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Things that every WS needs to know
and worth reposting over and over again. much appreciated.
I think it should be included in the Healing Library.
It explains so much about how a BS feels and what BS needs from WS.
Also, BS here. Great article. I gave this to my WBF over a year ago. He finally read it last night. He commented that it was interesting and wanted to read it again. At this point it really doesn't matter if we make it or not,I just feel a huge relief that he will hopefully understand what this has done to me.
My BS sent this to me... sometimes the hints are not so subtle!!
This has really helped me understand and to do the right things occasionally...
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Marking so I can find this later....in case I get to share it with a certain person ever.
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My husband asked me to read this in the early days after D Day. It was very hard to read because some of it I didn't believe and some of it I thought I wouldn't be able to do. I was in the 'fog' trying to recover from the addiction of the AP.
Now, 6 months on from D Day 1, and 2 days on from the last of the lies coming out (which have put us back to what feels like another D Day) reading it again for the 3rd time, it all makes sense. I can understand it and I want to try my best to do it all too. This is such a good post. I'm going to print it off and keep reading it.
Thanks again. Hard to read and face up to but so important.
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Thank you, SisterMilkshake! This article opened my WH's eyes. He was angry when he first read it, but by the next day he seemed to have finally understood... 3 days of genuine remorse feels like heaven after 8 months of hell. Wish us luck.
Bumpin again for the newbies and as a reminder to all of us as well!
Awe, I love all the bumps. Wish I could....he doesn't look at SI. (So I emailed him ha ha ha!) He can't get away that easy!
What an amazing post. Spot on. I don't think I could express how I feel any better than what you have here. These are exactly the things I need. I am printing this to give to WW. I hope she reads it, gets it, and uses it.
Truly amazing. Thank you.