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kay09 posted 12/18/2010 01:28 AM

Thank you, for this. Deep down, I knew it to be true, but it's so nice to hear.

Junebug0525 posted 12/26/2010 09:48 AM

Bump

his_loss posted 12/26/2010 12:21 PM

The whore in our latest case is a dropout, welfare collecting scuzzball, complete with a neck tattoo...she is 10 years younger than me but looks 10 years older. She is also crackhead/malnourished thin. She lost custody of her kids. Me? I have two college degrees and have worked my whole adult life. I don't smoke or have any tattoos. I'm hot as hell, I cook, clean, cut hair...I do it all! and he cheated on me with that?!? *edited for typo.

[This message edited by his_loss at 12:42 PM, December 26th (Sunday)]

wordsfail posted 12/26/2010 12:32 PM

AMEN.

And, may I add, in terms of "sexual prowess" (as I know this, too, is one of the areas a person's self-worth can be dealt a killing blow by a betrayer)...it's my humble opinion the vast majority of us could run circles around the OP (other pig) in terms of doing the voodoo that we do so well .

Remember - the only thing that is probably being blown satisfactorily is the betrayer's MIND (i.e. "ego").

webmistress posted 12/26/2010 12:45 PM

Here here! Well said, and every word is true. It is pathetic. I was thinking about OW the other day and it occurred to me that if H had wanted her, he could have had her years ago. They are from the same town in CA, and he lived there for 5 months while we were dating. Did he seek her out then? NO. He got in his car with a suitcase, his dog and his cat and drove 3000 miles to ME. And even after the A....he got on a plane and still came back to me. So she's a two time loser. So so sad and pitiful.

Sofia58 posted 12/27/2010 06:38 AM

Thank you, thank you, thank you. This morning was a great morning for me to pick this post to read. I learned more about the A yesterday and drove by where she lives. The images of them in there are so vivid and painful I hardly made it through the night. Maybe this will help me have a better day today!

Sofia58 posted 12/27/2010 06:41 AM

Thank you, thank you, thank you. This morning was a great morning for me to pick this post to read. I learned more about the A yesterday and drove by where she lives. The images of them in there are so vivid and painful I hardly made it through the night. Maybe this will help me have a better day today!

cass posted 12/29/2010 10:51 AM

bumping

LostandGuilty posted 12/29/2010 12:04 PM

The OM in my situation has no job, is addicted to drugs, has no driver's license, does not have custody of his own son (his sister does), is on food stamps, and has been arrested three times in the past 10 years for drugs. I am a banker with a steady job, have a bachelor's and master's degree, adopted the two kids from her previous marriage, and am very stable. He does have more muscle than I do, but I contribute that to him having ALOT of more time than I do. She can have him. I am filing for D very soon.

[This message edited by LostandGuilty at 12:24 PM, December 29th (Wednesday)]

IntuitionKnows posted 12/29/2010 12:17 PM

I thought this post would be about how he says there were only 5 or 6 instances of sex so there probably was at least 10. Or how he claims it was like J-off in another person since I wasn't giving it up when a 22 year old slut was going to make it fun or How it always just kinda happéned when they were hanging out but he would go over after his weekend night job so that's preplanned.

I thought affiar down ment the details.

I'm glad I read.

I am working on taking my place back at recognizing his love is for me his life is with me that I am raising our kid in a good environment. That I am who is the one at the head of the ppack.

Until it happens again in 3 yrs...

(edited to add: I understand my first thought was probably trickle truth)

[This message edited by IntuitionKnows at 4:59 PM, December 29th (Wednesday)]

gunnisonbrown posted 1/2/2011 12:13 PM

Had to bump this!! Too many BW's need to read it and understand the insanity!!

dab110 posted 1/2/2011 12:33 PM

This is so wonderful! Thank you for bumping it up so that others can see it! The best part is that the OW actually told me that she thought we had a "loveless" marriage. When I saw those words, my mouth dropped open. However, I wasn't cold-hearted, I was a "very jealous person". Why? Because I didn't want some little ho-bag texting my husband all the time. Oh... And he said he couldn't meet up with her and her friends because I would get angry. What a crazy woman I am! LOL...

WAITING4HEALING posted 1/4/2011 13:01 PM

I love it!!!! It truly makes a lot of sense. Thanks for the inspiration and the rational with it.

Merlin posted 1/4/2011 13:44 PM

The OM in my situation has no job, is addicted to drugs, has no driver's license, does not have custody of his own son (his sister does), is on food stamps, and has been arrested three times in the past 10 years for drugs. I am a banker with a steady job, have a bachelor's and master's degree, adopted the two kids from her previous marriage, and am very stable. He does have more muscle than I do, but I contribute that to him having ALOT of more time than I do. She can have him. I am filing for D very soon.

Lost & Guilty,

I could have written this about my WW and OM. I did file right away though. You sure that our wives aren't seeing the same lowlife?

CB1971 posted 1/4/2011 13:52 PM

One of the reasons I finally decided to seperate and divorce is because I felt like I was the one who was with someone beneath me.

Go figure.

Muchstrongernow posted 1/4/2011 17:14 PM

WOW, I have to print this one!!!

NICE

ps, this supports my theory on my H's passive aggressive tendencies

gunnisonbrown posted 1/6/2011 09:27 AM

Bumping again!! Too many BW's need to read this!!

ajsmom posted 1/8/2011 20:54 PM

staying4thekids posted 1/8/2011 21:05 PM

Wow! I needed that!

lost kiki posted 1/8/2011 23:23 PM

This is my favorite Post i read it daily. Help to stop Obsessing dead in it's tracks.. So true in my situation..

sadeyes2011 posted 1/9/2011 14:03 PM

THANK YOU! i needed that! I know that i am a successful woman who went to college, works at a university and just was asked if i wanted a promotion. OW is in a basically non-existent job, has no future, has 3 kids herself (we have one and one on the way) WH constantly told me that he felt sorry for her, etc. I felt exactly what you wrote but with it being so fresh it is hard to get complete peace and understanding, so this helped so much! I know i am better than her and she was someone who would listen to him and take all of his bad parts and ignore them for her own selfish satisfaction. OW was looking for someone to give her the self esteem as her husband just left her, because she was not a good wife, etc.

I AM BETTER! SHE IS SCUM!

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