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iwantamiracle
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, February 21st (Saturday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bad moment here.....when will he freakin get it that she has always been there and that i am having a hard time with it...he seems to think because they had some breaks that that means something...point is who care that you had some breaks it should have been a permament break...but something always brought them back together...he was the one who said he would take whatever she would give him...she was the one who determined how many, how often...the whole damn thing and HE LET HER....so she was always in his heart because he thought he LOVED her.....

thanks i need to get that off my chest......

ranting again........sorry people...and thank you for being there...


i am taking my life back, one step at a time!!!!!

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iwantamiracle
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Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, February 21st (Saturday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ukg....

i've been in such a state, i just went over old posts and saw that u had surgery....i'm so sorry for not saying something sooner......glad to hear your doing well......keep getting better....and thanks again for all your kind words, advice and most of all hugs....


i am taking my life back, one step at a time!!!!!

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fadingmemories
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Default  Posted: 11:25 PM, February 21st (Saturday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Miracle my FWH siad the affair took on a life of it's own, it had it's own momentum which had nothing to do with me. He loved being there because he used it as a drug to escape reality. There was nothing real there and whenever the daily pressures got to him he just went to get his next fix. There he had no resposibilities, just someone telling him how wonderful he was...and he didn't have to do anything to get it. When it came to dday... he wanted reality.


Me BS
Him FWS
Married 25 Years  Together 31
LTA 12 years
DDay 4/11/08
R 2/14/09
"No matter if you think you can or you can't...either way you are right"
Scars do not form on the dying...
only on the survivors.



Posts: 315 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: North East
iwantamiracle
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Default  Posted: 1:06 AM, February 22nd (Sunday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i'm back...just tried reading yet another "f"in book on affirs.....noe of these "F" in books cover the affair that started before you existedfor the "F" in wh....they all want you to "F" look back to a "before"

and i just want to SCREAM I DONT HAVE A FUCKING BEFORE SHE WAS ALWYS FUCKING THERE...WHEN WE WERE DATING, WHEN WE WERE HAVING DAILY SEX, WHEN WE HAD BABIES, JUST BECAUSE THEY HAD SOME "DOWN TIME" DOESN'T MEAN SHE WASN'T ALWYS THERE.......

is there a book out there for someone in my shoes????????


i am taking my life back, one step at a time!!!!!

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Lost Heart2
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Default  Posted: 2:04 AM, February 22nd (Sunday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

is there a book out there for someone in my shoes????????

Miracle,
There are a few of us in your sitch here, and none of us have yet to find THAT book.

However if you are looking for that book which will explain satisfactorily why and howH did what he did, I doubt the answers will make you feel any better.

To lead a double life like that for so long; to continuosly lie and betray like that means your H (and mine) have some deep deep issues. Something went tragically faulty in their wiring when they were growing up which let them choose to be who they are.

Your H's duty (to himself and you) would be to find out where he went "off" and then how to get "on" again. This is a long long process, but it can be done. There are some LTA WSs here who are accomplishing this.

BUT thats in the future.
Now, you need to grieve. Wail. Rage at the heavens.
Some days it'll feel like your tears spring from a bottom less well. Some days it'll feel like you cant feel anymore. Some days will pass without you even noticing.

Miracle,
Have you found yourself an IC yet? Does anyone IRL know...do you have someone you can lean on?

((((((Miracle))))))

*****

Ukg,
I am so glad you are healing well.
This op is not going to 'fix' you, you already know that. BUT it will help boost your confidence and who knows where that will lead to.

****

Re my H.
Unfort I can not enjoy his gesture.
I have tried to let it go but yesterday found me on the bathroom floor, weeping.
What he does he want? What is he up to? What has he done?
Whenever he did something nice before (I now know), was because he felt guilty about the OWs.

This morning I found him very early on the laptop. he said he couldnt sleep so was just browsing. He wants to get a Blackberry; he has always said he wouldnt get that cos its so ugly.MMmmm.
Theres no way I can see his laptop. No access there or to his emails.
Some thing is just not right. Or maybe its just me.


LTA BS

Dday#1 02.06.06
Dday#2 28.11.06


Mind what you love. Mind how you are loved.


Posts: 471 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: London, UK
UKgirl
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Default  Posted: 6:03 AM, February 22nd (Sunday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks miracle, getting a little better every day!

