As you know I have full custody of OC and I provided you with some info on what the judge maybe looking at concerning custody. Joint custody is going to be a problem if your H has the mindset he has now, no boundaries that he is enforcing.
As I mentioned to you before this is only going to get worse because out of all the fathers involved, he is probably the only one giving her any attention. I have seen it before. I had a friend with 6 kids, 5 fathers involved, she told me herself that she tends to depend on the fathers that take care of her children.
So prepare yourself. It is going to be a hard road.
[This message edited by BMC0415 at 4:26 PM, December 17th (Wednesday)]
Sorry the test came back that way, but I am glad that you and your H are able to move on with your R. Congrats on your pregnancy
On our front, I think the OW really has lost her mind
If you remember a couple of months ago we got a letter from the IRS saying that OW had claimed OC on her taxes against court order. Well I contacted her via email asking her to speak with her CPA to see what was going on so there wouldn't be any issues when we file our taxes in January. She agreed to do so and I have emailed her several times over the past weeks asking if she had spoken to her CPA yet and I get no response. Well today I get a joke email from her! Has she gone so far off the deep end that she thinks it is acceptable to send me joke emails when she has given us no further information about the adoption and has made no effort to let us know what is going on as far as the taxes!
I wish she and her H would just hurry up and get the adoption over with already so I can be done with this madness.
I'm beyond mad, i'm seeing red!!!!!!!
How can she do this.. they work at the same place, make about the same amt of money.. and we can supposrt FIVE kids off his income!!!
I'm so sorry. I have never heard of anything like this before. How in the world can she get support for a child that isn't even born yet and who's paternity isn't proven?! Again so sorry
I am so sorry that this is still happening. OW knew what she was doing claiming the OC. I hope you get it straightened out and the IRS fry her, although I know a few people going thru this and it is a nightmare.
I have never heard of this. How could she do that? So you can just pick a man that you have met, get pregnant and claim prenatal support and he may not even be the father! What a BITCH!!!!
Don't you have a court order support for your kids already? Don't they have to take into account that he is supporting 5 kids already?
The system sucks!
She going after him for the cost of maternity clothing, prenatal classes (lamaze and also dr's co pays as well as half of any medical stuff related to the prenatal visits and birth, OTC meds shre might needs tums for heartburn and shit like that..
PLUS... found out she was arrested 4 months ago for drunk and disorderly conduct and vandalizing public/city property.....
She's 7 months pregnant right now... Do the math..
And she didn't know shw as pregnant doesn't fly because at 5 weeks i have a copy of a text message she sent saying i'm pregnant.
Ruin YOUR life skank but leave the poor kid out of it!
She lives ina flippen flop house right now too...
Who wants to take bets on who eventually ends up with this child?
Everyone is different and it also depends on what your H is doing to deserve the forgiveness. what happens is as times passes by, they sometimes don't feel that they have to try harder to make the relationship work. You may never forgive him, it depends on your situation.
Sorry that you are feeling this way.
[This message edited by lonely&depressed at 9:45 AM, December 23rd (Tuesday)]
So sorry he is acting like such a jerk!
To heck with him, you enjoy your daughter's birthday just you and the girls
[This message edited by 1234 at 2:11 PM, December 26th (Friday)]