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User Topic: SI quote thread- Vol 12
jjct
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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, March 9th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't think women are especially any worse than men when it comes to cheating. They didn't build a dick from legos to jump on, you know? Legodick or wondervag, I don't think gender has much to do with cheating beyond how it personally affects us.

StillGoing


Posts: 6759 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Painfool
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Default  Posted: 1:43 PM, March 10th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, Dear God!!!! Must such incredibly stupid people really be allowed on this earth???

And God's answer is:

Why yes. Everyone needs comic relief.

gonnabe2016
in general.


Married 9 years, together 14.
1 child, aged 6.
WS (31)
Me (30)

The bad news is there is no key to happiness. The good news is it isn't locked.


Posts: 1871 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: United Kingdom
gonnabe2016
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Member # 34823
Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, March 11th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hopefulone23 describing her 'pea brain' (PB) WH in D/S:

How many men do you know that would pee in an empty Snapple bottle in the car with their 13-year old son in the back seat, and then less than an hour later, forget they'd done that and take a drink from the same bottle full of pee?!!!



"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8181 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 7:07 AM, March 14th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Catwoman's wise words to alex mama. AM received an email from her XWH and wanted to send some of her own words back to rebut his nonsense. Cat's words are classic! I heard this a long time ago and I laugh EVERY TIME I see it. (in D/S)

He can say what he wants, but that doesn't make anything he says true, does it? He can stand in a garage and say he's a car, but that doesn't make him one, does it?


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8181 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 7:31 AM, March 14th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On a thread in General about 'healthy' ways to release anger towards AP. Here is LonelyHusbands idea:
I've been thinking about lining the cat's litter tray with a blown up picture of OM's face for similar reasons. Then I'm going to overfeed the cats

overfeed the cats snort


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8181 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, March 15th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fencepost's take on getting WS's to go NC:

Getting her to stop contacting AP was like trying to put a cat in a toilet


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8181 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Painfool
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Default  Posted: 7:37 AM, March 17th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Overimpossible's idea to avoid mentioning the real reason that things aren't great at home:

My WH got addicted to cake eating, and now his blood sugar is through the roof and we might need to cut out part of his very tiny heart.


Married 9 years, together 14.
1 child, aged 6.
WS (31)
Me (30)

The bad news is there is no key to happiness. The good news is it isn't locked.


Posts: 1871 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: United Kingdom
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 9:32 AM, March 24th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gonnabe2016 in D/S:

A pity party is only fun for the one throwing it. Don't accept the invitation. Go clean the lint out of your belly button instead.


Not much sleep + reading SI = giggle fit for me.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6425 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, March 24th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Getting her to stop contacting AP was like trying to put a cat in a toilet

BAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA! that's hilarious!

If you've ever tried doing that, you'll know....


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17688 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
ImNellNow
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Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, March 26th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

just as it's my personal responsibility as a Dad to make sure my kids are fed and clothed, holding up the wal-mart with an AK-47 for a cart full of cheetohs and scooby doo jammies is not the appropriate way to go about meeting that responsibility
StillGoing in a thread about Harley's infidelity book... which took a hard right into Other Topics. (Thank goodness.)

[This message edited by ImNellNow at 12:30 PM, March 26th (Monday)]


BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.

Posts: 2370 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Baby steps on my new path
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, March 27th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nobody has to tell me NC. I'm staying as far away from his 'crazy' as I can. I've ridden the 'crazy' bus and it made me puke--I have NO desire to get back on, I would rather walk. Barefoot. Across hot coals. Over snakes and thumbtacks. Blindfolded. And bald.

gonnabe2016's reflection on NC with her blameshifting WH.

Tell us how you really feel, gonnabe!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, March 30th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HFSSC in General:

Please tell him that he can find sympathy in the dictionary between shit and syphilis.

I. Loved. This!


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6425 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 6:41 AM, April 1st (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

standinghere in a response to a thread on a BS's contribution to a WS's A:

My contribution to the affair was being content with her and thinking that my spouse was the person that she presented herself to be, and thinking that the other issues were not as severe as they ended up being, and not recognizing those issues for what they were.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10570 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, April 1st (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jpapageorge's response to a post in JFO giving some advice to a BS who is dealing with a 'gaslighter':

He says he cannot live on a leash? I say take off the leash put him out of the house and call Animal Control because that dog is way out of control.

eta: huh. I looked at my post and wondered who the hell 6102ebnnog was....huh. It's me...gonnabe2016....only backwards? I hope that's not an omen of how my day is going to go....

[This message edited by gonnabe2016 at 8:27 AM, April 1st (Sunday)]


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8181 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 6:32 PM, April 1st (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

nolight's tagline as of now:

I'm not saying that she's a slut, I'm just saying that if her vagina had a password it would be "Password"


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10570 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 1:21 PM, April 7th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Surviving101's friend giving him perspective on his sense of feeling 'worthless' due to his WW's behavior:

We were at a coffee shop and I was telling him how worthless and damaged I felt, how beyond repair my sense of self felt... My friend looked me in the eye and proceeded to take out a $100 bill. He asked me: How much is this worth? -- $100 dollars, I said --- Then he threw it on the floor, stepped on it, threw some coffee on it and continued to step on it frantically... He picked it up, dried it off and asked me again --- Now, how much is this worth?!

I love this story.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8181 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, April 10th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Caregiver's advice to a poster whose WH was informing her of what his 'lawyer' said:

his conversation with a lawyer was a conversation with his friend who once slept with a woman who attended law school. In the mind of an NPD this is as good as a legal consult.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8181 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, April 10th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's funny because as soon as I typed that I laughed. It is so true and kooky and

I actually considered posting it here myself... but who would do that??


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5906 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, April 11th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your divorce is not special. You guys are not "different". When we talk about the handbook, we say that for a reason.

Divorce is kind of like an Ad-Lib. The nouns may change, the adjectives might vary, but the story is the exact same.

Alex Mama imparting some hard-won wisdom in D/S on Catwoman's "What do you wish you had known?" thread.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 26142 | Registered: Aug 2011
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, April 12th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

UR_AN_IDIOT
Guide
Member # 18764

You are not an idiot.


UR in apparent identity crisis... posting reassurance to a member in D/S

[This message edited by caregiver9000 at 7:49 PM, April 12th (Thursday)]


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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