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User Topic: Tactical Primer
Skan
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4085 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Simple
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Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
HollyLou
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, November 6th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, very helpful.


BW, 45
WH, 48
D-Day 10/30/13
M: 17 yrs
2 DDs 15, 13
Status: ??

Posts: 21 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: MA
torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, November 9th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well now, there you are.


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, November 13th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

Posts: 14596 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: BS 44
Her: fWS 47 (same sex partner)
Together: 17 now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 1851 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Jpapageorge
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

Posts: 1655 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: California
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 6549 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Simple
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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, December 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1796 | Registered: Nov 2010
Skan
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4085 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Skan
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4085 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump for rosie79


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1694 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
Skan
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Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4085 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, December 14th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

Posts: 14596 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Simple
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:40 AM, December 21st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22565 | Registered: Aug 2011
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, January 1st (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

Posts: 14596 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Simple
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Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, January 3rd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.


Posts: 927 | Registered: Mar 2008
PRNDL
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Default  Posted: 6:55 AM, January 7th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Page one please!! Amazing! This can truly save someone from losing their minds.


BH: 35 (me)
WS: 30 / OM: 30
Son: 11
Affair: 1.5 year long 2012
ONS with stranger Feb 2013
D-day #1 March 2013
D-day #2 April 2013
D-day #3 Sept 2013
Affair continued.
Limbo 7 months
Moved out - 180D - NC
Divorcing
She is back with OM

Posts: 159 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Tampa Florida
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