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Topic: Tactical Primer
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Skan
♀ Member
Member # 35812 |  Posted: 1:07 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013 |     |
Bump
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 5552 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California |
Simple
♀ Member
Member # 18814 | | Posted: 6:46 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
bump
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
HollyLou
♀ New Member
Member # 41248 | | Posted: 8:12 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Thanks, very helpful.
BW, 45
WH, 48
D-Day 10/30/13
M: 17 yrs
2 DDs 15, 13
Status: ??
Posts: 21 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: MA |
torn2bits
♀ Member
Member # 28376 | | Posted: 9:14 AM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Well now, there you are.
Me: 45/WH (SA): 49
M: 26 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce halted
Posts: 1242 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest |
Jrazz
♀ Moderator
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 12:32 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 20786 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
purplejacket4
♀ Member
Member # 34262 | | Posted: 10:02 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013 | |
bump
Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish
Posts: 2467 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest |
Jpapageorge
♂ Member
Member # 31800 | | Posted: 8:42 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013 | |
bump
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Posts: 1800 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California |
tushnurse
♀ Member
Member # 21101 | | Posted: 11:29 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013 | |
bump
Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy
Posts: 9181 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis |
Simple
♀ Member
Member # 18814 | | Posted: 6:31 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
bump
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
lordhasaplan?
♂ Member
Member # 30079 | | Posted: 8:38 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Bump
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Posts: 1968 | Registered: Nov 2010 |
Skan
♀ Member
Member # 35812 | | Posted: 2:00 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013 | |
bump
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 5552 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California |
Skan
♀ Member
Member # 35812 | | Posted: 2:00 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013 | |
bump
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 5552 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California |
Lyonesse
♀ Member
Member # 32943 | | Posted: 9:59 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013 | |
bump for rosie79
Me: BS, 40's.
Posts: 1839 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast |
Skan
♀ Member
Member # 35812 | | Posted: 6:15 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013 | |
bump
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 5552 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California |
Jrazz
♀ Moderator
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 9:40 PM, December 14th (Saturday), 2013 | |
"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 20786 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
Simple
♀ Member
Member # 18814 | | Posted: 6:53 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013 | |
bump
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
nowiknow23
♀ Moderator
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 8:40 AM, December 21st (Saturday), 2013 | |
bump
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28249 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
Jrazz
♀ Moderator
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 10:23 PM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014 | |
"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 20786 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
Simple
♀ Member
Member # 18814 | | Posted: 7:06 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014 | |
bump
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
PRNDL
♂ Member
Member # 41927 | | Posted: 6:55 AM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014 | |
Page one please!! Amazing! This can truly save someone from losing their minds.
BH: 36 (me)
WS: 31 / OM: 31
Son: 12
Affair: 1.5 year long 2012
ONS with stranger Feb 2013
D-day #1 March 2013
D-day #2 April 2013
D-day #3 Sept 2013
Affair continued.
Limbo 7 months
Moved out - 180D - NC
Divorced
She recently ended it with OM
Posts: 197 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Tampa Florida |
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