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User Topic: SI quote thread- Vol 12
WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, February 8th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some guys are completely unable to grasp the idea that "not an asshole" and "nice guy" are not the same thing

DamnCuteKitty in a NB thread on "nice" guys.

Wolf


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


Posts: 8233 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 11:14 AM, February 12th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is how good therapy works: it pisses you off, and then it makes you better.

WAL in General


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37421 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
gma56
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, February 12th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A classic from Unicornsearcher to 2Crazykids' thread about her WH blaming her for his A because of her house keeping skills.

It is amazing how such ordinary looking dust bunnies cause such lusty thoughts & behavior as so many have claimed to have had happen. This resulted in them then accidently ripping their clothes off & rubbing private parts frantically to see if the dust bunny induced lust for an outsider would go away, once & for all


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20383 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
unicornsearcher
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Cool  Posted: 6:26 AM, February 14th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

StillLovingHim:

It feels better to break a habit than his heart.


11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.

Posts: 14209 | Registered: Jan 2003 | From: Calif
Crushed38
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Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, February 14th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just found this thread! This is soooo great. Ya'll rock! xx


It's amazing that someone can break your heart and you still love them with all of the little pieces. -unknown

Posts: 1540 | Registered: Jan 2011
stilllovinghim
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Content  Posted: 3:36 AM, February 15th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The affair is over. My wife has done everything you could possibly ask for to make amends.
...there are many things in the past that sting. And this is the past... not our present and not our future.

NiteLite1 in Recon on burning letters between OM and W.


“You have a choice. Live or die.Every breath is a choice. Every minute is a choice. Every time you don't throw yourself down the stairs, that's a choice. Every time you don't crash your car, you re-enlist.”
― Chuck Palahniuk, Survivor

Posts: 1942 | Registered: Oct 2010
wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, February 15th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't take credit for that quote. It's actually my wife's assessment of IC. I just repeated her wisdom.


Machiavellian idiot savant

Posts: 6750 | Registered: Apr 2007 | From: Indiana
Mr. Kite
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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, February 15th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WW is like a renter who you have given notice to but who is difficult to evict.

Ethelred in 'Betrayed Men-Part 7' thread.


Posts: 900 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Mid-Atlantic
jjct
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, February 20th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On the efficacy of MC, Hit_By_A_Hammer wrote:

I'm English, so talking about feelings in front of a third party practically brings me out in a rash


Posts: 6653 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, February 22nd (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She is trying to see what she wants to see....and just because she calls herself a Christain don't mean she is acting like one...no more than me going out to my swimming pool and pretending I'm a boat makes me The Queen Elizabeth.......

BasicGuy, in a thread where a woman is trying to justify her A because God forgives sinners.


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17689 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, February 22nd (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gak!
I'm locking

NA, locking her own thread


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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tryinginmi
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Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, February 22nd (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Affairs happen in the space between "I don't want to leave" and "I don't want to do the work to change it

Wincing_at_Light in Topic: We ask alot here, "Why didn't they just leave?"

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=396563


Me - BW 40
Him - FWH 39
Her - MOW 47 Fat Assed Toothless Man Faced Whore!!!

DD#1 July 28, 2010 Admitted to EA. A went underground.
DD#2 August 19,2010 Admitted PA


Posts: 1005 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Michigan
gma56
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Wink  Posted: 10:19 PM, February 22nd (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Trainercarrie talking about XH in New Beginnings. It just struck me funny since he was always a total ass to her about not being thin enough. Sometimes Karma hits XS in strange ways. Carrie saw hers.
I'm just excited he got fat. He always had a comment. I half way want to run into him...so i can do the eye sweep from head to toe and moo at him.
LOL.

MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO !

gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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TrainerCarrie
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, February 22nd (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yaay! Thanks GMA. Glad I could give you a giggle.


Sometimes giving up something you want is the kindest thing you can do for yourself.

Never, ever date your neighbor.


Posts: 2820 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Almost Heaven...West Virginia.
brohl5
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Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, February 27th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The truth is unbelievably painful but it isn't as painful as the question marks.

