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Topic: Tactical Primer
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annb
♀ Member
Member # 22386 |  Posted: 2:13 PM, April 30th (Monday), 2012 |     |
bump. 
Posts: 6992 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast |
Magda08
♀ New Member
Member # 35211 | | Posted: 8:51 PM, April 30th (Monday), 2012 | |
bump for the newbies
Posts: 44 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: US |
Fighting2Survive
♀ Member
Member # 28410 | | Posted: 3:02 PM, May 10th (Thursday), 2012 |  |
Me: BW, 39.......Him: FWH, 39
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: due 11/30/12
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
Posts: 7246 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC |
annb
♀ Member
Member # 22386 | | Posted: 3:34 PM, May 11th (Friday), 2012 | |
bump
Posts: 6992 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast |
annb
♀ Member
Member # 22386 | | Posted: 9:02 PM, May 19th (Saturday), 2012 | |
bump
Posts: 6992 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast |
lordhasaplan?
♂ Member
Member # 30079 | | Posted: 8:39 AM, May 24th (Thursday), 2012 | |
Bump! 
BH(ME)-40
W-(Whathaveidone??)- 39
DS-10 yrs, greatest thing in the world
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)
Lord Make me an instrument of your peace.
Posts: 1369 | Registered: Nov 2010 |
Jpapageorge
♂ Member
Member # 31800 | | Posted: 11:25 PM, May 26th (Saturday), 2012 | |
Bump
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Me: FBBF
Posts: 1359 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California |
Edie
♀ Member
Member # 26133 | | Posted: 12:24 AM, June 3rd (Sunday), 2012 | |
Bumped
Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 51
FWS 54
Together 27 years; 2 DDs 13 & 10
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.
Posts: 4857 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK |
Fighting2Survive
♀ Member
Member # 28410 | | Posted: 3:25 PM, June 8th (Friday), 2012 | |
Me: BW, 39.......Him: FWH, 39
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: due 11/30/12
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
Posts: 7246 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC |
woundedby2
♀ Member
Member # 18522 | | Posted: 8:26 PM, June 13th (Wednesday), 2012 | |
Bumping
Me: BS
2 kids: DD14 and DS17
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
Posts: 7215 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal |
lordhasaplan?
♂ Member
Member # 30079 | | Posted: 10:05 AM, June 19th (Tuesday), 2012 | |
BH(ME)-40
W-(Whathaveidone??)- 39
DS-10 yrs, greatest thing in the world
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)
Lord Make me an instrument of your peace.
Posts: 1369 | Registered: Nov 2010 |
Fighting2Survive
♀ Member
Member # 28410 | | Posted: 2:34 PM, July 2nd (Monday), 2012 | |
Me: BW, 39.......Him: FWH, 39
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: due 11/30/12
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
Posts: 7246 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC |
lordhasaplan?
♂ Member
Member # 30079 | | Posted: 7:44 AM, July 4th (Wednesday), 2012 | |
BH(ME)-40
W-(Whathaveidone??)- 39
DS-10 yrs, greatest thing in the world
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)
Lord Make me an instrument of your peace.
Posts: 1369 | Registered: Nov 2010 |
homewrecked2011
♀ Member
Member # 34678 | | Posted: 12:02 PM, July 6th (Friday), 2012 | |
me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed
Posts: 817 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
SuspiciousWife
♀ Member
Member # 18108 | | Posted: 11:53 AM, July 10th (Tuesday), 2012 | |
Bumping
Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session
Posts: 557 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: East Coast |
lordhasaplan?
♂ Member
Member # 30079 | | Posted: 10:32 AM, July 30th (Monday), 2012 | |
bump
BH(ME)-40
W-(Whathaveidone??)- 39
DS-10 yrs, greatest thing in the world
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)
Lord Make me an instrument of your peace.
Posts: 1369 | Registered: Nov 2010 |
Fighting2Survive
♀ Member
Member # 28410 | | Posted: 3:19 PM, July 31st (Tuesday), 2012 | |
Me: BW, 39.......Him: FWH, 39
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: due 11/30/12
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
Posts: 7246 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC |
charbonnel
♂ Member
Member # 36324 | | Posted: 3:38 AM, August 1st (Wednesday), 2012 | |
Great advice. But what if the marriage was troubled. WS says she wouldn't have had the affair had she not been miserable (I know no excuse) but I take ownership of my own behaviour and have committed to improving it. She says that the OM isn't the issue but it is our marriage, that being in the A allowed her to stay in the marriage! She now says that even if the A ends (she seems to be finding out that the OM isn't as honest as she thought as she's found he's been staying in local hotels when she isn't involved and isn't being forthcoming with answers) she doesn't make reconciling with me a priority, that she likes being her own woman and is encouraging me to find another (better) partner. But I don't want to. I want my marriage to be improved and renewed, I want my family back. I am 51 (BS) and she is 33 (WS) we have a 7 yr old son.
I can't seem to do the 180. Even tonight she invited me for dinner with them...as I have no life it is hard to resist not seeing them but it is painful as I always think about what might be if only she would recommit...
Posts: 66 | Registered: Aug 2012 |
justjul
♀ Member
Member # 36383 | | Posted: 2:41 AM, August 8th (Wednesday), 2012 | |
Oh, THIS. This needs to stay on the front page. BUMP.
charbonnel, have you read the topic on understanding 180 ? http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=232785
DDay: 6 August 2012
Me: BS (30s)
Him: WH (30s)
Together 2001; Married 2009
No children
Posts: 151 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: On the other side of the world (most likely) |
lordhasaplan?
♂ Member
Member # 30079 | | Posted: 10:27 AM, August 11th (Saturday), 2012 | |
Bump
BH(ME)-40
W-(Whathaveidone??)- 39
DS-10 yrs, greatest thing in the world
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)
Lord Make me an instrument of your peace.
Posts: 1369 | Registered: Nov 2010 |
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