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annb
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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, June 20th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpety bump

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NoNoNo
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Bloody Marvellous!
Thanks so much. I agree it should be in the healing library and always on page 1. Am pasting it into Word for my perusal as I work through the steps.

Thanks!


Me: BW
DD: 7 Jan 2011
OW: Former friend of a friend. Betrayed me on many levels.

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Cee64D
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The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

Posts: 2740 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Ohio
cdnmommy
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Default  Posted: 1:00 AM, June 29th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


Me: BW
DDay: Oct 2010 + 6 weeks false R
2.5 (+?) year A with married coworker/my "friend"
1 great kid.
Reconciling and healing

Posts: 1732 | Registered: Nov 2010
annb
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bump

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isadora
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bumping


Me: BW Him: WH
Married: 10 yrs
4 children: DDs 6&4; DSs 2& baby
2 Affairs - 2010 year long PA/EA, 2008 2 month online EA
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.


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annb
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BH-46
WW-44
2 boys-17 & 20(special needs)
Married 21yrs.(together 27yrs.)

All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary Puckett
D-Day: 9/18/09 D-Day#2: 2/19/10 The Marriage Killer: 6/6/11
Heading for D


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bump


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

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annb
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Fighting2Survive
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bump


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


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Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, July 20th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

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Rise_Above
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You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch


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Rise_Above
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You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli

*****
God's hand was an avocado branch


Posts: 14226 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: Chrys a lis
annb
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Fighting2Survive
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Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


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bufffalo
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DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

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bumbed
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bump for the new


I rather suspect like all the worst things in life, making sense of it will not happen.


25 year relationship D day 1/28/11
The we door is closed but the ME doors are opening


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MrsSprky99
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This is a truly WONDERFUL post....thank you so much for taking the time to share it with all of us!


BW (me) - 47
WH (him) - 53
Married - 14 years
3 Children - 25, 24 from first relationship & 10 y/o with WH
D-Day: June 11, 2011

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annb
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