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Tactical Primer

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annb posted 3/11/2011 19:57 PM

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lordhasaplan? posted 3/15/2011 14:15 PM

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Rise_Above posted 3/19/2011 10:21 AM

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m334455 posted 3/23/2011 13:37 PM

Bumping for our newer members.

annb posted 3/25/2011 19:07 PM

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annb posted 3/29/2011 06:38 AM

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annb posted 3/29/2011 17:51 PM

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HigherGround posted 3/29/2011 18:39 PM

A good read, it sounds like i fall into the No Contact category which is pretty much what I'm doing and only a month from DDay. I wish i had seen this sooner, my first reaction to the affair was to kick him out but I gave him too much power back after we'd had our first discussion and I'd told him he had a choice to make. I should have stayed more in control and used some of the Tactics discussed here, however I'm really not sure it would have made any difference to where i am now, with the exception that I'd have kept my power from the start instead of reclaiming it 3 weeks in.

bufffalo posted 4/2/2011 00:29 AM

BetrayedWife7 posted 4/3/2011 05:54 AM

This Tactical Primer is just amazing and should be required reading of anyone just entering the world of Surviving Infidelity. Great job!

annb posted 4/10/2011 06:50 AM

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Pocketdialed posted 4/10/2011 19:12 PM

I'm glad this finally got bumped up so I caught it. Better late than never. Thanks!

Rowdy12 posted 4/11/2011 07:46 AM

Dear SerJR, Thank you for the Tactical Primer. I do have a question though. What if I think we're past this point, he's given up the OW and has given me access to ALL e-mail and phone accounts? Should I still be doing the 180 (so difficult)? When can I go back to being my loving and caring self? I know it's still early (DD#1 2-23-11 DD#2FD 3-15-11) but I think we're in the reconcilliation (RD 3-20-11) stage?

annb posted 4/13/2011 09:53 AM

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annb posted 4/15/2011 18:25 PM

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bufffalo posted 4/16/2011 10:10 AM

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lordhasaplan? posted 4/18/2011 20:12 PM

jpm0rgan posted 4/19/2011 09:40 AM


Bump. Looks as though theres a few WTF just happend? folks just joining that need to read this.

annb posted 4/21/2011 17:34 PM

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kernel posted 4/23/2011 19:47 PM

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