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EasyDoesIt
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Default  Posted: 6:14 PM, November 17th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Anything less than full disclosure and total transparency is pure bullshit.

Posts: 3457 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: Georgia
toby
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, November 22nd (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump....for abyss.

Posts: 1461 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Texas
Dagny07
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, November 24th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping


Me:BW Him: FWH E/A
M: 27 years, together 34 : both guilty of PAs 20+ years ago
CDay#1 Oct 06 (false); DDay#2 Oct 07 (truth from OW's BH)
R: Tenaciously optimistic

Posts: 795 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Midwest
SuspiciousWife
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, November 27th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping again!


Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session

Posts: 557 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: East Coast
socold
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, December 4th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

Posts: 2584 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: in a van down by the river
socold
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, December 7th (Tuesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

u


(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

Posts: 2584 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: in a van down by the river
socold
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, December 10th (Friday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010

Posts: 2584 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: in a van down by the river
UKgirl
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, December 12th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 55 y/o Him, WS, 57 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 18 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

Posts: 3172 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: UK
EasyDoesIt
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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, December 12th (Sunday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpity bump bump


Anything less than full disclosure and total transparency is pure bullshit.

Posts: 3457 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: Georgia
isadora
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, December 20th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: BW Him: FWH
Married: 10 yrs
4 children: DDs 6&4; DSs 2& baby
2 Affairs - 2010 year long PA/EA, 2008 2 month online EA
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.


Posts: 4244 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Back home again in Indiana
tammyjean100
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Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, December 22nd (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


You can't overcome anything without facing it. Betty Ford

Posts: 2264 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Capital District, New York
september7
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Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, December 25th (Saturday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump. Thank you for this positive topic. I feel better already.


D-Day September 7, 2010
NC ended December 22, 2010 and I kicked him OUT!
WH dumps OW July 2, 2011 and wants to R!
Me:52. WS 56
M 27 yrs

Posts: 156 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Florida
Sofia58
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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, December 27th (Monday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great advice. Thanks.


D-Day: 12/12/10
BS - 52, female
WS - 54, male
Married 12 years, together 16

"Forgive: sounds good. Forget: I don't think I could. They say, 'Time heals everything' but I'm still waiting."


Posts: 166 | Registered: Dec 2010
cass
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, December 29th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4863 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
gma56
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, December 29th (Wednesday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Up it goes !


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, and my mistakes to make. I'm not the woman that married 27 yrs ago but a woman that is wiser and getting stronger every day.

Posts: 19662 | Registered: May 2008
4myheart
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, December 30th (Thursday), 2010View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump so many people need it


"Have you ever been so lost.... Known the way and still so lost." Katy Perry

Posts: 546 | Registered: Sep 2008 | From: I da ho....... no she da ho!!!
gma56
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, January 1st (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump it for New Years fallout.


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, and my mistakes to make. I'm not the woman that married 27 yrs ago but a woman that is wiser and getting stronger every day.

Posts: 19662 | Registered: May 2008
Sofia58
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, January 3rd (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump!


D-Day: 12/12/10
BS - 52, female
WS - 54, male
Married 12 years, together 16

"Forgive: sounds good. Forget: I don't think I could. They say, 'Time heals everything' but I'm still waiting."


Posts: 166 | Registered: Dec 2010
kernel
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Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, January 4th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another bump.


You can't change your past but you can let go and start your future.

Posts: 3060 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
momma3times
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, January 5th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump it!! Great sound advice!!


Me: BS (35 yrs.)
Him: FWS (36 yrs.) EA via emails and phone calls that lasted 2 months.
Married for 11 yrs, together for 16 yrs.
2 DDs (ages 7 and 4), 1 DS (22 months)
DDay 1/13/2010 (while I was 9 months pregnant!). Confronted him on 3/21/11

Posts: 75 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Southern part of Missouri
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