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Edie
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Default  Posted: 3:16 AM, January 13th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

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bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 12:25 AM, January 15th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

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Cee64D
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Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, January 17th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

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Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, January 18th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


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annb
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Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, January 20th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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AttemptStrength
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Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, January 23rd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


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lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, January 24th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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annb
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unarmbears
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Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, January 29th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FBS-Me, 60
FWH-Him, 55
2 Sons 26 and 31
2 Daughters 29, 24 And 4 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

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annb
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annb
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wonderingbull
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The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor


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LisaP
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Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, February 12th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me BS

Divorced!

~Feel your emotions, but control your behavior~ Unknown


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lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, February 15th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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annb
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the_goat
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, February 22nd (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OP is still great advice


Her--WW, OM a coworker. Both got fired for it
Me--BH
I love my wife, but I don't know if I can continue like this...

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sandy78
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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, March 1st (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for this...I feel like I need to keep reading it over and over and over again.


Me: 34
WH: 35
DS: Born 11/2011
D-Day: 2/26/2012
Divorcing...

If someone wants to be with you, there's nothing you can do to make them go. If someone doesn't want to be with you, there's nothing you can do to make them stay.


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jo2love
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jo2love
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AttemptStrength
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BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.


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