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User Topic: SI quote thread- Vol 12
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 8:40 AM, June 1st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Quit blowing more holes in the boat before you start bailing water.

Darkbeast in wayward


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, June 1st (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OP in General. "Said too much":

I've been faithful to my wife except for the one occasion in which I wasn't.


NIK's response:

Oh. My. God. Did you READ what you wrote? Seriously, dude. You are hurting my head.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7944 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, June 4th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As long as nothing goes up in flames and he doesn't slide off me and hit the wall or the floor, I'm pretty happy with it

HFSSC on her choices for "lube".

Dying here



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, June 5th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think indifference may be the opposite of love but compassion is the beginning of recovery. I feel compassion for my X for the things that he is suffering now. I don't reach out to tell him that. I don't offer to help in anyway. I just feel it.

-better4me in NB


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, June 5th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Healing the marriage, in my opinion, must take a back seat to first healing the two people in the marriage. They can heal together, hopefully with the help of a MC who guides them, but if the marriage is "fixed" before the people in it are, it's still a broken marriage.

It's like a bicycle -- both tires need to be inflated, otherwise it's just a stationary object that cannot move forward.

Threnody responding to a post in Wayward. Great analogy.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, June 7th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Editing myself to not start something political because then I would need to mod myself and that's awkward.

Meta in OT

[This message edited by FaithFool at 4:44 PM, June 7th (Thursday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17341 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, June 8th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

at the time her saying "I'm sorry" seemed more like an attempt at some spell she learned at Hogwart's than an apology.
YMMV

Aesir replying to a thread about "I love you"


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, June 12th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WS's response when he made a realization:

My username initials are WTF?

priceless...


Considering how full of "WTF's" some of my posts used to be, I got a serious 'kick' out of this.


[This message edited by gonnabe2016 at 3:51 PM, June 12th (Tuesday)]


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:37 PM, June 16th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You really should be able to trust your husband, even in a whorehouse holding a stack of 50's and a half price coupon, otherwise there will always be some occasion where you have to guard him and act like a parole officer.
aesir, commenting on trust during a conversation in Wayward.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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m334455
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Default  Posted: 11:54 PM, June 19th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just proving the theory of OW's first line of attack:
"I'm a gigantic slut! Love me!"

Jrazz on "Leann Rimes New Low" in General...


BW 38, 5 kids
Dday Dec. 2009

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, June 21st (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...so I thought I'd just give all you Californians a warning.

If you see two middle-aged dumbasses--one a short, twatfaced, pubic-hair-headed thing with beady eyes and big pointy honker, and the other a medium-height, medium-build, medium-looking, soft, stoop-shouldered, pasty dude who uses the word "I" constantly--skipping into a chain restaurant in their matching marshmallow shirts farting rainbows... try not to be seated next to them. The babytalking will probably kill your appetite.


ImNellNow giving all of California a "heads-up" about her STBXWH's upcoming vacation with OW.

Dy. Ing.

[This message edited by nowiknow23 at 3:10 PM, June 21st (Thursday)]


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, June 24th (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Showing your pain to an unremorseful WS is like giving a Barbie to a 2-year-old. It will end up naked with the hair chopped off, maybe missing a limb or two.
Veritas posting in General about trying to get through to an unremorseful WS.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, June 25th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When that happens I think it has something to do with the google ad thingy doing it's running thing.

Yes those are the technical terms.

Uranidiot's very technically accurate description of why SI slows down at a certain time every day.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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Fighting2Survive
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, June 28th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

monkey sex

-wonderingbull


I don't think the context even matters.


Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, June 29th (Friday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.
trumanshow in D/S.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, July 1st (Sunday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

acceptance is the burp after this huge shit sandwich banquet. no fun for sure, but better when it's over.

stretch13 in NB


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, July 3rd (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I swear, you will never lose your temper or take the bait again if you imagine him dressed as a big fairy, waving a sparkling wand, holding a bag of craft glitter, and telling your lawyer, "No. I do not wish to sprinkle you with Authority."

Thren, on not engaging with an NPD who claims the courts have no "authority" over him.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, July 10th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Texting is an ineffective method for communicating even the most basic thoughts. It's a relatively new and unreliable technology. It's asynchronous. The cave-man comparison would be playing Pictionary using henna and a rock while a sand-dial counts down the seconds until Fred Flintstone's pet dinosaur screeches the National Anthem.

Red Sox Nation on texting vs. calling in NB.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17341 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
better4me
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Default  Posted: 11:20 PM, July 11th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From Squiffle on NB regarding when to to make moves on a date. I thought of Moo when I read it
Do you dance? Dancing is kind of like permissible foreplay.


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

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dirk pitt
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Default  Posted: 11:22 PM, July 12th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah...but sometimes a good "Get the fuck out of there!" is warranted

DS was so right.
and funny


Me=BS
Her=WW (ilovemyhusband)

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