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User Topic: SI quote thread- Vol 12
PippaPeach6
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Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, January 24th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

To try to get back with an emotionally-jacked, worthless, sack of lying shit? No, I can do woo the heart of something more stable than that at a shitty dive bar while farting the alphabet.

keptmyword in General

Whoa Tell me how you really feel?


Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009
Reconciled

Honey Badger don't care. - Randall


Posts: 386 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Flyover chic
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, January 24th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh I'm sure they both meant it when they said "I love you"
But that's only because it would take too much time to say "I am awash in a sea of serotonin and endorphins, and my brain is flooded with phenylethylamine. There is a huge hole in my personality that you are temporarily filling by putting in so much energy into this relationship, and I crave continued validation and soothing until such time as you are unable to fill the ever increasing void within me and this relationship crashes and burns"

Lonelyhusband in General about WS telling the AP "I love you".


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2787 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
jjct
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Default  Posted: 4:39 AM, January 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

fuck you, I'm co-parenting with a fucking muppet. and not one of the important ones, a lower muppet.

StrongButBroken


There is nothing, nothing in the world to add to this.


Posts: 6653 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 2:36 PM, January 25th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

****CLASSIC!****


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17559 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, January 26th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

God, that's funny!


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, January 28th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

wert, in a thread 'Is my IC right?':

No therapist is an oracle, unless they don't try to be one.

[Probably not an oracle even then, but wert posted an important truth here.]


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10384 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Afraid2LoveAgain
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Default  Posted: 3:34 PM, January 30th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In thread about Dr. Phil show:

At some point, you cross the line between victim and volunteer. Not sure where that line is, but I am guessing it comes before 75 OW.

By Aesir
Poet Laureate of SI


BW -- 57
Divorced 2001
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary

Posts: 427 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: NC
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, February 1st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, I had Captain Needypants, but yours is like Rear Admiral Senor Needy Pants with accompanying alpaca carrying dead weight. I would run from that.

Willowiris in NB on a thread about moving too fast after 2 dates.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17559 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, February 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She said that she was traveling with her father on a train one day and asked him a question about "sex sin". (She was quite young at the time.) He didn't answer immediately, but said, "Corrie, when the train stops, I want you to carry my suitcase." (Which was full of heavy watches and equipment.) She said, "Papa, I can't carry your suitcase. It's too heavy for me."

He smiled and said, "So is the answer to your question. So I will carry that until you are strong enough to carry it."

HFSSC on explaining things to kids in the D/S forum.


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, February 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still Going explaining why his house might not be clean from a thread in Off Topic on if you would date a women whose house was a pigsty...

Kids increase your laundry load by several orders of magnitude. The clean clothes on the couches mean you can't get to the crumbs and wrappers til they're done, but you're putting off the clothes until you get to the counters and floors but the dishes need done first, crap need to run laundry again since the kids spent 10 minutes outside but then smeared jelly all over themselves once they came in, goddamn cat hair need to sweep, when can I relax I work 8 hours a day with a 20 minute commute, need to help with homework before any of this but if I try to multi task then they WILL KILL EACH OTHER so I need to sit there between them like a dour faced temple guardian reminding them to write their vocab sentences or the DOOM OF NO COOKIES will descend upon them, shit it's 5 need to start dinner OKAY PUT THE GODDAMN CAT DOWN no no no YOUR SHOES DO NOT GO ON THE CEILING FAN.... do not.. do NOT turn that fan on.. take your finger off that switch.. FINGER OFF... I WILL SELL THE WII TO HOMELESS CROCODILES FOR PENNIES ON THE DOLLAR IF YOU TOUCH THAT CEILING FAN.... do not.. do NOT turn that fan on.. take your finger off that switch.. good... omg the spaghetti is on fire how the fuck does spaghetti catch fire...
fuck it lets get happy meals and watch clone wars. shove the laundry over so I got a place to sit.

[This message edited by Chrysalis123 at 5:44 PM, February 2nd (Saturday)]


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, February 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^^ Started coughing, that made me laugh so hard. *wheezes* Gosh, StillGoing, you just wrote the anthem of single/primary parents everywhere!!!!! Geez, homeless crocodiles for pennies... lmfao


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 3905 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
Betrayeddaddio
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Wink  Posted: 10:24 PM, February 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Uncertainone, in the wayward forum, eloquently summarizing infidelity.....until the last sentence!


Let's face it, affairs end marriages. They're designed to do that. Remorse after the fact doesn't erase the pain and destruction the choices made. That's a very big bowl of suck to swallow.


BH-42 WW-40 DD-5 DD-9 DD-11
D-Day 09/27/2010 Wayward wife had a 10 month A with married DB co-worker Separated Oct. 2013

Posts: 709 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Canada
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, February 2nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Salted butter is in the red boxes, unsalted butter is in the fuck this stupid bullshit box. Just look at the box.

I am quoting a quote. I swear I use and/or laugh with this quote every single day. Still hilarious.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17860 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, February 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know, right? Classic.

The other instant classic is the "lower muppet" one. I just die every time I think about it.

[This message edited by nowiknow23 at 1:04 PM, February 3rd (Sunday)]


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, February 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

double post

[This message edited by NoTriangles at 4:26 PM, February 3rd (Sunday)]


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, February 3rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG, StillGoing. I've always loved your posts. Even the ones I don't completely understand. And I'm very sorry I missed this one ^^^ in OT.

Freaking epically brilliant!

Rock on, dude.

[This message edited by NoTriangles at 4:23 PM, February 3rd (Sunday)]


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, February 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

meanwhile he's still got slutosaurus on speed dial.

Gonnabe2016 in JFO.

You go, girl!


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:34 PM, February 4th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your freedom from anger will come from detachment. From lumping it all up, past and present, into a big ball of bullshit...and rather than throwing it back at his head, just gently rolling it towards him and saying in your head, "Here, you can have this back, it doesn't matter to me anymore."

Responding in anger makes those bad feelings bounce right back...

Gently rolling the BS back at him leaves it lying at his feet where it belongs.

Healingtree providing sage advice to a poster in D/S who is struggling with anger.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, February 5th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still going that is a classic and brilliant summation. Giving Denis Leary a run for his money.

Do they realize that they've shown up to the OLD table wearing a handle that is the internet equivalent of a face tattoo?[

Lady V in the Gunsnboobs4ever thread about OLD.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17559 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
aesir
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Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, February 10th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

... about as wise as going bear-huntin with a switch.
... is just sharpening the katana blade for Seppuku.

stilllovinghim in a thread in Wayward, with wisdom that is a combination of sophisticated knowledge of the world and it's various cultures combined with Granny Clampett.


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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