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fooled09 posted 9/27/2010 14:58 PM

I agree with this post.
However, I would like to add that sometimes the WS is actually being pursued by the OW with full intent on making her move on them.
I feel that the WS is having thier ego stroked the right way by the wrong person.
I must say that I believe that it takes 2 people to have an A but this is just another perspective on how this could come about.

AttemptStrength posted 10/8/2010 13:00 PM

Bump

phoenix_vs posted 10/18/2010 12:22 PM

We need this up front again. It helps me feel better about myself, and that is a challenge when you've been pushed aside for an old girlfriend from ten years ago. He says all she did was complain. Wonder why he wanted to listen to her for another 1200 minutes? And all behind my back. Huh. Ya, I'm still upset.

Mama_of_3_Kids posted 10/18/2010 12:27 PM

It always makes me smile when I see this one bumped I am still angry, too, Phoenix...

takilasunrise posted 10/18/2010 14:19 PM

This post is almost a year old and been brought to the top by it's popularity.......and am I glad I got a chance to read it! My WH is packing to move out as I write this, so I really needed to read this. We are separating because he's having a hard time dealing with my emotional rollercoaster. And to top it off, the OW has been contacting (strike that, harassing) him for over a week now......and she is psycho! So, yes, this post is total truth!

AIHAH posted 10/18/2010 17:11 PM

I had to stop laughing in order to bump this thread.

The weak do indeed accept what ever "scrap" they can get since they are incapable of hunting on their own!

This made my day!

WHATDOIDONEXT posted 10/31/2010 18:43 PM

bump for newbies

Joyslyn posted 10/31/2010 19:36 PM

Really well said, DBB. Thank you!

The OW worked for me. I'm the President of the company. She was nothing. But nothing made him feel like something. How sad for them both.

I know my FWH is doing much better these days. Healthier in mind and soul. More whole. Not as broken.

At times of strength, I pray for the OW. How desperate and lonely she must have been. I am long past the days of desiring her demise. She lost everything for the "morsels" my FWH would toss her way. She lost her self-respect (if she ever had any); her job/income; her peers/friends at work. Probably her identity.

My life is forever changed because of what they did. But I'm okay. Two years later now... and I'm able to get through my nights without nightmares, and my days without tears. Well... some days I still cry. But I am loved. Always was. Even then. She wasn't... and never was.

StepAside posted 10/31/2010 19:37 PM

Very well said. Truley a light in these days of darkness. I especially approve of the use of the term 'herd' My WS MOW really is a cow, in all senses of the word.

StepAside posted 10/31/2010 19:43 PM

oops double post

[This message edited by StepAside at 7:47 PM, October 31st (Sunday)]

Pepper_95 posted 10/31/2010 22:30 PM

I guess my H situation was a semi EA where he took texting too far. She has a face like a horse and is the exact opposite of everything my H appreciates in a woman.

I know openly refer to her as Horseface and he knows who I am talking about.

booger bear posted 11/2/2010 21:19 PM

newbie bump

SisterMilkshake posted 11/8/2010 08:55 AM

neewbie bump!

starstruck posted 11/8/2010 09:08 AM

Thanks I needed that again!!

Shoestring posted 11/8/2010 09:09 AM

Is it no wonder why the OMM's wife hates my wife. He traded UP for his A. His wife ain't nothing to look at and my FWW and his wife know one another.

What I don't know is how to compare me with the OMM other than my FWW said he was bigger than me.

Boy doesn't that make me feel good or what? You can tell where my self esteem is, Huh?

3boysmom posted 11/8/2010 09:41 AM

Thanks! Love this!

SisterMilkshake posted 11/9/2010 10:25 AM

a bump for DearLord and other newbies

[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 10:26 AM, November 9th (Tuesday)]

SisterMilkshake posted 11/9/2010 10:27 AM

bump

SisterMilkshake posted 11/10/2010 10:16 AM

Newbie Bump!

hard_yards posted 11/11/2010 11:43 AM

bump bump

lordhasaplan? posted 11/11/2010 12:00 PM

Bumpin this as well. Definately the case in my situation as well. Not even in the same League, she admits that having the upperhand may have been a factor....

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