMakeIt
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BSO - 35

Together 5 yrs.
D-Day 1/6/12
Reconciling.
OC Born 11/2012
DD born 01/2014
I still love him but what I miss the most is the peace I felt loving him without the fear.


Posts: 2201 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: AZ
breakingheart
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump
Im gonna make it...love the quote

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ArmyWife08
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Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great post!

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Phill
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Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, June 17th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As a matter of fact, someone ought to compile a "best of" SI posts. That would make for the best book on infidelity ever.

Hmmm... now THATS something to consider, isnt it...

(Really excellent points SerJR)


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our5kids
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, June 18th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AMAZING...........DEFINATELY SHOULD BE IN THE HEALING LIBRARY


me-BS-32 him-WH-37 kids- 5 his mine and ours(3together)

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Phill
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, June 19th (Thursday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This post is so worth this... BUMP!!!!

Posts: 139 | Registered: May 2008 | From: East Coast
burnt_toast
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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, June 21st (Saturday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


I may have not gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
- Douglas Adams

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veryconflicted
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, June 21st (Saturday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for putting this on the first page. I needed to read this. Very helpful

Posts: 12 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Dallas
SerJR
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Default  Posted: 6:06 AM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17109 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
socold
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, June 25th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

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woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 11:25 PM, June 27th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for the new ones tonight

(((Hugs to you all)))


Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7863 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
unfound
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Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, June 29th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

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bbee
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


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Sumrlady
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great one. I'd say 5 & 6 should happen at the same time, and I would give this stage 3 months max.

But then I'm bitter


Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover-Mark Twain

Posts: 3138 | Registered: May 2004 | From: N. California
wonderingbull
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumpitty


The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor


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Balancing Act
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me - BS....living a wonderful new beginning and giving love another chance

Tulsa Area Coffee Buddy


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woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, July 4th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for the new ones again.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


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