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User Topic: Tactical Primer
Skan
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4926 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Simple
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Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
HollyLou
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, very helpful.


BW, 45
WH, 48
D-Day 10/30/13
M: 17 yrs
2 DDs 15, 13
Status: ??

Posts: 21 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: MA
torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well now, there you are.


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17832 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2239 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1751 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8707 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Simple
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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4926 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Skan
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4926 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for rosie79


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1797 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
Skan
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Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4926 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, December 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17832 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Simple
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:40 AM, December 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17832 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Simple
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Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
PRNDL
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Default  Posted: 6:55 AM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Page one please!! Amazing! This can truly save someone from losing their minds.


BH: 35 (me)
WS: 30 / OM: 30
Son: 11
Affair: 1.5 year long 2012
ONS with stranger Feb 2013
D-day #1 March 2013
D-day #2 April 2013
D-day #3 Sept 2013
Affair continued.
Limbo 7 months
Moved out - 180D - NC
Divorced
She recently ended it with OM

Posts: 191 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Tampa Florida
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