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Things that every WS needs to know

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lostsuol posted 11/6/2011 18:01 PM

Wish my WS would read and take this to heart...

LivingOn posted 11/7/2011 09:48 AM

Great post!

Sandcrab - where did you get this quote?

"Uni: "The hurt the BS feels is in proportion to how much they love the WS & valued the marriage"

It's great!

SLDH posted 11/7/2011 10:26 AM

BS here just bawling my eyes out reading this. I wish my WH knew this information. Will print out and ask him to read. It would be of huge help to me if he did and he tried some of these things.

Time Ticks On posted 11/7/2011 12:55 PM

Thank you Hufi-Pufi from the bottom of my heart. My husband said he understood how I felt but he really didn't until he read this. He rarely ever cries but he did after reading your post. Thank you, thank you for helping me show him what it is really like to be me (hugs)

Time Ticks On posted 11/7/2011 12:55 PM

Thank you Hufi-Pufi from the bottom of my heart. My husband said he understood how I felt but he really didn't until he read this. He rarely ever cries but he did after reading your post. Thank you, thank you for helping me show him what it is really like to be me (hugs)

del311 posted 11/8/2011 21:11 PM

everything this post stated related to me!! printing so my ww can read...thankyou

del311 posted 11/9/2011 07:54 AM

Just had to say I read it again and u hit every nail on the head!!

CF1111 posted 11/9/2011 15:24 PM

Sent this to my IC/MC. She was blown away about it and plans on sharing with other clients. It's a great resource and I wish I found it earlier to my D Day.

Tiger posted 11/11/2011 05:20 AM

Bump

ShallLoveHer posted 11/21/2011 17:38 PM

Bump.

This should be added to the Healing Library...

Mongo posted 11/27/2011 01:28 AM

My wife asked me to read this so I thought I'd bring it to the top of the page for anyone who's missed it.

RKT429SS posted 12/5/2011 14:12 PM

Bumpage

stilllovinghim posted 12/12/2011 09:33 AM

bumpidy bump bump. Bump. Bump.

fadingmemories posted 12/18/2011 12:03 PM

Thank you so much... You are so on target. We have gone through all of this. It has made me realize my FWH has taken all of these steps and I am happy to say that after a 12 year LTA we are going to make it. Life is better than ever and I am happy to say that the Forgiveness door has opened. I never thought I would have been standing in this doorway.

jewel123 posted 12/23/2011 10:44 AM

Bump for a friend!

stilllovingher posted 1/12/2012 08:53 AM

Time to bump it

disgust posted 1/12/2012 10:12 AM

This is wonderful and so spot on. I hope my WS reads it. Thank you for posting it.

1985 posted 1/16/2012 15:20 PM

bump up

afallenangel posted 1/17/2012 07:50 AM

Wow, BS here ... I read this and read it over again and over again. It's amazing to me how spot on it is in describing every single emotion that I am and have been going through for the last 9 months.

My WH had recently asked me to find him some literature on this exact subject becase he just can't understand why I am so stuck ... so I printed this out for him as well as copied and pasted into a e-version for him to have on his phone to reference at all times. He emailed me back and told me this morning that he will be reading it several times and that it has already (since last night) made him understand some things that he didn't before and that for the 1st time since DDay he can finally start to understand what is really going on with me and what he can do to help. Apparently some of it sunk in already because it included an apology, an acknowledgement of him being the cause of my pain and a mention of his confidence of us being able to get through this together. WOW ... he just made my day with that. For the first time, I feel hope that he will be better equipped to participate in the healing and R of our M.

Thank you Hufi-Pufi and everyone else on these boards that are giving of themselves input, hope and truth from their own experiences.

OnAnIsland posted 1/26/2012 06:40 AM

I hope my WH reads this. I sent it to him. It made me cry to see so much of what I am feeling written here. Thank you. (Well most things kind of make me cry right now.)

hopefulforlife posted 2/3/2012 01:10 AM


Bump... for all new people.

I wish I had read this earlier... I wish I had understood all this earlier...

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