I have not found any books dealing with LTA’s either. It seems some categorise an affair as “long term” if it goes on more than 6mths ….. which is not quite in the same league as us in here who use two years as a yardstick.

And I would agree with FM, the affair had a life of its own. My H had “breaks”, but then they would renew with an intensity caused by absence which would put it back on the path. It was a kind of addiction and H could never believe that MOW would just let go and fade away. So, guess what. If she was quiet for too long, he’d contact her just to make sure that she wasn’t building up a simmering resentment that he was ignoring her. And, yes. She was an “escape” and a “distraction” and she was “interesting company”. And that makes me soooo mad. I was coping, he wasn’t, so he fucked off into an affair because she made him feel better about himself! I can feel that old rage coming up again.

LostH is right, there are deep rooted issues to be pulled out. For my H, it was the business of being the son who was expected to excel academically and on the sports field. And the pressure of being a “success” in business, to have a perfect family and a perfect wife. He saw my parents as wonderful people and he has huge admiration for them. He really does see my dad as some sort of elder statesman, full of knowledge, gravitas and a stoicism brought about by age and experience. He felt he could not come up to the mark and that his life was going to be exposed as a fraud and without foundation. Chronic lack of self esteem. Oddly enough, he seemed outwardly confident and self assured and just a tad arrogant. He’s popular, witty, clever, full of good ideas, a good conversationalist, a good mate, a shoulder to cry on. But he had an empty hole inside and tried to fill it with MOW and the past.

LostH, take it for what it is now. We’ve all had the guilt gestures, but couldn’t he be doing it now because he just wants to? Is there something other than your delicate guts telling you something is amiss?


D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 56 y/o Him, WS, 57 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 18 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

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Lost Heart2
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Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, February 22nd (Sunday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is there something other than your delicate guts telling you something is amiss?

Ukg, I am losing it. It has been a LONG time since I had a meltdown, but am having a slow one now.

Some thing is not right. Its everything and nothing.
I checked the cell phone bills. His are huge. He said that they are work related but apart from calling each one up (what would I say anyway?), how would I know?

He told a little lie about the gift. He has told my BIL and mum that he bought it for Mothers Day early and they encouraged him to give it to me now as he had lost another £100 gift card which had been given to us. BUT he told me that he just bought it...not for any reason and def not for M's day. When I queried this, he said he doesnt remember telling them this and couldnt think why he would have. Why lie?

This sounds so crazy huh? Me going off because my H buys me a surprise gift. Maybe I am crazy. Or maybe he is up to something. There are other minor things. I cant remember now.

I am going for my scans on Tuesday. I had the bloods done last week. Should get the results in on friday. I asked him casually a few weeks ago if he could come for any of them and he said he would see.The bloods are not a big deal but he is out of town on Tuesday and doesnt know where he will be on Friday. He knows how upset I am about these tests. HJe knows the symptoms are getting worse and the not knowing is killing me. Poor choice of words.
Crap.


LTA BS

Dday#1 02.06.06
Dday#2 28.11.06


Mind what you love. Mind how you are loved.


Posts: 471 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: London, UK
lovinlife
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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, February 22nd (Sunday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

UKG... glad you are feeling better, stronger, and hopefully more confident!!!

with LTA’s they just carry on because they don’t know how to get out. While nothing is rocking the boat, they just carry on putting off the inevitable day so they can continue with their life as it is. There is a real fear that exposure of their infidelity will result in divorce from the one they really love and they don’t want that, so they just carry on in this sort of Catch22 situation, they are stuck in a cleft stick and the more they struggle, the tighter the fit, so they just try to make their life as easy as possible. And, of course, they don’t want to think about it too deeply because then they would have to deal with it, so they ride along telling themselves that you will never find out. If your H loved the OW, he would have gone. And that’s a certainty once you had found out. But the LAST thing he wanted was to lose you.

WOW... spot on UKG!! I sure needed to hear that right after D-day, cause it was soooo true in our case!!

LOSTHEART2,

It has been a LONG time since I had a meltdown, but am having a slow one now.

I hate to read this and I am so sorry! Whatever the tests are, he shuld definitely be with you! He may end up regretting his lack of care... has he thought of that?! And do you not have a way to check his cell?

Is there anyone IRL that is there for you? I am FAR away but always close by... PM style!!

