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User Topic: Things that every WS needs to know
SisterMilkshake
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Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9710 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
deena04
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Member # 41741
Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! This is the truth; I wish my husband would read it. He probably won't, though.


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want out!

Posts: 1000 | Registered: Dec 2013
Aubrie
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Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6253 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
mchercheur
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Member # 37735
Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family

Posts: 1393 | Registered: Dec 2012
MomtoRoses
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Member # 42271
Default  Posted: 9:31 AM, April 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpity bump


i'm the bs
he is the wh.
7 ddays: affairs, online activities, ea, pa, longterm pa,longterm ea, one night stands.
I'm the last to know.

Posts: 84 | Registered: Jan 2014
Gemstone
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Member # 42000
Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, April 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There needs to be a way to have this permanently at the top
Wonderful

Posts: 97 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: United Kindgdon
Trying2LoveAgain
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Member # 43024
Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome! This describes the way we,as BS, feel and what we go through. My H has told me many times that he doesn't always know WHAT to do for me, or HOW to help. This is a great guide! I hope it stays posted on here forever! Thanks SO much!


Me:BS
Him:FWH
2 DS:35 & 30 , 2 D Grandchildren
"Oh the webs we weave, when first we practice to deceive"....My WH quotes this often.
I found out about H's affair 25 yrs later.Mine is my own "Life is a journey, travel with Care."

Posts: 234 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: New Mexico
BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump.


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - 01/10 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


Posts: 1235 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: UK
Mjuu
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Member # 43386
Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you ever so much for posting this, and thank you whoever wrote it!

Since I found out about the affair 1,5 years ago I've been in a complete despair, fighting pretty much solo for my marriage and with a 1,5 year old to take care of (I know: I was one month from delivery when I found out).
I found this webpage only yesterday and it feels like it has saved my life, and hopefully also my marriage. Thank you all for sharing.


Me: BW age 32
Him: WH age 35
Together for 2,5 years, 1 child.

Long-distance relationship; he slept with another woman when I was away. Was expecting our child when I found out.


Posts: 1 | Registered: May 2014
isthismynewlife
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Member # 43292
Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump

Such a great post!


Me 42 BS
Him 42 WS
DDay #1 11/28/13 - 7 months EA/a little PA
DDAy #2 8/25/14 - oops - did I forget to mention that it was a 15 month PA/EA? He thought the first version would hurt me less.
Everyday is a struggle.

Posts: 118 | Registered: Apr 2014
remorsefulww
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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Posts: 55 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: new york
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, May 30th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6253 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 2:36 PM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump.

Posts: 7215 | Registered: Dec 2010
sorrowfulmate
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Member # 43441
Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me-WS 50
Her-BS 50 Questioningall
5 kids
Dday 1 12/12
Dday 2 - 3/14 EAs, 2 ONS, 1 LTA
TT until 7/14 when I gave a timeline
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BW Roberts

Posts: 176 | Registered: May 2014
Macsecond
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Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me - WW (38)
Him - BH (36)
Married almost 14 years.
2 kids
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)
In IC and MC, working on R.

Posts: 156 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Canada
sorrowfulmate
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Member # 43441
Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, July 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me-WS 50
Her-BS 50 Questioningall
5 kids
Dday 1 12/12
Dday 2 - 3/14 EAs, 2 ONS, 1 LTA
TT until 7/14 when I gave a timeline
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BW Roberts

Posts: 176 | Registered: May 2014
BaxtersBFF
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Member # 26859
Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
Sparkle0504
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Member # 40379
Default  Posted: 1:39 AM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me 44 (BS) Him 52 (SAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011

The truth hurts, but nowhere near as much as the lies
"Sounds harsh, but she's my wife and I'm supposed to be there when she's having sex" Sal1995


Posts: 206 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: England
BtraydWife
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Member # 42581
Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010
TT for 6 months
Unremorseful for 3.5 years

Delay is the deadliest form of denial. - C. Northcote Parkinson

Your standards aren't up for negotiation just because he/she can't meet them.


Posts: 1762 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: United States
sorrowfulmate
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Member # 43441
Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Me-WS 50
Her-BS 50 Questioningall
5 kids
Dday 1 12/12
Dday 2 - 3/14 EAs, 2 ONS, 1 LTA
TT until 7/14 when I gave a timeline
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BW Roberts

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