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User Topic: Tactical Primer
bbee
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Default  Posted: 10:43 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6656 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 11:15 PM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for the new ones again.

Thanks again for this great post, SerJR.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7824 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
dead_but_alive
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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, July 9th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From a somewhat newly BS -- Thanks for this post.


Me - BW

Separated - 11.19.2007 / DIVORCED - 1.13.2010
-- 19 years, 8 months, 24 days of marriage (including 2 years, 1 month, 26 days of separation) legally ended 1.13.2010. I now officially start my new life.


Posts: 2365 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Mississippi
connection
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Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, July 10th (Thursday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SerJR, I just saw this... I wish I could have read this almost 2 years ago!

At least there will be others who get to read it when they really, really, need it.

Your work is appreciated!


Posts: 128 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Ontario, Canada
SerJR
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Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, July 13th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17109 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
Chin Up!
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Default  Posted: 9:21 AM, July 15th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

EXCELLENT POST! Bumping for the newbies.


Me - BS(44)
Him - WS (43)
D-Day #1 - June 20, 2008
D-Day #2 - July 02, 2008
Status - Who the hell knows?

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Grace under pressure is not just a saying - it's my minute-by-minute goal.


Posts: 130 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Mid-Atlantic
bbee
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Default  Posted: 2:17 AM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6656 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
hurtingstudent
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Default  Posted: 10:01 AM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping to the top other's need it


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Posts: 4507 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: indiana
Phill
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Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump. (Especially for "fool me once".

[This message edited by Phill at 5:55 PM, July 16th (Wednesday)]


Posts: 139 | Registered: May 2008 | From: East Coast
SerJR
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, July 18th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17109 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
bbee
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Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, July 21st (Monday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6656 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
bbee
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6656 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
bbee
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Default  Posted: 1:02 AM, July 25th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6656 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
DivaCC
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Default  Posted: 8:46 AM, July 25th (Friday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful and much needed! Thank you


Me- BS-35
Him- WH-38 EA Co-worker 2 months
Married 7 1/2 years
1 daughter-7
DDay-06/24/08 DDAY2- 08/03/08
The world's a rollercoaster
And I am not strapped in
Maybe I should hold with care
But my hands are busy in the air-Incubus


Posts: 71 | Registered: Jul 2008
Wanda23
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, July 27th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping because it is so important.


Can you tell by the way that I am no longer hunched over that I'm divorced?????

Posts: 1404 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: Omaha, Nebraska
Flippa
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, July 27th (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great info, I'm 3 days out from D-day and still a computer crazed maniac gathering all the online support and information I can get. Thanks for your words.


Me - BS: 34
Him - WS: 37
D-Day: 7/24/08
OEA's began: Sept '08
No PA that he's admitted to
Married almost 5 years
2 kids (2,4)
Currently Separated

Posts: 15 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Texas
SerJR
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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17109 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
bbee
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, August 3rd (Sunday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6656 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
SerJR
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Default  Posted: 10:44 AM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are we playing volleyball bbee?

bump


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17109 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
sparrowjack
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Default  Posted: 12:40 PM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2008View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is exactly the post I needed to read. I think I am in a 'fog' of my own. I want so badly to believe her, but she is following the script of others to a 'T'. I want to believe that she is done with him and that she wants the marriage to work, but some of her actions just aren't reflecting that.


Me: 36
Her: 36
Married: 10 years
Kids: twin boys (8) 1 girl (3)
Found out: 1/1/08
d-day: 7/15/08
moved out: 11/15/08
Filed for D: 12/19/08
She still has contact with him as of today

Life can never give security, it can only promise opportunity.


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