I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers! Mr. Lovin will even take me for my dental visits because he knows that they scare me to death... I have an unrational fear, but just having him with me helps.

Welcome to all the newbies, you are in great company!

My life.... it's good. Mr. Lovin and I went to the RV show this weekend. We found a new 5th wheel that we both fell in love with. We will take ours to their lot and they will determine how much we'll get as a trade in towards the new one. If they are willing to work a deal and I can keep pretty much the same payment, then we will probably do it!!! Both of us liked it so much that we both dreamt of it Friday night!!

Other than that we have just been together, living each day and being thankful! We have been attending massive amounts of retirements! Mr. Lovin will have his 30 years in July... but he will have to find another job before hand!

((((((LTA))))))

Lovin


Together more than half our lives.

I am woman, hear me ROAR!!
What you accept, you teach!

Me 53, WS 54
Reconciled for life!
DD 24, DS 27


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iwantamiracle
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Default  Posted: 9:55 AM, February 22nd (Sunday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

lh2.....i am so sorry for your pain...does it ever end for people like us?

ukg...ty for your words of encouragement.......


i am taking my life back, one step at a time!!!!!

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Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, February 22nd (Sunday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh LostH! >>>sigh<<< I think your H doesn’t know which way is up or maybe his casual lies over a lifetime make for extraordinary need for changes in brain function. And I’m so sorry he’s being so off hand about your tests. Once I had my initial consultation (and after I had made the go ahead decision) Mr UKg came with me for the second consultation and all the pre-op tests. We were at the hospital for a couple of hours. Then he took me in on the day of the op, came back to see me once I’d come round for a couple of hours and took me home the next day. He has been here being my ever attentive nurse since. When I got the second consultation date, I said to him that he might like to come with me so he would know what was involved. How about if you were to give H the dates and ask him to keep them free to come with you? Or at least be around for you on Friday when you make the call for the results. That is what supportive partners are supposed to do!

As for the mobile numbers, there is nothing you can do about that. FWH has his work phone, which means he could easily be back in contact with MOW and I wouldn’t know. Or someone else. Currently, I think it’s unlikely. But he erases all messages and call logs. I have a date burned into my memory. I looked at his phone while he was out of the room soon after new year. I looked at the mess log and could have sworn I saw 077xxxxx931 on 30 Dec. Fuck, her number. I felt sick. I quickly came out and put the phone back face down when I heard him coming. Next time, the log was erased. I have the PIN no, but that means nothing if he is messaging and then deleting, which was what he got into the habit of doing with his personal phone. But with the work phone, I don’t get to see the itemised billing. So he could be ….. On the other hand, while I’m half vigilant and half paranoid I mutter my mantra “if he lies, he lies to himself cos I don’t believe him anyway” and strangely, I feel better. I have told him if I so much as suspect, I won’t need the proof to file for D as it will constitute an irretrievable breakdown of the M. There I go again with my back up plan. But I will NOT get into snooping as a way of life. It drags me down too much. But I have checked a few times since to find nothing.

Miracle, the pain will stop as a continuous all consuming grief and dull off over time. You will get the triggers. Some may set you right back into the abyss (trickle truth, revelations, other people and their hob nail boots) and others as a sharp reminder of what has happened with a whole range in between. Sometimes you might feel just plain sad all day just wondering what sort of an amoral person you m’d. But there will be shafts of light. Just little ones lifting you and the day will come when you have a whole day that’s been good. Hold on to the good moments. They are there even now. Just see them when they come and hold them close.

Lovin’, is there any time of year you don’t go off in your RV??? And what’s a “5th wheel” apart from a spare tyre? A 5th vehicle on your drive? As for me, well when I’m all healed up and stopped looking so darn jaundiced and sick and my boobies have settled to a more natural look, I’ll be looking for a HOTEL with pool waiters who bring me pina coladas, buff up my sunnies and offer to move my parasol!


D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 56 y/o Him, WS, 57 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 18 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

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lovinlife
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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, February 22nd (Sunday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lovin’, is there any time of year you don’t go off in your RV??? And what’s a “5th wheel” apart from a spare tyre? A 5th vehicle on your drive? As for me, well when I’m all healed up and stopped looking so darn jaundiced and sick and my boobies have settled to a more natural look, I’ll be looking for a HOTEL with pool waiters who bring me pina coladas, buff up my sunnies and offer to move my parasol!

