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User Topic: Honey, they always affair down
inmisery1
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Default  Posted: 2:38 AM, January 21st (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The OW in my case is a karoake hostess in a bar, I did a little internet search. Turns out, here in Japan karoake bars are fronts for prostition. My H tells me she told him she is 42, but he saw her immigration card and she is actually 48, also she is a grandmother. I've seen her picture(found his email, she sent him pictures) I expected to see this beautiful asian woman, instead she is unattractive woman with an abnormally large head ( a lot bigger than my husbands) so basically my h chose to jeapordize our 25 year relationship with an ugly hooker with a short shelf and a big head

Posts: 234 | Registered: Jan 2011
hurttothebone
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Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, January 22nd (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

so many people out there hurting. Seems like at least 2 out of 3 people I know have been through this. WOW. Bump.

Posts: 111 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: PA
hurttothebone
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, January 24th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is a good read for newbies. Bump.

Posts: 111 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: PA
Faith2011
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, January 24th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH had the audacity to brightly ask me what I thought of his skank from her pic on FB?!

I muttered "nothing special". She is no more attractive than me except she's slimmer. But for what's inside? Honey she's low enough to go for a man who is in a relationship, she's CHEATING on her husband, therefore she's a liar, a cheat and a user.


BS me
XNPDWH him
DDay Jan 2011

"Live the best life possible."


Posts: 356 | Registered: Jan 2011
Rise And Shine
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, January 24th (Monday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

she is unattractive woman with an abnormally large head ( a lot bigger than my husbands)


April 25, 2009

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boudicca
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, January 27th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bump

Posts: 2529 | Registered: Nov 2010
bfmvalentine
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, January 27th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for this motivation today, my self esteem is hurtin at the moment. I can take solace in the fact though that from his pictures, my WW's OM very closely resembles the characted Sloth from the movie the Goonies


Me BS 38
WW 35
DDAY 8/9/10
Married 7 years
1 5yr old special needs son

Posts: 94 | Registered: Dec 2010
girlsbird
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, January 27th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your not kidding. I got to find out what "IT" looked like from a Department of Corrections photo..Very flattering.


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: arizona
tryingtosmile
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Default  Posted: 5:39 PM, January 27th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is awesome. Thank you xoxo


B/S Me 37
W/S Him 37
OW Former Coworker OC born 5/11
4 DS 18,17,11,6 months

Posts: 273 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: TX
gunnisonbrown
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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, February 4th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

bumpity bump!!!


ME - BS - 46
WH - 51
Together 28 years, married 25 years
Two teenage sons
D-Day #1 - 10/29/10


Posts: 233 | Registered: Nov 2010
IntuitionKnows
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, February 4th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bump cause too many new folks these last couple of days


The affair wasn't the worst...

Posts: 400 | Registered: Dec 2010
velveteer
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Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, February 5th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I LOVE this - it really speaks to my situation and is very helpful to me today


Divorced

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TryingMyHardest
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, February 5th (Saturday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think about this all the time. You can find my posts in here from a year ago or so.

OM #1: Patient transporter in the hospital, a friend of mine did that as a volunteer in high school

OM#2: Fat guy, old high school boyfriend, unemployed, no college

OM#3: Who knows? Nothing's come out of the woodwork yet.

This guy? Good lookin', good money, gradate school, excellent father, excellent cook.

If WS married you, you're probably the best they could find. So they're not gonna top you.


Married 2006
2 kids, 4yo
D-Day 1: December 30th 2009
D-Day 2: 2/1/11
D-day 3: 2/13/11
D-Day 4: 3/28/11
WW Drug addict for 2 years, Morphine, Fentanyl, Xanax, clean since June '09
5 OM, about 20 seperate sexual encounters

Posts: 215 | Registered: Jan 2010
phoenix_vs
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, February 6th (Sunday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, I read this every time it gets bumped, and it made me feel a little better, and then it hit me:

What's wrong with us?

We're not ugly enough![/bold

[This message edited by phoenix_vs at 4:39 PM, February 6th (Sunday)]


I'm not sad that you lied to me. I'm sad that I can never believe you again.

Well, I'm sad that you lied to me, too.


Posts: 371 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Great Falls Montana
IntuitionKnows
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Default  Posted: 9:53 AM, February 11th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bumped because this helped me through so much!


The affair wasn't the worst...

Posts: 400 | Registered: Dec 2010
surprisedfool
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, February 11th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OM#1 - old boyfriend, hate him but can understand attraction

OM#2 dirty old man in all its meanings. Could only perform some of the time. Really!!!

OM#3 wtf???? just a piece of trash that is falling apart.

OM#4 expect it to be equal to roadkill.

I guess I should feel better that WW affaired down but instead it just sickens me. How could I have been married to that?


me: BH 40ish
her: WW 40ish
married 20+ years
"love is a four letter word"

Posts: 68 | Registered: Jun 2009
Ms_Strong
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Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, February 11th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you DDB.


Me: 40, happily divorced Dec11
D-Day #1 - 9th Jan 11, D-Day #2 - 13th Jan 11
Kids - 4, 8 yrs

Posts: 269 | Registered: Jan 2011
deathbybetrayal
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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, February 11th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Married 10 years at DDay
Me: 53 Him: 52 - Desperately trying to unfuck the donkey.
DDay: July 16, 2008
FWH Epiphany: Aug.23, 2008 NC: Aug. 28, 2008

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IntuitionKnows
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Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, February 11th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SurprisedFool,

I totally hear what you are saying and I can feel that she really hurt you.

I haven't read ALL the responses, but I'm wondering if this may be a male /female diff. It seems that the BW's identify more with with the post.

I'm wondering how the bh experince is different in dealing with the choice of OP.


The affair wasn't the worst...

Posts: 400 | Registered: Dec 2010
hissadwife
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Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, February 11th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH had the audacity to brightly ask me what I thought of his skank from her pic on FB?!

Oh my God, Faith! If FWH said that to me they'd be the last words he spoke through his own teeth.


Does this wedding ring make my dick look big?

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