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Things that every WS needs to know

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NoTriangles posted 1/28/2013 09:54 AM

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SandAway posted 2/20/2013 14:50 PM

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Jrazz posted 3/7/2013 10:46 AM

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uncertainone posted 3/7/2013 10:51 AM

This is a great post.

It's also very important that every WS know that if they do the work and fix the thought processes and patterns to become safe people it will be ok whether the relationship works out or not.

Hell, that's something EVERYONE needs to know.

hurting7897 posted 3/22/2013 09:23 AM

YES!!! APPLAUSE HERE!!! I am a BS a little over a year out from d-day #1 and approaching the anti-versaries of d-days #2 and 3, and I just printed this out for me FWH to read. He is doing "everything" but sometimes it still doesn't seem like he really is. Even my IC asked me, "what do you need from your H?" and sometimes I'm dumbfounded and can't answer. I know he's doing everything he can, but then after reading this, it explained truly what "do everything he can" really is.

I am one of the "lucky" ones who's FWH truly "gets" it. We may just make it after all, and this post will help us get there.

Thank you again.

pizzalover posted 3/22/2013 14:29 PM

Great post! I plan on utilizing this with my BH. It helps me to understand what he's going through.

truetou posted 3/23/2013 12:16 PM

Best info I've read in a long time...wish WS would read it and apply it...

maybe I'll print it and put it in his birthday card this year...dday was on his birthday...6 years ago ..he still doesn't get it!!!

Jrazz posted 3/26/2013 13:53 PM

Lowlow posted 3/27/2013 21:10 PM

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BaxtersBFF posted 4/7/2013 08:21 AM

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SisterMilkshake posted 4/24/2013 11:03 AM

Bump!

SurprisinglyOkay posted 5/9/2013 06:55 AM

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BrokenBill posted 5/10/2013 17:55 PM

Well, that would be everything my wife is not doing to fix her mess!

Thank you for a truly great post here.

3kids30years posted 5/17/2013 15:22 PM

Bump - and printing out for WH to read. At least i hope so.

Jrazz posted 5/19/2013 18:50 PM

woundedby2 posted 6/13/2013 22:31 PM

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Jrazz posted 6/20/2013 17:53 PM

PrincessPeach06 posted 6/20/2013 18:38 PM

This is perfect! WS is being wonderful but I have often wished he could get in my brain and understand and this is as close as it gets. Of course he's not much of a reader and reads sloooow so I had to get the highlighter out.

stilllovinghim posted 6/23/2013 13:50 PM

Bumped for Pouring Rain.

PreggoBS posted 6/24/2013 16:49 PM

Thank you so much for this post. This was my WH's response after reading this it:

Thanks. I just read it but have to go see [a friend]now. I know I've done or said all of those things (or at least felt them, but I think I've said them too) but maybe not enough? This is a good reminder. I'm not sure if I've told you how thankful I am that you haven't killed me in my sleep. Seriously, my world would end without you and even though what I did was so awful here you are. Like I told your mom, you are so amazing. Thank you for loving me that much. It means the world to me.

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