UKG.... you crack me up!
We will go camping in any type of weather. At present, with our current 5th wheel(RV) we have to watch the temps, because our pipes are exposed. The new rv we want to purchase has no exposed plumbing and they have a heat source!! A 5th wheel is pulled by hooking into the bed of a truck, thus the name... versus a travel trailer that is connected to a hitch on the back of a truck or vehicle!!

I am glad that you shall be vacaying in a HOTEL with a pool. Campgrounds also have pools....

What does it mean to "buff up my sunnies"?

Lovin


Together more than half our lives.

I am woman, hear me ROAR!!
What you accept, you teach!

Me 53, WS 54
Reconciled for life!
DD 24, DS 27


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fadingmemories
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, February 22nd (Sunday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

.
i am so sorry for your pain...does it ever end for people like us?

miracle, I'm sorry you are having a hard time. Unfortunatly I don't think it ends for a long time. My FWH and I have successfully R but I still trigger when i least expect it. I am going away on a business trip and have felt very anxious since I found out I had to go. At first I thought maybe it was the flight but today I realized I was kidding myself. I don't want to go because it will be the first time since dday that he is home alone for several days. He has done nothing to make me feel this way,(outside of having a 12 year LTA!) but he has been 100% since dday and we had a wonderful R ceremony and it still knocks me for a loop So I'm not sure if it ever completely heals


Me BS
Him FWS
Married 25 Years  Together 31
LTA 12 years
DDay 4/11/08
R 2/14/09
"No matter if you think you can or you can't...either way you are right"
Scars do not form on the dying...
only on the survivors.



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iwantamiracle
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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, February 23rd (Monday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

for the most part today is better.......rollercoaster is the perfect word to decribe the range of emotions and how fast you can go from on to another......i have had most of them today......but thankfully i got a grip rather quickley with each incident of which there are always a supply of.......

how is everyone else doing...?


i am taking my life back, one step at a time!!!!!

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Lost Heart2
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Default  Posted: 2:34 AM, February 24th (Tuesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the good wishes, Tribe. Go in for the scans today. Hey, whats the worst, right?

***

Miracle,
No, please dont see my rantings as proof of endless pain for the LTA BS. I am so sorry it came out like that.I am going through a bad patch right now and dont really have anyone IRL to talk to, so use this board, KWIM?

It DOES get better. You WILL get better. Life DOES pick up again. Whether your H joins you, is up to him though. But with or without him, you will survive and thrive this.

Hang in there.

***

Lovin, You are so sweet. I didnt understand much of the RV talk (5th wheel?? )but it sounds like fun. Imagine getting into a car on a whim and just driving. Wow.

***
Ukg, Look forward to seeing the new pics. You sound GREAT!
Looks like Mr Ukg has found a new vocation...looking after you. Whoopeee.


LTA BS

Dday#1 02.06.06
Dday#2 28.11.06


Mind what you love. Mind how you are loved.


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UKgirl
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Default  Posted: 4:13 AM, February 24th (Tuesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just dropping by before going out.

I’m glad things are a little better for you Miracle. And yes, you can go from depths of despair to anger to just not caring in a very short time, but it will get better, esp with support and openness from a remorseful FWS.

LostH, I’ll be thinking of you and your tests today. And hope your H gives you some emotional support while you’re waiting for the results. Mr UKg is concerned that I’m not grinning like a Cheshire cat at having done the surgery. I’m anxious that this was not the “answer”. Not that I know what the question was.

Meanwhile, I’m in a low today. I’ve had all this done, and I am wondering what for. I know, bit late now. I know it’s only two weeks out, but things are not settling down quite as I expected them to. My face feels and looks lop-sided. But then I still have a large amount of bruising on one side, so …? And large areas are still numb, but I expect that’s normal too. And one eye still fuzzy. I’m still uncomfortable enough to be sleeping propped up on pillows. Maybe I should have just taken the money and gone off on a sabbatical for 6mths to heal my shattered soul instead of trying to physically wipe the tragedy off my face.

FWH has gone off for work and won’t be back until tomorrow night, although DS2 has taken a couple of days off to be around. I’m going over to UKg2’s to look at rentals (her D is progressing) and have lunch. Other than that, I still can’t be seen out in public.

