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UKgirl posted 3/20/2010 05:32 AM

Bumping for those struggling.

selkiescot posted 3/20/2010 06:47 AM

IN a word. Profound I am showing my WH TONIGHT!

IStillLoveHim posted 3/20/2010 08:28 AM

The day I came to realize this was my second epiphany. The first one was that the A was not my fault, that I did not cause it, could not control it, that it really had absolutely nothing to do with me.

Great post...!

openedupmyeyes posted 3/20/2010 14:16 PM

"BRAVA!!!!"
THIS NEEDS TO BE POSTED @ THE TOP!!! I'M GOING TO READ AND REMEMBER THIS EVERYDAY!!!

mamab posted 3/20/2010 14:31 PM

I just printed this and will keep it to read when I'm feeling down. So true, who else would take a married man, only someone with very low standards.

moreroses posted 3/20/2010 14:37 PM

Yes, this is how it was in our case.

RescueMomma posted 3/20/2010 19:06 PM

Nothing has made me feel any better...until I read this!

AlwaysSmilingNow posted 3/20/2010 19:31 PM

Thank You so much "deathbybetrayal". I know that I needed to here what you posted and I know it to be absolutely true. Thanks again...

Rise And Shine posted 3/20/2010 19:34 PM

Brilliant. Thank you.

njgal480 posted 3/20/2010 20:08 PM

I've read this before but it always makes me feel better.

I often fall into the trap of feeling less than and giving way too much power to the MOW serial cheater loser.
My husband did drop her the minute I discovered the affair, all of her former married co-worker affair partners did the same thing-dropped her and never looked back, her husband finally divorced her....so, why do I allow myself to continue to feel bad about myself? The MOW is the one that should be feeling bad...
What you have written is the absolute truth.

AttemptStrength posted 3/20/2010 20:47 PM

I found this site five days ago. Wish I'd found it two months ago because this would have been as uplifting then as it is now.

Been having a very bad day and this has helped. :)

TryingMyHardest posted 3/21/2010 06:57 AM

Hey, yeah, just in case somebody wants to see this, my WW was also an OW (says she didn't know until his wife called me) and she's really pretty, but at the time she was a drug addict with about half a normal brain who (according to her) lost consciousness during sex. So DBB has a fine point, based on my anecdotal evidence.

Notgoing2forgive posted 3/21/2010 15:44 PM

Thank you so much! I really needed to hear that today.

smallmouse posted 3/21/2010 23:36 PM

thanks for this post!

XWH's own mother put it best, she told me once that he left because he can't stand a woman as good as me, I magnify his flaws.

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*edited just to say, can't believe this post is still out here! lol

[This message edited by smallmouse at 6:38 PM, December 7th (Sunday)]

shattered123 posted 3/22/2010 12:04 PM

Dear Death,
Thank you for these words, on today one of the worst days of my life. It is obvious your words have helped so many of us. Today, I am praying for the strength to survive.

Me: 52
WH: 46
Skank: 32
Married 15 years, together 17
Trying for R, trying to survive

Edie posted 4/12/2010 03:50 AM

Bumping this for newbies.

Is there any way this can make it into the Healing Library?

BrokenWoman007 posted 4/13/2010 12:05 PM

Bump, bump - love this post!

It is so true. When I get really down about WH A I have to keep telling myself that I am a wonderful woman - educated, loving, strong, and a wonderful mommy - and that she is nothing that can't keep her hands of of other women's spouses and is spending the next 2 1/2 years in the "big house" - the one with bars where they have to wear those lovely orange jumpsuits - because she has no self control

emeraldisle posted 4/13/2010 12:37 PM

THANK YOU, DBB....thank you.

luvhimso posted 4/13/2010 23:59 PM

DBB, that is Empowering. Thank you for saying it so well.

Edie posted 4/25/2010 00:32 AM

Bump

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