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annb posted 4/30/2012 14:13 PM

bump.

Magda08 posted 4/30/2012 20:51 PM

bump for the newbies

Fighting2Survive posted 5/10/2012 15:02 PM

annb posted 5/11/2012 15:34 PM

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annb posted 5/19/2012 21:02 PM

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lordhasaplan? posted 5/24/2012 08:39 AM

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Jpapageorge posted 5/26/2012 23:25 PM

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Edie posted 6/3/2012 00:24 AM

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Fighting2Survive posted 6/8/2012 15:25 PM

woundedby2 posted 6/13/2012 20:26 PM

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lordhasaplan? posted 6/19/2012 10:05 AM

Fighting2Survive posted 7/2/2012 14:34 PM

lordhasaplan? posted 7/4/2012 07:44 AM

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SuspiciousWife posted 7/10/2012 11:53 AM

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lordhasaplan? posted 7/30/2012 10:32 AM

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Fighting2Survive posted 7/31/2012 15:19 PM

charbonnel posted 8/1/2012 03:38 AM

Great advice. But what if the marriage was troubled. WS says she wouldn't have had the affair had she not been miserable (I know no excuse) but I take ownership of my own behaviour and have committed to improving it. She says that the OM isn't the issue but it is our marriage, that being in the A allowed her to stay in the marriage! She now says that even if the A ends (she seems to be finding out that the OM isn't as honest as she thought as she's found he's been staying in local hotels when she isn't involved and isn't being forthcoming with answers) she doesn't make reconciling with me a priority, that she likes being her own woman and is encouraging me to find another (better) partner. But I don't want to. I want my marriage to be improved and renewed, I want my family back. I am 51 (BS) and she is 33 (WS) we have a 7 yr old son.
I can't seem to do the 180. Even tonight she invited me for dinner with them...as I have no life it is hard to resist not seeing them but it is painful as I always think about what might be if only she would recommit...

justjul posted 8/8/2012 02:41 AM

Oh, THIS. This needs to stay on the front page. BUMP.

charbonnel, have you read the topic on understanding 180 ? http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=232785

lordhasaplan? posted 8/11/2012 10:27 AM

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Fighting2Survive posted 8/15/2012 18:48 PM

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