Apart from having to consciously keep her weight down, it would appear that MOW has always been comfortable in her own skin and in herself. I still can’t help but wonder what on earth my H is doing here with me and often think he just lacked the courage to leave when it came to the crunch. He left it to me to decide who he should be with. Spineless and pathetic. And that’s how I feel now.

I wish I could do the butterfly effect and rewrite my life.


D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 56 y/o Him, WS, 57 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 18 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

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So Lost
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(((LH2))) Many good thoughts and prayers and wishes as you get your results back today. I really, really feel like this is stress related. I hope I am right.

(((UKG))) I would think you were strange if you were not going through this stage of questioning the surgery adn should you have done it. You will be so happy you did. You will feel beautiful and confident. No, it is not the answer to everyone of earth's question...just the one about whether you wanted it done or not. Don't pin all your hopes and dreams on it.

(((Miracle)))) Oh, man, can I feel your pain in your posts and it takes me back to those first days...those horrific first days. Just hang on, at this point that's all there is to do.

((((LH2))))I wish I had some words to help. I feel like I go in and out of how you are feeling. I fell okay right now, but in an hour he could be a complete ass again.

often think he just lacked the courage to leave when it came to the crunch

This is my fear. My H is very apathetic. Would never had ended it or told me had he been given the opportunity. I asked many times. Told him not to let us move in to this big house if anything was going on, don't do what my dad did. And nothing. Such lack of love, lack of caring by not giving me my choices. And I often wonder if he would not wander back to her if I left him. He says no (I didn't ask), but she would be persistent I imagine after her current nonsense.

Then the same could be said about me. Do I stay b/c I love him or b/c it is so much less complicated than leaving, mostly for the kids sake?

MC today. I just don't feel like it. But I will go, sore throat and all.


Me: BS
Wh: WS
Dday 10/28/07
LTA with coworker
Attempting Reconciliation
he is remorseful, I am willing, we'll see what happens

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Default  Posted: 6:40 AM, February 24th (Tuesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((LH2))))))

You are in my thoughts and prayers today as you go thru your scans. I am hoping that all goes well. Keep us updated!!

((((((UKG))))))

I wish I could do the butterfly effect and rewrite my life.

Beautifully stated, but not really what you want! If you rewrote your life, you might not have your wonderful sons!! And in truth... are any of us ever really in control of our lives??

We live the best we can with what is given to us! Everyone has some sort of issue...or problem. That is why I am thankful everyday that I get up in the morning! I live my best daily and try not to worry about what I can't change!

Your H did choose you! And you can choose to be comfortable in your own skin as well! If the surgery didn't help, at least it didn't hurt anything... I bet your gonna be gorgeous, cause you already were.

I know that I hardly ever let people know, but I get sad and there are days that I truly would like to be someone else... but they are few and far between. I will willingly take my blessings and be grateful for them, because I have learned that things can change in a heartbeat...

((((((iwantamiracle))))))

Don't ever give up hope!! But feel free to rant whenever you need to.

((((((fadingmemories))))))

Thanks again for sharing your picture. It looked like a wonderful day for you!

Lovin


Together more than half our lives.

I am woman, hear me ROAR!!
What you accept, you teach!

Me 53, WS 54
Reconciled for life!
DD 24, DS 27


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Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, February 24th (Tuesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

well he fessed about another one last night, of course it came out in trickle's, only because i kept asking......so no its ow#3, he claims she was a ons.....there is more but it doesn't matter anymore...he is a liar and thats all he's ever going to be.......i know there is more from my own investigating and he refuses to come completely clean. every time he does admit something its alwys a partial truth....which again means that he is a liar and thats all he ever going to be...i deserve so much better........and i don't when, where or how but i will find someone out there who does deserve me.
i am a good person, i have a good sense of humor and i have a new body. i will find someone who wants only me....

i also posted whats above in the general forum......


i am taking my life back, one step at a time!!!!!

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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, February 24th (Tuesday), 2009View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tribe,
The scans showed nothing abnormal. Everything is where it is supposed to be. Yay.
So on Friday will decide with GP what the next step is.
Thank you all for all the good wishes.
I am so blessed.


LTA BS

Dday#1 02.06.06
Dday#2 28.11.06


Mind what you love. Mind how you are loved.


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