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User Topic: Tactical Primer
Fighting2Survive
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Member # 28410
Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, August 15th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
sisoon
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Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, August 27th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10378 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Jpapageorge
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Member # 31800
Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, August 31st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1751 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
Spelljean
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Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, September 1st (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Spelljean
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Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, September 1st (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
annb
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Member # 22386
Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, September 3rd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Posts: 7593 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
Spelljean
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Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, September 5th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
bufffalo
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Member # 21854
Default  Posted: 2:55 AM, September 8th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay 9/25/2008
R started 11/10/08
BH-me

Posts: 5828 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Texas
Spelljean
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Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, September 9th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, September 11th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25750 | Registered: Aug 2011
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, September 14th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1909 | Registered: Nov 2010
Steppinglightly
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, September 18th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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For now - Someone caught stealing is rarely sorry because they stole, they are only sorry because they were caught.

Posts: 35 | Registered: Aug 2012
Spelljean
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, September 22nd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 3:34 PM, September 29th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Posts: 11752 | Registered: Mar 2008
kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, October 7th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Time to bump


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5271 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, October 13th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

weekend bump.

Posts: 11752 | Registered: Mar 2008
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, October 22nd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump for Newbies


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1909 | Registered: Nov 2010
hank9898
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, December 2nd (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me - BH (46)
Two great kids
Son (20) US Army
Daughter (18) College student

Posts: 149 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Minnesota
annb
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Default  Posted: 10:27 PM, December 5th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Posts: 7593 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
BrandyT
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Default  Posted: 10:52 PM, December 5th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much for bumping this Annb! Amazing post!

It really should be a sticky!!


Me- BS
Him- WH
M- 7yrs with two kids 6yrs and 6mths
D Day 1- 10/08/12
Insane month of lies and false R
D Day 2- Last discovery 11/23/12
NC with OW- 11/26/12
3mth sexual and emotional A
Moving forward and working on us.

Posts: 46 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: BrandyT
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