From EasyDoesIt, after listening to her WH on the VAR unzipping his zipper while trolling for prostitues.


I'm not going to let this define me anymore. He's gone and I couldn't be happier.

You couldn't have told me in July and December of 2006, but there really is a life after this mess.

Breathe, just breathe.


Posts: 5650 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Indiana
tryinginmi
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Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, March 1st (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Dear WH,
There is an elephant in our living room. I know that you don't notice her but I thought I'd let you know cause she's starting to smell, she needs a bath, and to be honest I'm tired of being the only one that feeds and walks her.

See, you and the OW, well you picked out this elephant, and the OW tied her up in a pretty pink bow and deposited her in my living room the day I got the FB message that changed my life.

Now, the first month, the elephant grew because I was numb, in shock, and could barely function so she got bigger. But months 2 & 3 well my rage, it kept her pretty small because no one could forget the elephant was there because I kept pointing her out and screaming that she was there and that she smelled.

Well, the last few weeks I've hit acceptance mode & I guess you decided that means that we don't talk about the elephant but see I'm still walking her, feeding her, cleaning up her poo and you know what she smells and I'm tired of taking care of her.
So, here's the deal, I'm listening to my fellow SI's and I'm keeping my promise, I'm not going to make a decision until I'm 12 mos out from Dday and well, thanks to the OW I won't make a decision then because she so nicely presented me with the elephant right before the holidays. I don't want to ruin our children's Xmas so you get an extra month there, and our Son's Bday is at the end of February so I don't want to ruin his birthday.
So how about March 2012? How does that sound? Maybe I should ruin your birthday? Because this is what I know - I KNOW that I've been taking care of this freakin' elephant all by myself for too damn long and either you can get her the fuck our of house or I will. Our house is too small for this elephant & she's only getting bigger and by 2012 she's going to be a few thousand pounds. She's leaving in 2012 with you or without you, she's gone. So, you can stay or go but the fucking elephant is leaving.

** This rant was brought on by my insecurities over my H spending this next Saturday with a couple of buddies. I calmly asked for reassurance this morning that he was really going to be with them. To which, I got a snort & "no I'm not". I then proceeded to freak out. This is not a freakin' joke to me, I am an insecure mess. I don't need sarcasm, I need reassurance. He's positive that he's done being an ass and cheating on me so he gets offended and bored when I ask for clarification. There's no need to talk about the A because he's sorry, he'll never do it again, and that's it. He never addresses the A until I do, usually in tears.** Thank you for the rant, please continue with your regularly scheduled day.

Excellent rant in General from Annielost

Hey H - There's an elephant in our living room.

[This message edited by tryinginmi at 1:13 PM, March 1st (Tuesday)]


Me - BW 40
Him - FWH 39
Her - MOW 47 Fat Assed Toothless Man Faced Whore!!!

DD#1 July 28, 2010 Admitted to EA. A went underground.
DD#2 August 19,2010 Admitted PA


Posts: 1005 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Michigan
honesttoafault
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Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, March 10th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

last year someone asked WH what he gave up for Lent and I blurted out "adultery."

M334455 in the "I Can Relate" forum, "Long Term Affairs" thread.

[This message edited by honesttoafault at 4:20 PM, March 10th (Thursday)]


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Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, March 10th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

TearsofLove on a thread about an OW contacting a BW to get "closure" after her WH went NC:

Closure- Is that in Jeff Foxworthy's redneck dictionary?

Used in a sentence:

"The OW bitch called me and said she needed closure. I agreed and told her next time to 'closure legs when you're around married men and you won't have this problem'."


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


Posts: 7279 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: NC
Tearsoflove
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Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, March 10th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fighting2Survive pointed out to me that there is a quote thread so I thought I'd add one that I found particularly amusing:


Dearlord in a TT thread in General:

If you're a shithead and pull some douchebag move, pulling another douchebag move to cover up the initial douchebaggery doesn't negate the original douchebagging... it just makes you a double douchebag shithead, and a liar to boot.


"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson


Posts: 4149 | Registered: Sep 2005
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, March 12th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agreed and told her next time to 'closure legs when you're around married men and you won't have this problem'."

Bahahaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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