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inmisery1 posted 1/21/2011 02:38 AM

The OW in my case is a karoake hostess in a bar, I did a little internet search. Turns out, here in Japan karoake bars are fronts for prostition. My H tells me she told him she is 42, but he saw her immigration card and she is actually 48, also she is a grandmother. I've seen her picture(found his email, she sent him pictures) I expected to see this beautiful asian woman, instead she is unattractive woman with an abnormally large head ( a lot bigger than my husbands) so basically my h chose to jeapordize our 25 year relationship with an ugly hooker with a short shelf and a big head

hurttothebone posted 1/22/2011 11:55 AM

so many people out there hurting. Seems like at least 2 out of 3 people I know have been through this. WOW. Bump.

hurttothebone posted 1/24/2011 19:46 PM

This is a good read for newbies. Bump.

Faith2011 posted 1/24/2011 20:14 PM

My WH had the audacity to brightly ask me what I thought of his skank from her pic on FB?!

I muttered "nothing special". She is no more attractive than me except she's slimmer. But for what's inside? Honey she's low enough to go for a man who is in a relationship, she's CHEATING on her husband, therefore she's a liar, a cheat and a user.

Rise And Shine posted 1/24/2011 20:29 PM

she is unattractive woman with an abnormally large head ( a lot bigger than my husbands)

boudicca posted 1/27/2011 15:09 PM

bump

bfmvalentine posted 1/27/2011 15:30 PM

Thanks for this motivation today, my self esteem is hurtin at the moment. I can take solace in the fact though that from his pictures, my WW's OM very closely resembles the characted Sloth from the movie the Goonies

girlsbird posted 1/27/2011 15:35 PM

Your not kidding. I got to find out what "IT" looked like from a Department of Corrections photo..Very flattering.

tryingtosmile posted 1/27/2011 17:39 PM

This is awesome. Thank you xoxo

gunnisonbrown posted 2/4/2011 14:14 PM

bumpity bump!!!

IntuitionKnows posted 2/4/2011 22:09 PM

Bump cause too many new folks these last couple of days

velveteer posted 2/5/2011 09:57 AM

I LOVE this - it really speaks to my situation and is very helpful to me today

TryingMyHardest posted 2/5/2011 12:37 PM

I think about this all the time. You can find my posts in here from a year ago or so.

OM #1: Patient transporter in the hospital, a friend of mine did that as a volunteer in high school

OM#2: Fat guy, old high school boyfriend, unemployed, no college

OM#3: Who knows? Nothing's come out of the woodwork yet.

This guy? Good lookin', good money, gradate school, excellent father, excellent cook.

If WS married you, you're probably the best they could find. So they're not gonna top you.

phoenix_vs posted 2/6/2011 16:37 PM

So, I read this every time it gets bumped, and it made me feel a little better, and then it hit me:

What's wrong with us?

We're not ugly enough![/bold

[This message edited by phoenix_vs at 4:39 PM, February 6th (Sunday)]

IntuitionKnows posted 2/11/2011 09:53 AM

Bumped because this helped me through so much!

surprisedfool posted 2/11/2011 10:32 AM

OM#1 - old boyfriend, hate him but can understand attraction

OM#2 dirty old man in all its meanings. Could only perform some of the time. Really!!!

OM#3 wtf???? just a piece of trash that is falling apart.

OM#4 expect it to be equal to roadkill.

I guess I should feel better that WW affaired down but instead it just sickens me. How could I have been married to that?

Ms_Strong posted 2/11/2011 11:01 AM

Thank you DDB.

deathbybetrayal posted 2/11/2011 21:16 PM

IntuitionKnows posted 2/11/2011 21:20 PM

SurprisedFool,

I totally hear what you are saying and I can feel that she really hurt you.

I haven't read ALL the responses, but I'm wondering if this may be a male /female diff. It seems that the BW's identify more with with the post.

I'm wondering how the bh experince is different in dealing with the choice of OP.

hissadwife posted 2/11/2011 21:37 PM

My WH had the audacity to brightly ask me what I thought of his skank from her pic on FB?!

Oh my God, Faith! If FWH said that to me they'd be the last words he spoke through his own teeth.

scamper10 posted 2/12/2011 11:01 AM

bump

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