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User Topic: Helpful Books for WSes
Nowna
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Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, March 19th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This book helped me understand myself...how my behaviors stemmed from my irrational thinking and what caused the wrong or what I'd consider in hindsight "insane" thinking...

Power of Now by Ekart Tolle

[This message edited by Nowna at 11:02 AM, March 19th (Saturday)]


Me-WW-37
Him-BH-38
D-Day 1-10/12/10 (EA/PA 4 mths prior)
D-Day 2-10/13/10 (EA/PA 14 yrs ago)
Together for 17 yrs
S-6, D-5, D-5
How to end internal suffering: http://www.eckharttolletv.com/eckharttolle.com


Posts: 27 | Registered: Feb 2011
WhatHaveIDone??
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, April 2nd (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great thread! Seems like we have a couple newbies on the Wayward Side who might find this helpful. I continue to work my way thru the list. Most recent finish was "Boundaries - Where you do end and I begin". For someone who has realized how poor my boundaries have been, this was a GREAT book. Highly recommend.

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Fallen
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Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, April 9th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I added another book to the list: The Four Agreements. It was so helpful with my control and esteem issues.


You can't heal what you won't feel.

"There would be no grand absolution, only forgiveness meted out in these precious sips. It would well up from his heart in spoonfuls, and he would feed it to me. And it would be enough."


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Fightingspirit
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Default  Posted: 6:38 AM, April 12th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

[This message edited by Fightingspirit at 6:40 AM, April 12th (Tuesday)]


BW 37
WS Who cares...
DD 3 yrs old
DDAY1 2/17/11
DDAY2 3/11/11
DDAY3 6/26/11
DDAY4 8/2011

Divorce finalized 7/2012


Posts: 88 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Maryland
Fallen
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Default  Posted: 12:02 AM, April 22nd (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can't heal what you won't feel.

"There would be no grand absolution, only forgiveness meted out in these precious sips. It would well up from his heart in spoonfuls, and he would feed it to me. And it would be enough."


Posts: 23478 | Registered: May 2004
Fallen
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Default  Posted: 11:45 PM, July 3rd (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumping for newbies.


You can't heal what you won't feel.

"There would be no grand absolution, only forgiveness meted out in these precious sips. It would well up from his heart in spoonfuls, and he would feed it to me. And it would be enough."


Posts: 23478 | Registered: May 2004
helpemegetoverit
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Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, July 12th (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just ordered a few. A friend who went through this actually gave us a lot of them after DDay1 and I read....but was in such a heavy fog it didn't do any good.

Hoping for better this time!


Me: WW
Him: BH

"You don't get to choose if you get hurt in this world...but you do have some say in who hurts you."
John Green


Posts: 882 | Registered: Nov 2010
Fallen
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Default  Posted: 1:37 PM, August 21st (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can't heal what you won't feel.

"There would be no grand absolution, only forgiveness meted out in these precious sips. It would well up from his heart in spoonfuls, and he would feed it to me. And it would be enough."


Posts: 23478 | Registered: May 2004
beautifulmess
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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, August 21st (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Didn't see this book listed
Healing the shame that binds you

It is a slow read very detailed but I am learning so much about myself and my family history that sort of payed the ground work for ms to get where I am

Great topic lots of books I don't yet have on my list to read thanks


WW-31(me) BH-38
Beautiful 2 year old daughter
Together since 2002
Married 08/03/2007
D-day 04/25/11 TT for about 6 weeks after that. Working on R.

We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.


Posts: 87 | Registered: May 2011 | From: CA
Hope24
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, September 21st (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.

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Louise2011
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, September 21st (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the bump! :)


Me: BW Him:fWH M 5 years July
DDay: Sept 4,2011 to Oct 3rd (Continuous NC Breaking)
2 DS's - almost 2 and 3.5 years
"All I have in this world is my balls and my word - and I don't break them for no one." Tony Montana, Scarface
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Posts: 195 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: British Columbia
BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, October 8th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6097 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, October 26th (Wednesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

for so_wrong


You can't heal what you won't feel.

"There would be no grand absolution, only forgiveness meted out in these precious sips. It would well up from his heart in spoonfuls, and he would feed it to me. And it would be enough."


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so-wrong
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Default  Posted: 9:55 AM, October 27th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks so much! This list is almost overwhelming ......

I think for me ..... i need to work on understanding me so the boundaries book sounds interesting.
Many of the WS also mention how can I forgive..... and that it helps understand BS pain so I might try that as well.....

Lastly the 5 apology languages.....


- I made some really bad choices and now I need to make it right. And along the way, I will make me better too.....

Posts: 171 | Registered: Oct 2011
wincings_sparkle
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, October 27th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Beauty from Ashes" by Joyce Meyer was instrumental for me. I wish I had read it years ago.


"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light

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Sandcrab
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, November 22nd (Tuesday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump


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Sandcrab
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Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, December 15th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping again


I ♥ LostJim

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Sandcrab
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, January 23rd (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


I ♥ LostJim

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BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, February 4th (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6097 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, February 23rd (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumping


I ♥ LostJim

Adopt a chihuahua in your area
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